Do Bisexual men actually settle down with men?
- Thread starter therebrand
- Start date
LMAO what?? You've literally been saying the complete opposite, that bi men are never upfront about not wanting a relationship with men.
Urien
Superior Member
- Joined
- Feb 16, 2021
- Posts
- 1,875
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 6,649
- Points
- 233
- Location
- London (Greater London, England)
- Sexuality
- Pansexual
No. That is not what you've been saying. The Scottish guy in my post is not the villain in this story. We've been talking for months, and we're still attracted to one another, but we want different things from this interaction. We're both in our 30s, so we both know very clearly what we want. He can't be a potential romantic partner and I won't allow myself to be a fuck buddy only. We talk it out.
Welcome to adulthood.
@mitchellk
I've had some bisexual experience, and there is certainly a type of female that consistently attracts me. But yeah I can't see myself falling in love with a woman like I can with a man.
Maybe I lack imagination? Or maybe I just never met the right woman.
Men are also so damn wonderful, it's hard not to want to be with them <3
Thank you. I am always surprised when language changes and helps you see yourself differently.
I actually said bi men like your Scottish friend should be upfront is they are romantically attracted to men
Although I believe that bi-sexual men, in general, are not likely to settle down with other men, I believe that those who do so are more likdely to do it when they are older.
Yes, that is a likely situation in which they might find themselves. It is at such a time in their lives that the idea of committing themselves emotionally to other men would no longer produce the same fears that it would have during the overwhelming confusion of their youth.
This isn’t fair to the women they used and divorced. These women have given up all their prime years to be dumped because closeted bi men were too scared to live their truth. Now that they’re old they want to settle down with a man. Gay men should not reward these bad behaviours. Let them go settle down with each other when they’re old.
Urien
Superior Member
- Joined
- Feb 16, 2021
- Posts
- 1,875
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 6,649
- Points
- 233
- Location
- London (Greater London, England)
- Sexuality
- Pansexual
How is this any different to a man leaving a woman for another woman?
There is no special punishment for bi men who leave their wives for men, anymore than there is for leaving a woman.
The statement at the end "Gay men should..." - You are talking about 10s of millions potentially hundreds of millions of people. Nobody "should" do anything like this.
Yeah, because never in history has a closeted gay man married a woman.
Do you see me defending closeted gay men who marry women?
No, I see you pretending it's exclusively a bi men thing.
When and where did I imply that only bi men leave their spouses? The big difference that y’all bisexuals fail to understand is the deception and it’s not equally the same as leaving for another heterosexual. A bi man using a woman until she’s old then dumping her for a man hurts a lot more is very damaging to women. Just like when a bi men dump a gay man for a woman it’s hurts more and is damaging to the mental health of gay men.
Anyway, I’m over this thread. Seems it’s already dead because of the censorship. I won’t be the one to give it life.
And gay men and women rejecting bi men just for being bisexual is damaging to bisexual mens mental health as well.
Everything is bisexual men's fault. They are of the devil ya know!! The poor gays and the poor women, if they only dated gay men and str8 men respectively, they would have almost no relationship problems I'm sure...
They would not have to worry about potentially getting dumped, since at least they would be dumped for someone of the same sex or something?
They would not have to worry about potentially getting dumped, since at least they would be dumped for someone of the same sex or something?
Similar threads
