clearly those of us of a 'certain age' have been more aware and seen these things happen more frequently than some of our younger contributors!! ?
Do gay guys actually have sex in public at gay bars?
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clearly those of us of a 'certain age' have been more aware and seen these things happen more frequently than some of our younger contributors!! ?
I've done it in bars, in public toilets, on the train going home and even in the Queen's garden.
I didn't come out till I was approaching my 40s and I emerged onto what was a terrific and vibrant gay scene in London. I'm talking the early 2000s when I had a lot of time to make up for.
There was a whole range of bars then going to from the glass and chrome palaces to the sleazy joints where the carpet stuck to your feet.
There was also a huge sauna scene which at its peak number 14 different establishments.
I had a whale of a time, but I was very glad of the safety culture that had been created in the wake of Aids. I genuinely given thanks that I was very luck to have missed that risk.
In the intervening years it's all been terribly downhill.
Can you believe that London is down to less than seven saunas? And in the West End there was a choice of about 17 bars. That's gone down to about 8.
First, Gaydar was the big spoiler. Then came all the apps and people no longer had to go bars if they want to hook up with someone and that an awful lot of the buzz out of the scene. Saunas especially lost their horniness as straight or attached people were no longer there eager to get their rocks off.
The other real assault on the gay scene then was Westminster City Council which too monitoring the bars and clamping down on lewd behaviour and all that. Said it was damaging the tourist industry. Fkkk that. Half the people were tourists.
I'm not entirely sure who makes themselves the great finger wagger in the sky, but there a sense that as gay rights have been asserted and discrimination clamped down on, that somehow, we're expected to clean up our act and sanitise our naughty ways. 'You're the same as us now. So, no more sex in bars and bushes on the heath!' I've heard people say.
Go to the hell, I think.
In previous comments I've read all about date rate drugs this and unsafe that and I do respect those points of view, but this talk of 'desexualisation' is just another form of repression, it seems to me.
As for the safety aspect, Serial killers Dennis Nielsen and Colin Ireland preyed on the gay bars, but in much more recent times Stephen Port and Reynhard Sinaga did not.
Killers like that will always be around.
The bars that I knew of old were very responsible environments. Bar staff had keen eyes and they had a strong sense of looking out for their clientele and the culture was the same amongst the regulars.
I personally wish more bars would seek private members club status then, for one thing, we wouldn't have to put up with Friday/Saturday harridans dancing around their handbags.
Finally, speaking for myself, I'm only interested in exclusively gay bars. That's where the fun was and I wish we could get it back.
I didn't come out till I was approaching my 40s and I emerged onto what was a terrific and vibrant gay scene in London. I'm talking the early 2000s when I had a lot of time to make up for.
There was a whole range of bars then going to from the glass and chrome palaces to the sleazy joints where the carpet stuck to your feet.
There was also a huge sauna scene which at its peak number 14 different establishments.
I had a whale of a time, but I was very glad of the safety culture that had been created in the wake of Aids. I genuinely given thanks that I was very luck to have missed that risk.
In the intervening years it's all been terribly downhill.
Can you believe that London is down to less than seven saunas? And in the West End there was a choice of about 17 bars. That's gone down to about 8.
First, Gaydar was the big spoiler. Then came all the apps and people no longer had to go bars if they want to hook up with someone and that an awful lot of the buzz out of the scene. Saunas especially lost their horniness as straight or attached people were no longer there eager to get their rocks off.
The other real assault on the gay scene then was Westminster City Council which too monitoring the bars and clamping down on lewd behaviour and all that. Said it was damaging the tourist industry. Fkkk that. Half the people were tourists.
I'm not entirely sure who makes themselves the great finger wagger in the sky, but there a sense that as gay rights have been asserted and discrimination clamped down on, that somehow, we're expected to clean up our act and sanitise our naughty ways. 'You're the same as us now. So, no more sex in bars and bushes on the heath!' I've heard people say.
Go to the hell, I think.
In previous comments I've read all about date rate drugs this and unsafe that and I do respect those points of view, but this talk of 'desexualisation' is just another form of repression, it seems to me.
As for the safety aspect, Serial killers Dennis Nielsen and Colin Ireland preyed on the gay bars, but in much more recent times Stephen Port and Reynhard Sinaga did not.
Killers like that will always be around.
The bars that I knew of old were very responsible environments. Bar staff had keen eyes and they had a strong sense of looking out for their clientele and the culture was the same amongst the regulars.
I personally wish more bars would seek private members club status then, for one thing, we wouldn't have to put up with Friday/Saturday harridans dancing around their handbags.
Finally, speaking for myself, I'm only interested in exclusively gay bars. That's where the fun was and I wish we could get it back.
I live in Columbus, OH and there was a bar here called Exile. It closed a few years ago, but, before it did it was a great place to go to get a handjob or blowjob. You'd either find action in the men's room or out back on the patio around the fence. Before they had remodeled Sunday nights were the best because they had strippers. I got several blowjobs each night there back then. Just go over by the pool tables, pull out your cock and somebody would be on his knees within seconds sucking cock.
I've had sex on my the grounds of my old school, just outside the science department, I grew up on a council estate & had sex in several places like down the alley ways that led to the back gardens, the garages that were open, in the bushes at the end of neighbours gardens. Also had sex/been sucked off at a bus station, under a railway bridge, on another railway bridge slightly further down the track, fucked many times in the woods. One guy I grew up with who was the "local troublemaker" I fucked him in his parents bed. Only once in public toilets, I was fucking a cute chav lad, his trackies round his ankles, blue ralph lauren polo shirt lifted up & his cap on backwards, he had the nicest arse I've ever fucked, when we come out of the cubicle there were 2 guys stood at the urinal wanking each other with an old guy watch from the other cubicle. Never done anything in a pub/bar toilets.
Yes. In Orlando, we have Hank's and Barcodes, which are about a block apart from each other. Both have patio areas where all the action goes on.
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Absolutely. There was a back room at a place that I used to DJ. I had all kinds of action back there. It didn't have to be hidden away either. I was spinning some tunes at a flouro night (80s tunes) and there was this spunky number getting head at the edge of the dancefloor. I've gone down on someone in the middle of a rave. There were thousands of people surrounding us, so it wasn't visible to more than a handful of people.
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I also had a drunk guy wander up to me in the middle of a heaving bar crowd, drop to his ankles and suck me off in front of everyone.
If only I saw this thread when travel wasn’t so restricted. I’ve got to say that the COVID-19 lockdown has really made me miss the cruising bar scene.
The only time I had sex with a guy at a bar was in Pittsburgh. It was a sports bar and the guy was straight and drunk. I walked into the bathroom to piss and he was at the urinal next to me. I took a peek at his sizable cock and he stepped back and began to stroke. I pulled him into a stall and sucked him off.
I've never been at a gay bar where I've seen any sex happening.
I've never been at a gay bar where I've seen any sex happening.
In the notoriously naughty gay bar/club the Curzon in Liverpool , a lot of naughty stuff like this happened but in the upstairs bar not the main bar.You could see some men wanking in the corners of the main bar because this pub club used to show gay porn videos there.But upstairs it wasnt unheard of for people to openly give blowjobs , pull down their toy boys pants and fondle their bum in front of an audience etc
Very fruity stuff!!
Very fruity stuff!!
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When we used to go to New Orleans we made sure we would finish out the night at Rawhide. My partner and I have an open relationship so we made sure we both would have fun. It wasn't unusual for me to cum several times in just a couple of hours and take a few loads as well. Now I hear it's not like that any more.
There was a bar in St Louis that was a fun dive bar with very strong drinks. We were told that the owner was very strict about no sexual acts taking place. You couldn't even pull your dick out unless you were in the men's room and even that was watched closely. The bathroom had about 10 urinals on two sides tightly packed next to each other. I had to take a piss one night so I stood at an urinal next to another guy. My dick was half hard thinking about all the dicks that hang out there and the smell the room had. The guy next to me grabbed my dick and started jacking me off. It felt so good so I just let him do his thing. Another guy stood on the other side of me to block anyone from seeing. In a few minutes I was squirting my load into the guys other hand as he squeezed my dick with the other. I saw him lick my cum from his hand as i zipped up and staggered out. It was such a good experience and I still get hard thinking about it.
There was a bar in St Louis that was a fun dive bar with very strong drinks. We were told that the owner was very strict about no sexual acts taking place. You couldn't even pull your dick out unless you were in the men's room and even that was watched closely. The bathroom had about 10 urinals on two sides tightly packed next to each other. I had to take a piss one night so I stood at an urinal next to another guy. My dick was half hard thinking about all the dicks that hang out there and the smell the room had. The guy next to me grabbed my dick and started jacking me off. It felt so good so I just let him do his thing. Another guy stood on the other side of me to block anyone from seeing. In a few minutes I was squirting my load into the guys other hand as he squeezed my dick with the other. I saw him lick my cum from his hand as i zipped up and staggered out. It was such a good experience and I still get hard thinking about it.
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There used to be a bar in East St. Louis (on the Illinois side of the Mississippi River) that was very popular after the bars closed in St. Louis. About 2am, the place would be packed, the lower level was a men's only level, that had gay porn playing on the TV screens. It also had a piano bar and a dark room. Originally, the dark room was a room by itself that had no lights and anything and everything went on in there. Later on, it was an area where the walls were chain link fencing and other guy's could watch you. The bar closed at 4am (I believe) but the lower level men only bar stayed open much later. I remember leaving there 6 or 7 in the morning many times, walking out of a dark bar into the bright sunshine. I miss that place!
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