do you find exhibitionism and general sexual honesty attractive in a man?

[dreambridger]

just kind of curious about various women's mindsets. Do you like your man to be proud and shameless in his libido around others, or do you prefer a modest man that keeps his sex drive more private?

depending on which is your preference, why?

speaking as a gay man, in the gay world, we're, for the most, very much open books about our sexuality and our lifestyles and it can be hard to make us blush. I've noticed that's much less true with straight men, and I wonder if any of that is due to the preference of their female partner as to how they should behave. I'd guess there's not a general answer and every woman probably has a different take on this, but I thought I'd ask anyway. Do you like your boys loud and proud, or quiet and private? and why?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Perverts and predators are the ones who think it's acceptable to tell random people they're constantly horny.

And, everyone kinda already knows that men are always horny.

It is a huge red flag when anyone is too comfortable telling people in casual or professional settings which aren't sexual in nature all about their libido.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Exhibitionism is a kink, not “honesty.”

 

[Acquar]

A man that is really sure about himself and emotionally/socially intelligent, exudes sexuality without the need of exhibitionism... I mean, there's no need to be openly obvious, subtlety in much more powerful in my opinion.

 

[deleted19151801]

we're, for the most, very much open books about our sexuality and our lifestyles and it can be hard to make us blush. I've noticed that's much less true with straight men,

Where? Straight men never shut up about how much they sexually objectify women. Have you never listened to a rap song? Their entire identity hinges on how much they express a desire for ass and titties. There is literally a song called "Ass N' Titties."

Where is this supposed "straight male sexual inhibition" of which you speak? I certainly would love to move to wherever the hell that magical land of peace, quiet, and unviolated personal space is.

 

[ibex231]

I don’t like men bragging about having sex with me. Also guys, at least straight ones, who make a big deal out of how much sex they have are usually lying because their dick doesn’t work. In my experience.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Where? Straight men never shut up about how much they sexually objectify women. Have you never listened to a rap song? Their entire identity hinges on how much they express a desire for ass and titties. There is literally a song called "Ass N' Titties."

Where is this supposed "straight male sexual inhibition" of which you speak? I certainly would love to move to wherever the hell that magical land of peace, quiet, and unviolated personal space is.

Don’t forget Titties n Beer (Zappa) and Why Don’t We Get Drunk and Screw (Buffet)