Posted this on the general forum and I forgot straights often don't need to. I was reading a porn story where they fuck without it. OMG! I can't imagine.
I have a top buddy who eats my hole for at least 15 minutes before fucking me. We usually 69 right before fucking with him eating my ass and me sucking his cock. I slobber generously on his cock, it runs down over his balls—it’s really wet. The combo of his spit in my fully eaten out hole and mine on his cock is enough to fuck with. I learned he doesn’t care for lube because he gets off on eating my ass in between fucking it. He’ll pull out and just chow down on my open hole...then re-enter and start fucking away. He repeats that 3 to 4 times over the course of fucking my hole. It’s so hot. He is the only top that I’ve been with who does that—otherwise, lube.
I had a fuck buddy who was well hung and when I went over to his place, I knew he was going to rim my ass until it was very wet and I would suck his dick and get it wet before he would fuck me. We never used lube, in fact, I don't think he ever had any at his place. But he would always say, "If if ain't spit, it ain't love!"It really does depend on how spontaneous the fuck is but I have fucked my husband a number of times with a well-rimmed and wet hole alone (sometimes at his insistence) and that has been absolutely fine. I suppose it is a case also of knowing your partners limits and sometimes a bit of rough is fun but it can also be hugely regretted too, owed to a very sore cock haha