Recently met with a 9incher mostly bottom, but who liked getting sucked. Beautiful thick large cock. However, I like reciprocation when doing oral but all he did was just lie down, smoke and enjoy getting blown. He did blowjob me only when I brought my dick into his mouth while he was still lying down, and it was terrible. I did fuck him in the end though, but the thought of non-reciprocation spoiled what could have been a fantastic fuck.
I am generally a brain type of guy and need some kind of chemistry for things to work. The chemistry with this guy was, I will admit, his huge dick, which overshadowed all other problems for a while until we came (twice). He texted me some days after and told me to meet again, I explained that I needed more communication for the thing to work and him not insisting on blowing him all the time and he kind of agreed to respect that, but coronavirus happened shortly after. In your experience, would another encounter be any different or is he hardwired to be so passive due to his huge dick that I shouldn't expect something more?
I admit that when horny I sometimes think about his huge tool, but on the other hand my logic tells me that I shouldn't reinforce such behaviors and travel the great distance he lives at just for the story to repeat itself.