Do you show or grow? Do you wish you aways looked big?

[Hugo20]

Shower or grower?
soft I'm 5" x 4.7", hard 7.7" x 5.9"

 

[dirk8989]

I would consider myself a grower

 

[Cooper72]

I’m a major grower. Soft I am tiny. I wish I was more of a shower. I’m satisfied with my erect size. My first wife made fun of my flaccid size the first time she saw it. She said I thought it would be bigger. That has stuck with me since.

 

[thebedwizard93]

I am quite the grower. It does in fact bug me sometimes that I am not a shower. First impressions sexually with women and locker room interactions is where I feel it the most. Can't just always be rock hard in those situations... kinda tough. But I am happy overall with my junior!

 

[aliuel]

I am quite the grower. It does in fact bug me sometimes that I am not a shower. First impressions sexually with women and locker room interactions is where I feel it the most. Can't just always be rock hard in those situations... kinda tough. But I am happy overall with my junior!

I feel you on this one. At under an inch flaccid, I am always aware of my tiny size when around others and how noticeable this impression is. As my erect size is decent though, it luckily isn’t much of an issue in sexual situations.

 

[Murphys]

I am quite the grower. It does in fact bug me sometimes that I am not a shower. First impressions sexually with women and locker room interactions is where I feel it the most. Can't just always be rock hard in those situations... kinda tough. But I am happy overall with my junior!

Very relatable!!

 

[biguyywg]

Major grower here….showing more would be nice. Back in my dating days I loved it when a woman started sucking me while completely soft (2.5” or so) and watching her face while it grows to 7.5” in her mouth…

 

[JBrown61]

I'm more of a grower than anything, but I do get a good bit of length and girth when it's warm and humid out or after a shower.
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[0Pippo]

50%. 8 cm limp, 12 cm hard.

 

[frisian111]

Of course I always want to look big. That's why I try to look the biggest that I can.

 

[Mynameispony]

Definitely a grower, not big at all till erect which can cause some surprise how big it gets!

 

[Murphys]

Definitely a grower, not big at all till erect which can cause some surprise how big it gets!

Ditto.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

I've honestly never been able to decide - because I kinda do both. My flaccid length is from 4.5" to 5.5" (depending on size and whether I hold it or let it hang) which is definitely big enough to show a bulge no matter what I wear. But the size change when hard (a little over 8" BP, or 7.5" NBP) puts me in grower territory.

I like my size - but I don't think I would want to look much bigger!

 

[rbi99]

Here's a great article that breaks this whole thing down in easy to understand logic (Grower vs. Shower Calculator: What it means and how you fit in). I am glad that I am a shower because I don't walk around with an erection but I don't mind at all letting my shit hang free and bounce around up against the lightweight material that I wear.