Embarrassed to hook up because I cum so quickly

[Stephenmass]

There is a such thing as desensitizing spray or lotion you apply straight to your penis. It harmlessly numbs it up a little and allows you to enjoy more. It gradually wears off and you begin to feel sensations again and getting close to cumming. Check out adult novelty sites or local adult stores, it's there.

If they put a condom on over their cock after desensitizing it, that could help as well. The biggest problem with the desensitizing spray or lotion is if not using a condom, it will also numb the person you are fucking and they don't always like that.

 

[Stephenmass]

I'm of the opinion that if it bothers the OP, then it is a problem FOR HIM. I'd man up like you said early on and speak to your doctor. There are things he may be able to prescribe that will hold you off. But like many have said, any body worth having is worth having, cumming quickly or not. My b/f used to be a quick cummer, now it takes him a very long time. Now I wish he were quicker!! LOL!

 

[ss7979]

If she’s hot enough, I have time, and it’s the first nut of the day then yeah. I will out her on it to suck then fuck out another load .

 

[CaligulaMisunderstood]

There is a such thing as desensitizing spray or lotion you apply straight to your penis. It harmlessly numbs it up a little and allows you to enjoy more. It gradually wears off and you begin to feel sensations again and getting close to cumming. Check out adult novelty sites or local adult stores, it's there.

I have had that suggested but I have zero experience with that. I have wanted to buy a cockring forever

 

[coolestguy]

I have had that suggested but I have zero experience with that. I have wanted to buy a cockring forever

Buy silicone rings if you are first timer. It is safer.

 

[HairyAFBro]

The spray might help, cock ring might help too. Also, never hurts to talk to the doctor, that's what you pay them for.

You might have said and I missed it, but what's your reload time?

 

[David_prem]

I am a premature ejaculator, and even my bates are short i enjoy them very much. If you are a PE too and want to chat or have a good time with people like yourself join our skype group
https://join.skype.com/Je8BCibSOJWe

 

[mander5161]

Investigate tramadol or ultram on the net.

 

[Ben Tramer]

I am a premature ejaculator, and even my bates are short i enjoy them very much. If you are a PE too and want to chat or have a good time with people like yourself join our skype group
https://join.skype.com/Je8BCibSOJWe

Do you fire off really forcefully? There have been times I was so horny I unloaded within seconds of having my dick out and it sprayed everywhere. It felt fantastic.

 

[David_prem]

Do you fire off really forcefully? There have been times I was so horny I unloaded within seconds of having my dick out and it sprayed everywhere. It felt fantastic.

Hi there, in my case my premature ejaculation comes as a result of friction (penetration, oral, masturbation).
It is true that being extra horny can accelerate and increase de explotion of pleasure.

 

[Ben Tramer]

Hi there, in my case my premature ejaculation comes as a result of friction (penetration, oral, masturbation).

It is true that being extra horny can accelerate and increase de explotion of pleasure.

Do you ever shoot off in your underwear just from seeing something erotic? I sometimes do. I will easily tip past the PONR with just the friction of my underwear. This has happened at work when I was looking at porn and I had to go clean myself up. I just could not stop the onset of the orgasm and I unloaded into my underwear.

 

[David_prem]

Hi there, in my case my premature ejaculation comes as a result of friction (penetration, oral, masturbation).

Do you ever shoot off in your underwear just from seeing something erotic? I sometimes do. I will easily tip past the PONR with just the friction of my underwear. This has happened at work when I was looking at porn and I had to go clean myself up. I just could not stop the onset of the orgasm and I unloaded into my underwear.

Can't say i have but it sounds amazing. I can stay hard for ages without cumming as lons as there is not long term rubbing or any kind of friction.
I have heard of people cumming like you before tough, it depends on each person.

 

[Ben Tramer]

I ac

Can't say i have but it sounds amazing. I can stay hard for ages without cumming as lons as there is not long term rubbing or any kind of friction.
I have heard of people cumming like you before tough, it depends on each person.

I actually love being a hair-trigger guy and I love being with a man who shoots off instantly. I find it extremely attractive and sexy. I know if I am looking at porn I have to be really careful if I am somewhere that the mess would be a problem.

 

[JCCramer]

What worked for me in the past: Put some numbing cream inside a condom and roll it on. Takes about 30 minutes to work but then you’re good to go for about 30 minutes. Just make sure to wipe it off and use another condom for the main event (creams degrade the latex). If you’re willing to use thicker condoms (would also help with the PE) you can keep some cream inside the new condom and it will last until you finish without much risk of breakage.

 

[PutItInHere691]

A lot of the problem is.. not all of it.. is control.. when get too excited and stuff it makes your hormones move faster ..

With me I was mostly a bottom so when cumming while getting screwed makes the top happy..

But I was with guys/girls. Where is cum sometimes before I penetrated .. so I told this one guy I may not last long and he was like.. it’s ok .. I’d stay erect afterwards .. so he’d just tell me to keep fucking .. so I did. Wishing 5 minutes I may have came 3 more times..


but over several months it seemed like I was lasting longer and longer.. as I was beginning to be able to control it more .. now I can last a good 20 to 20 minutes …

So if you cum quickly and stay erect .. buy a flashlight and fuck it over and over .. see if few months your can control it some ..

But I don’t treat anyone that cums quickly any different.. if he cums 5 times in 10 minutes that’s a lot a cum can swallow hehe

 

[deleted24352111]

I know it probably is frustrating, but trust me… there’s lots of guys like me out there who think this is extremely hot

 

[Ben Tramer]

Hair-trigger guys are extremely hot. I wish there was more porn of guys shooting off in their pants while making out or guys who unload as their pants are being removed. A lot of these men have extremely short refractory periods and simply keep going off as many times as it takes. That’s a shit load of excitement and semen being fired off. I’d much rather be with one of these guys than someone who takes forever to get to the finish line.

 

[Evenflow618]

Are u doing kegels

 

[deleted23476111]

I cum quick too when very horny- have cum in my pants hands-free a few times, just from having a guy shoot in my mouth. Only goes to show how the brain is the biggest sexual organ!

I have the same thing, I cum after 30 seconds of stroking my cock, and when I watch porn I’m able to cum hands free in my pants (so basically when I edge I don’t touch my cock at all, it leaks a lot of precum and sometimes cums on its own when I’m not careful enough). So when I’m at work or in the bus I sometimes cum without any stimulation, only by friction of my underwear.

 

[Evenflow618]

Kegels and work on powering your mind. Also repeating affirmations that are targeting your premature ejaculation will help you. For example, “I have control over my ejaculations”