Your "?" reveals much. He was encouraging you. It was an acknowledgment you have received quite a lot of very good advice and support. But you reject it all and your "?" is the symbol of a long line of passive-aggressive responses from you.
feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks
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He said I was improving, but I wasn't sure on what basis since I never displayed any basis of improvement, which was why I expressed my confusion with a question mark. And I wouldn't consider my responses to be passive aggressive - I tried to be as direct as possible with how I felt in response to what people have said on this thread.
As I said, he was trying to encourage you and you rejected that encouragement. At least you've been steadfast in that.
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Considering that he was just considering engaging with this post to be "beating a dead corpse," I think I have a right to be at least a little confused by the encouragement.
Well, one of you is wrong and I think it's the one who confused the phrase, "beating a dead horse" with "beating a dead corpse." Unless you were being ironic on Halloween.
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Oh, you thought it was me who confused that phrase? It wasn't. I was just quoting the other guy.
I stand corrected...you still stand confused. The former was my mistake; the latter is your choice.
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Ddgggg, how is your self-esteem lately? Have you realized your size is above average
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Not that great tbh, I feel the same way I did before. And I know my size is above average, but not enough compared to other guys. A lot of people would only consider me slightly above average or small on this site and others.
I suspect there is a masochistic thing going on in this thread. I don't think there is a willingness to get more confidence and there will always be reasons to feel shit. I've come to the conclusion the whole thing may serve some purpose of increasing misery intentionally.
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I do want to have more confidence, I just need to change myself to be a way that makes me worthy of it. As of not, I'm not quite there.
And the self-flagellation continues. You can't change until you deem yourself worthy of change. You can't deem yourself worthy of change until you change. It's a bottomless pit of excuses.
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Man, what are you talking about? You have a really nice cock. Good length and perfect girth. It may not be humongous but it's not at all small. You have nothing to be envious of and no reason to worry as most dicks are way smaller. No one will ever complain about your tool.I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest.
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I meant I wouldn't be worthy of changing my mindset about myself until I make my body different enough. If that's an excuse, I feel like it's at least a bit of a valid one. Have you seen the way people talk about people that aren't considered attractive enough. I was just watching a video where a guy was talking about people started to perceive him as a cooler person after he lost weight and got in shape.
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To be fair, how wouldn't I have anything to be envious of if like you said, I'm not humongous? By that, I already lack compared to other guys online, as shown by how I've been called small before.
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@ddgggg you dont want to be humongous not many vaginas can handle it
Size is a serious cultural mind fuck.
To handle it is all about acceptance.
You have a big dick to be proud of and to enjoy.
Ok, there will always be someone bigger (for all of us), but you need to decide if you are going to let that own you, or if you are gonna own yourself and go out there and enjoy?
My cocnclusion: Be proud and embrace the pleasure.
To handle it is all about acceptance.
You have a big dick to be proud of and to enjoy.
Ok, there will always be someone bigger (for all of us), but you need to decide if you are going to let that own you, or if you are gonna own yourself and go out there and enjoy?
My cocnclusion: Be proud and embrace the pleasure.
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