feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

[ddgggg]

What other people? Why can't you change your perspective. Dude im fucking 400lbs and have literal breasts from hormone problems. I was a virgin until 30. If I can change my perspective from being so fucking far behind you, then you can too! But you have to want to. You keep saying it is very difficult. But if you do the smallest steps like I said, it slowly gets easier over time!

Your literal last sentence/question is an EXCUSE!!

You can change it by trying! So far you keep saying you are trying to change your perspective by... doing the exact same thing that is causing the problems! You are resistant and refuse to even try!!

It might be an excuse, but I'd argue it's a valid excuse. People make fun of people that aren't lean and muscular A LOT online. Changing my perspective would mean going against what I had always known, and I just feel like unlearning a mindset that I developed over 20 years is going to be pretty daunting (if even possible). And I already have tried, and it hasn't worked.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

It might be an excuse, but I'd argue it's a valid excuse. People make fun of people that aren't lean and muscular A LOT online. Changing my perspective would mean going against what I had always known, and I just feel like unlearning a mindset that I developed over 20 years is going to be pretty daunting (if even possible). And I already have tried, and it hasn't worked.

You speak to me as if I haven't lived longer than you, and been in the same mindset as you for even longer. As if I didnt just reveal to you about how I look and have been this way for longer than you have been alive. As if I haven't met others who overcame this as well. And have seen why the few who don't, do not. I'm telling you how to overcome this and you just refuse to. This was the last straw that proved you are just looking for excuses.

Well, I'm done. I tried to empathize, reason and work with you but I got a brick wall. I'm done. Ignoring you so I can't get the temptation to help or respond. I refuse to keep trying to help someone who refuses to try. Of all the people I spoke to on these boards about this stuff, you have been the one of the most stubborn. Its willful by now. I gave the benefit of the doubt all this time but even you can't see its willful. I pity you because that means its a neurological disorder but you also won't figure that out unless your parents do something or until a traumatic experience happens.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Being born a man is a double edge sword if your D size and height isn’t good; a lot of women know this that’s why they’re glad they’re not men lol

 

[Evenflow618]

People who believe 7 inches is not big are morons

 

[ddgggg]

People who believe 7 inches is not big are morons

Tell them that. But I guess these things are subjective, right?

 

[ddgggg]

Being born a man is a double edge sword if your D size and height isn’t good; a lot of women know this that’s why they’re glad they’re not men lol

Well, not only that but the other stuff too

 

[Evenflow618]

Tell them that. But I guess these things are subjective, right?

People dont really know. 7 inches will most holes to the bottom

 

[ddgggg]

Just wanted to drop this here - watch 1:00-2:10. I’m not just fucking talking out of my ass.

ceciliaregina275 on TikTok

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Well, not only that but the other stuff too

Yeah some women on LPSG said they wouldn’t want to be men because of the impact of height and penis size and the insecurity that comes with it . Dating and sex in general is harder for men IMO.

 

[mindofashepherd]

Dick size is possibly the most overhyped quality in a person. We all like looking at big dicks (some straight men do too) but in reality it is only one trait that makes up a person.

My biggest problem is sex is only one part of a relationship. It's a big part (no pun intended) but it's not the only thing people do. There are men and women who really can't take a big dick all the way. Just because you see a man with one it doesn't mean he's getting all the sex and attention you may think.

Some dudes are hung just like some have incredibly high IQs, some are born into generational wealth, some luck out and marry a soul mate, some guys got into Harvard, some guys came from great families, some guys can sing and dance......

If I were going to wish to have certain qualities I'd pick many of the things I named above before I got to "have a bigger dick".

Hopefully you see my point.

It really isn’t. Let’s not kid ourselves, size does matter to most people and men who have small cocks mostly want a bigger one, even those with a big cock want a bigger one! You’re looking very deep into this!

 

[FrankieGuile]

Just wanted to drop this here - watch 1:00-2:10. I’m not just fucking talking out of my ass.

ceciliaregina275 on TikTok

The clip does, indeed, make you look like you're talking out of your ass. First, it's about a homosexual relationship, not a heterosexual relationship, so it makes no commentary on a woman's desire. Second, it scales a dubious commentary on one homosexual relationship to imply truth for all homosexual relationships. Third, the commentary is dumb. Undeniably, it is dumb commentary in which you believe and profess, but it is dumb commentary into which you are unsuccessful getting the rest of us to believe and profess.

 

[ddgggg]

The clip does, indeed, make you look like you're talking out of your ass. First, it's about a homosexual relationship, not a heterosexual relationship, so it makes no commentary on a woman's desire. Second, it scales a dubious commentary on one homosexual relationship to imply truth for all homosexual relationships. Third, the commentary is dumb. Undeniably, it is dumb commentary in which you believe and profess, but it is dumb commentary into which you are unsuccessful getting the rest of us to believe and profess.

Actually, you have a bit of a point with their relationship not being representative of all other relationships. In my defense though, bold of you to assume I'm 100% straight (I put unsure for a reason!). And also, she says in the video that "women like young hot guys", bar for bar. And it's not that easy to just not subscribe to this "dumb commentary" you speak of.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Actually, you have a bit of a point with their relationship not being representative of all other relationships. In my defense though, bold of you to assume I'm 100% straight (I put unsure for a reason!). And also, she says in the video that "women like young hot guys", bar for bar. And it's not that easy to just not subscribe to this "dumb commentary" you speak of.

I'm gratified you get my point; but, exactly where did I assert such an assumption about you? Lastly, another reason to ignore this dumb commentary -- it's on TikTok.

 

[ddgggg]

I'm gratified you get my point; but, exactly where did I assert such an assumption about you? Lastly, another reason to ignore this dumb commentary -- it's on TikTok.

Sorry - you didn't make that assumption about me. I misinterpreted what you meant when you said there wasn't any commentary on straight relationships. And to be fair, TikTok isn't that unreasonable. At least, it epitomizes how a lot of people think and act...

 

[deleted136887]

We all want what we think is the key to what we think will make us more appealing /desirable/happy.
I have a big cock, and I want a bigger one.
And it will not change my life for the better at all.
Just like more money will not make me happier.
In my years of life, it has become apparent that a big cock is nice to have around other men (changing rooms) , it gives one a certain kind of status (in changing rooms again), but when we all walk out to the parking lot and go our separate ways, I do not have the sexiest women waiting for me, nor the best looking car/bike, nor the best job or bank balance.
Do I want a bigger cock?
Of course!
Does it matter if it is irrelevant?
Of course not.
That's us . Men.
We want bigger.

 

[ddgggg]

We all want what we think is the key to what we think will make us more appealing /desirable/happy.
I have a big cock, and I want a bigger one.
And it will not change my life for the better at all.
Just like more money will not make me happier.
In my years of life, it has become apparent that a big cock is nice to have around other men (changing rooms) , it gives one a certain kind of status (in changing rooms again), but when we all walk out to the parking lot and go our separate ways, I do not have the sexiest women waiting for me, nor the best looking car/bike, nor the best job or bank balance.
Do I want a bigger cock?
Of course!
Does it matter if it is irrelevant?
Of course not.
That's us . Men.
We want bigger.

To be fair, there's a difference between wanting to be big and universally being considered big and wanting to be big and not being considered big universally. And also, you admit to it benefitting you when it comes to being around other men since it's seen as a status symbol, which proves my point.

 

[MDM8]

It’s essentially why I am on this site. I know I have a bigger dick at a real 7.5 inches. But I like to see huge dicks because I fantisize mine being that big.

Totally agree! I am bigger than average but still love seeing huge and fantasizing about being that huge!

 

[deleted136887]

To be fair, there's a difference between wanting to be big and universally being considered big and wanting to be big and not being considered big universally. And also, you admit to it benefitting you when it comes to being around other men since it's seen as a status symbol, which proves my point.

It does prove your point in the sense of validation around other men in the locker room sense, it is true.
But does it confer benefits in the workplace/life arena? Does having a small cock prevent highly competitive behaviour?
All the stereotypes of guys with sleek expensive sports cars/yachts etc having small dicks and overcompensating?
Stunning women in general are seen in company of wealthy men.
Is the size of the dick, or the wallet relevant there.
Anyway, it is a question as old as the hills.

 

[crazylazy2us]

It does prove your point in the sense of validation around other men in the locker room sense, it is true.
But does it confer benefits in the workplace/life arena? Does having a small cock prevent highly competitive behaviour?
All the stereotypes of guys with sleek expensive sports cars/yachts etc having small dicks and overcompensating?
Stunning women in general are seen in company of wealthy men.
Is the size of the dick, or the wallet relevant there.
Anyway, it is a question as old as the hills.

I’d say in general, the wallet makes the bigger difference in attracting women. It’s easier to show off a sports car or Rolex than showing off you have a big dick (without getting arrested). Women in general would prefer the lifestyle.

but having a big dick is the great equalizer, those guys with the money that don’t have a big dick will always envy a guy with a big swinging dick, and their girls will still fantasize about it.

 

[crazylazy2us]

Totally agree! I am bigger than average but still love seeing huge and fantasizing about being that huge!

Bro, I took a look at your photos and you are huge! A true 8 inches is the ideal big cock. But i feel you in always wishing to be even bigger, I like the power it has with the women, and amongst guys in the locker room.