feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

Sorry - you didn't make that assumption about me. I misinterpreted what you meant when you said there wasn't any commentary on straight relationships. And to be fair, TikTok isn't that unreasonable. At least, it epitomizes how a lot of people think and act...
TikTok penetration in the U.S. in 2023 is 19.2% which skews heavily to ages 10 to 29. So, whereas I cannot grant you that it "epitomizes how a lot of people think and act..." I will grant you it reflects content that many pre-teens, teens and 20-somethings want to consume. It is time you transition into the adult world.
 
I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest. :confused:
a little bit of gain will do a tremendous amount of good..meaning: even if youre not 8+, you can get lore size and girth and THAT GAIN willk help you psychologically...you dont need to be these huge sizes, to feel ok about yourself, you just need to have a little progress...
 
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Bro, I took a look at your photos and you are huge! A true 8 inches is the ideal big cock. But i feel you in always wishing to be even bigger, I like the power it has with the women, and amongst guys in the locker room.
Thanks man!! Really appreciate that feedback @crazylazy2us !!
It is reassuring to get looks in the locker room and of course comments from women… but almost all of us would still like it to be bigger if we could!
 
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Thanks man!! Really appreciate that feedback @crazylazy2us !!
It is reassuring to get looks in the locker room and of course comments from women… but almost all of us would still like it to be bigger if we could!
still a difference between wanting to be bigger and universally being considered big and wanting to be bigger and not being universally considered big tbf...

And I've seen some guys 8+" that are fully satisfied with their size and don't actually want to be bigger (or smaller), in all fairness.
 
TikTok penetration in the U.S. in 2023 is 19.2% which skews heavily to ages 10 to 29. So, whereas I cannot grant you that it "epitomizes how a lot of people think and act..." I will grant you it reflects content that many pre-teens, teens and 20-somethings want to consume. It is time you transition into the adult world.
You have a point, but while it is the case that people my age (20-somethings) consume and subscribe to that content, it would be the standards I'd be held to. And if I can't beat 'em...
 
I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest. :confused:
My partner and I live the lifestyle. She's taken bigger dicks than mine and also smaller ones. I would say, who cares. It's doesn't matter.
 
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still a difference between wanting to be bigger and universally being considered big and wanting to be bigger and not being universally considered big tbf...

And I've seen some guys 8+" that are fully satisfied with their size and don't actually want to be bigger (or smaller), in all fairness.
That is true, and not trying to belittle that difference. Guys that are already big wanting to be bigger could just be seen as “greedy”… but still is the way I feel at least. I appreciate my size but also would love to have more!
 
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My partner and I live the lifestyle. She's taken bigger dicks than mine and also smaller ones. I would say, who cares. It's doesn't matter.
It does matter, though.. If it didn't then sites like the (L)arge (P)enis (S)upport (G)roup wouldn't exist whilst not being a functional support group. Subreddits like r/MassiveCock, r/bwc, r/BigAndMuscular, etc. wouldn't exist with such a large following either. Size queens/kings/royalty wouldn't be a concept. The distinction between hung, big, above avg, etc. wouldn't exist. Dick size wouldn't be considered a metric for sexual attractiveness and conventional masculinity if it didn't matter. I could keep going.
 
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That is true, and not trying to belittle that difference. Guys that are already big wanting to be bigger could just be seen as “greedy”… but still is the way I feel at least. I appreciate my size but also would love to have more!
Ok but if you're not actually feeling bad about yourself like I had expressed in the original post and if you're part of the actual top 1% while simply "loving to have more" and/or fantasizing about it, then it's not really the same situation.
 
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Ok but if you're not actually feeling bad about yourself like I had expressed in the original post and if you're part of the actual top 1% while simply "loving to have more" and/or fantasizing about it, then it's not really the same situation.
Yeah, I get that and I agree, it is not the same situation.
 
You have a point, but while it is the case that people my age (20-somethings) consume and subscribe to that content, it would be the standards I'd be held to. And if I can't beat 'em...
Believing you are captive to the standards of any generation, much less captive to standards of anything other than your own morality, is flaccid and capitulating. I'll revise my statement: It is time you transition into the adult world and think and behave like a man.
 
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Then why post here on this thread?
I posted because I agree with being envious of bigger dicks. even if I may be big to start with I still see bigger ones and have a desire (maybe unhealthy desire) to be even bigger. And I pointed out that the influence and “lies” of porn warp this sense of size for all of us even more….
 
I posted because I agree with being envious of bigger dicks. even if I may be big to start with I still see bigger ones and have a desire (maybe unhealthy desire) to be even bigger. And I pointed out that the influence and “lies” of porn warp this sense of size for all of us even more….
I agree with you.
It is maybe unhealthy to want to be bigger, but that's the way my relationship with my cock is.
I love the size, but...I would love to be a lot bigger.
 
I posted because I agree with being envious of bigger dicks. even if I may be big to start with I still see bigger ones and have a desire (maybe unhealthy desire) to be even bigger. And I pointed out that the influence and “lies” of porn warp this sense of size for all of us even more….
Yeah, but I feel like you simply wanting to be bigger just because isn't really the same as me wanting to be considered more masculine, etc.
 
Yeah, but I feel like you simply wanting to be bigger just because isn't really the same as me wanting to be considered more masculine, etc.
I get that. But I am actually not a very masculine guy (5’-10” and 155-lbs) so I’m not very confident of my masculinity and I guess my size too. Not saying it is founded in logic, it is just how I feel…
 
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