feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

How can you be so sure that they don't take their relationship seriously, out of curiosity?
It's not a matter of certainty, but probability. It is likely someone who believes superficial physical traits marks masculinity is indulging in sexual fantasy and, therefore, overlooks other, more important, traits critical to a relationship. It is fine to do so, but that indulgence does not alter the character traits of a man that have long been accepted and celebrated as masculine.

Relationships based on such fantasy are bound to be disappointing if one, or both, parties are bereft of character. If one is after a serious relationship, at least one that can last, one looks deeper than a good set of pecs, or penis or a square jaw. I do not condemn a person for embracing the kind of fantasy I describe, I just don't take them seriously for the reasons stated.
 
@ddggg - Dude we’re both black men. Dick size doesn’t complete the total man. For me, I happen to be born with an huge outsized endowment, and I’m the complete opposite of what troubles you with. Having this huge dick that I live with, it truly isn’t what you think of something as to be prized!

For me, most of my life, I actually believed I was a freak of nature! Mostly due to my long flaccid length. In the past when I was in the gym shower rooms, I could see nude men’s soft dicks, and I was always longer than all the men I saw… It confirmed to me that I truly was different. It gave me a serious complex of being abnormal, because I wasn’t like everyone else’s size.

Overall for me on the flip side, I really can’t comprehend what it’s like to live with a small to average sized hard cock? I’ll never known this experience! In 2006 I discovered this LPSG website and joined this great place. I found here a bit of relief because I found some members that had extra large sized dicks similar to me. We would share, and still do, the common problems with our issues of intimacy and sex and living with a large penis.

Let me be clear, I want everyone reading my remarks now, to know that I’m not here display my huge dick to make members here jealous or envious of my size. I want other big men to see what I tell them what my dick size truly looks like. If you have your own ideas of envy or anything that makes you feel inadequate or whatever, it’s not my doing, it’s your thinking. This place has benefited me, more so about me not thinking of being an abnormal man just because of my size.

In my opinion, I truly blame the billion dollar porn industry for this affect, which has caused men everywhere to feel inadequate, simply because they don’t have the bigger dick size. Mainly through the porn videos, and the video creators are subliminally are making men in general feel less than, by targeting to the average to above average penis sized men. I do believe the genesis of this all started with the Huge Cock Master - John Holmes.! - Most men saw his porn films in XXX Theaters during the 1970’s , were amazed and enchanted by his never before seen huge cock! It was something to desire for. However, that industry used this concept to sell thousands of theater tickets then, to see him use his rare sized dick in action!

Decides later, with the advent of the VHS tape and the DVD, plus selling them at thousands of Adult Bookstores across America, that also included pay for Peep Show booths; we men became hooked! Either for seeing the hot babes fucking and/or viewing some huge cock, it is costly! That is how their money is made. Now, we have the streaming platform; it’s never ending.

Today the industry seeks actors that are bigger and larger than life sized cocks, that give men a false belief that you don’t quite measure up, but you never will - Remember it’s for entertainment. Sorta like a slow brainwashing of the need to become bigger like those actor’s sizes are. And after years of viewing porn while masturbating to them, we can come to believe that’s what attracts the hot chicks. You do know they seek and desire a big one, right?

They make tons of money off of us because of this affect I believe - Just look at how much money is spent on: Gadgets to increase your penis size or penis enhancement pills alone… But they never quite work for you because it’s only temporary gains. Even after spending hundreds of your dollars for guaranteed results! On the flip side, men like my size group, can feel like a freak of nature , I felt this way for a long time when I can’t a have a decent sex life without it being too damn BIG! This is why the LPSG acronym is all about,
 
@ddggg - Dude we’re both black men. Dick size doesn’t complete the total man. For me, I happen to be born with an huge outsized endowment, and I’m the complete opposite of what troubles you with. Having this huge dick that I live with, it truly isn’t what you think of something as to be prized!

For me, most of my life, I actually believed I was a freak of nature! Mostly due to my long flaccid length. In the past when I was in the gym shower rooms, I could see nude men’s soft dicks, and I was always longer than all the men I saw… It confirmed to me that I truly was different. It gave me a serious complex of being abnormal, because I wasn’t like everyone else’s size.

Overall for me on the flip side, I really can’t comprehend what it’s like to live with a small to average sized hard cock? I’ll never known this experience! In 2006 I discovered this LPSG website and joined this great place. I found here a bit of relief because I found some members that had extra large sized dicks similar to me. We would share, and still do, the common problems with our issues of intimacy and sex and living with a large penis.

Let me be clear, I want everyone reading my remarks now, to know that I’m not here display my huge dick to make members here jealous or envious of my size. I want other big men to see what I tell them what my dick size truly looks like. If you have your own ideas of envy or anything that makes you feel inadequate or whatever, it’s not my doing, it’s your thinking. This place has benefited me, more so about me not thinking of being an abnormal man just because of my size.

In my opinion, I truly blame the billion dollar porn industry for this affect, which has caused men everywhere to feel inadequate, simply because they don’t have the bigger dick size. Mainly through the porn videos, and the video creators are subliminally are making men in general feel less than, by targeting to the average to above average penis sized men. I do believe the genesis of this all started with the Huge Cock Master - John Holmes.! - Most men saw his porn films in XXX Theaters during the 1970’s , were amazed and enchanted by his never before seen huge cock! It was something to desire for. However, that industry used this concept to sell thousands of theater tickets then, to see him use his rare sized dick in action!

Decides later, with the advent of the VHS tape and the DVD, plus selling them at thousands of Adult Bookstores across America, that also included pay for Peep Show booths; we men became hooked! Either for seeing the hot babes fucking and/or viewing some huge cock, it is costly! That is how their money is made. Now, we have the streaming platform; it’s never ending.

Today the industry seeks actors that are bigger and larger than life sized cocks, that give men a false belief that you don’t quite measure up, but you never will - Remember it’s for entertainment. Sorta like a slow brainwashing of the need to become bigger like those actor’s sizes are. And after years of viewing porn while masturbating to them, we can come to believe that’s what attracts the hot chicks. You do know they seek and desire a big one, right?

They make tons of money off of us because of this affect I believe - Just look at how much money is spent on: Gadgets to increase your penis size or penis enhancement pills alone… But they never quite work for you because it’s only temporary gains. Even after spending hundreds of your dollars for guaranteed results! On the flip side, men like my size group, can feel like a freak of nature , I felt this way for a long time when I can’t a have a decent sex life without it being too damn BIG! This is why the LPSG acronym is all about,
There should be a thread where guys compete for the number of different ways they try to impress others with self-serving and unsubstantiated descriptions of their own dicks in a single post.
 
I had a bud a few years back - we got drunk and started talking about dick. He said he was 9" and thick as his wrist. He was 5'9" and I just couldn't imagine what that must have looked like. He offered to show me / prove it so I declined, knowing that he wouldn't have offered if he was lying. Anyway, we aren't friends anymore for other reasons, but from that moment on I was a) jealous and b) couldn't stop thinking about sucking his massive penis.
 
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I had a bud a few years back - we got drunk and started talking about dick. He said he was 9" and thick as his wrist. He was 5'9" and I just couldn't imagine what that must have looked like. He offered to show me / prove it so I declined, knowing that he wouldn't have offered if he was lying. Anyway, we aren't friends anymore for other reasons, but from that moment on I was a) jealous and b) couldn't stop thinking about sucking his massive penis.
Were you: a) jealous (you were protecting something he wanted); or, b) envious (he had something you wanted); or, c) obsessed (you couldn't stop think about his penis? If a) then jealousy makes no sense in this case. If b) or c) then you were envious or obsessed with a fiction to the extent it was self-validating in your own mind. Whatever the case, that's a lot of imaginary baggage to carry.
 
I was envious and obsessed. I probably have shot at least a gallon of my own sperm thinking about his gigantic dick and furry body.
Were you: a) jealous (you were protecting something he wanted); or, b) envious (he had something you wanted); or, c) obsessed (you couldn't stop think about his penis? If a) then jealousy makes no sense in this case. If b) or c) then you were envious or obsessed with a fiction to the extent it was self-validating in your own mind. Whatever the case, that's a lot of imaginary baggage to carry.
 
Were you: a) jealous (you were protecting something he wanted); or, b) envious (he had something you wanted); or, c) obsessed (you couldn't stop think about his penis? If a) then jealousy makes no sense in this case. If b) or c) then you were envious or obsessed with a fiction to the extent it was self-validating in your own mind. Whatever the case, that's a lot of imaginary baggage to carry.
how can you be so sure that it was a fiction though? i mean, you're on this site – you've got to know that there are guys as big as (if not bigger) than that
 
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how can you be so sure that it was a fiction though? i mean, you're on this site – you've got to know that there are guys as big as (if not bigger) than that
By your own admission, you only suspected but did not know. You convinced yourself in your own mind. No one is going to dissuade you from your thinking because it is part of your fantasy. I'm just calling out the fact that, by your own words, you have validated it in your head. (I'm also pointing out the misuse of the word, "jealousy," as you mean to describe "envy." You also describe obsession. But, to repeat myself, in either case, it is something you created without objective proof -- according to your words.
 
By your own admission, you only suspected but did not know. You convinced yourself in your own mind. No one is going to dissuade you from your thinking because it is part of your fantasy. I'm just calling out the fact that, by your own words, you have validated it in your head. (I'm also pointing out the misuse of the word, "jealousy," as you mean to describe "envy." You also describe obsession. But, to repeat myself, in either case, it is something you created without objective proof -- according to your words.

I didn’t suspect anything, you must have mistaken me for the other guy.
 
I didn’t suspect anything, you must have mistaken me for the other guy.
You're correct. My mistake. I hereby redirect my comment to the other guy according to rule 86-3, subsection f, romanette (iv) of the LPSG guide governing errant tagging and responses.
 
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@ddgggg

After reading these posts, I opened your media gallery to see a big dicked young man that many individuals would physically desire and also who would consider you to have a large dick.

When you step away from the online media and into real life, the experiences and opportunities that await you will outshine any porn you could watch- and those things IRL will put a smile on your face!

To optimize the attraction you already have, work on the things which can make a difference.

Fine tuning how you interact with others, personal grooming, and physical fitness are actually less complicated than trying to make an already big dick bigger.

We’re here for support, and we are eager to see you succeed at finding happiness.

Kind regards
Indy
 
I feel like the envy about size is getting even worse now to be honest. I just want to be 9" length and 6" girth so, so badly - I feel like I'll feel so much better with my body with it. And yes, this is just me dragging the thread along, but I honestly felt pretty upset about it and wanted to write somewhere.
 
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I feel like the envy about size is getting even worse now to be honest. I just want to be 9" length and 6" girth so, so badly - I feel like I'll feel so much better with my body with it. And yes, this is just me dragging the thread along, but I honestly felt pretty upset about it and wanted to write somewhere.
Talk about beating a dead horse (cock)! But, to your credit, you admit it. Here is hoping everyone has had enough to say about your dilemma.
 
I feel like the envy about size is getting even worse now to be honest. I just want to be 9" length and 6" girth so, so badly - I feel like I'll feel so much better with my body with it. And yes, this is just me dragging the thread along, but I honestly felt pretty upset about it and wanted to write somewhere.
Work on your kegels and get the pump. The pump vagina become permanent after a few years for sure.
 
Work on your kegels and get the pump. The pump vagina become permanent after a few years for sure.
Surely, we all know by now that the feeling of envy is inversely proportional to the attention others give to the plight posited by the poster.
 
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I feel like the envy about size is getting even worse now to be honest. I just want to be 9" length and 6" girth so, so badly - I feel like I'll feel so much better with my body with it. And yes, this is just me dragging the thread along, but I honestly felt pretty upset about it and wanted to write somewhere.
I think what’s needed here is a healthy dose of maturity, dude.

The other commenters here have given valid reasons why you shouldn’t feel upset about not having a monster dick. But it doesn’t sound like that’s what you want to hear.

Additionally, you say “I feel like I’ll feel so much better…” as if it’s something that might possibly happen one day. You’re leaving room in your mind that having a much bigger dick is actually possible and therefore worth thinking about. It’s not.

To me it seems like you’re in a grieving process regarding the realization that you don’t have a mythical beast in your pants, and you’re currently stuck in a loop. Just like you need to eventually accept and move on from a tragedy in life, you need to accept and move on from the fact you don’t have a gigantic dick. Especially since your dick is already larger than most guys in real life.
 
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I think what’s needed here is a healthy dose of maturity, dude.

The other commenters here have given valid reasons why you shouldn’t feel upset about not having a monster dick. But it doesn’t sound like that’s what you want to hear.

Additionally, you say “I feel like I’ll feel so much better…” as if it’s something that might possibly happen one day. You’re leaving room in your mind that having a much bigger dick is actually possible and therefore worth thinking about. It’s not.

To me it seems like you’re in a grieving process regarding the realization that you don’t have a mythical beast in your pants, and you’re currently stuck in a loop. Just like you need to eventually accept and move on from a tragedy in life, you need to accept and move on from the fact you don’t have a gigantic dick. Especially since your dick is already larger than most guys in real life.
It is an obvious contrivance to prompt people to say, "You have a big dick," or some such words to the same effect. Whereas I admire the compassionate advice from others, I fear the gullibility of those responses is merely feeding a selfish end.
 
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Talk about beating a dead horse (cock)! But, to your credit, you admit it. Here is hoping everyone has had enough to say about your dilemma.
I don’t quite get why you still post in the thread, if you still interact with it my commenting and liking other people’s comments. You could always block/ignore my account
 
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I think what’s needed here is a healthy dose of maturity, dude.

The other commenters here have given valid reasons why you shouldn’t feel upset about not having a monster dick. But it doesn’t sound like that’s what you want to hear.

Additionally, you say “I feel like I’ll feel so much better…” as if it’s something that might possibly happen one day. You’re leaving room in your mind that having a much bigger dick is actually possible and therefore worth thinking about. It’s not.

To me it seems like you’re in a grieving process regarding the realization that you don’t have a mythical beast in your pants, and you’re currently stuck in a loop. Just like you need to eventually accept and move on from a tragedy in life, you need to accept and move on from the fact you don’t have a gigantic dick. Especially since your dick is already larger than most guys in real life.
Much easier said than done. And I also don’t really understand how me saying I’d feel better with a bigger one suggests that I think I could still possibly get a bigger one. I also get the impression that you view how I feel as somewhat trivial the way you say “grieving process”, as well as suggest immaturity on my part, which I didn’t really appreciate.