feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

Not small, but not big enough. The same dudes I mentioned are upwards of 8.5" and at least 6" girth, and they also have bigger balls and flaccid sizes
Not big enough for what exactly? You can stretch out and feel both sides of any hole, fill it up and reach deeper than most of us cannot.
 
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Not big enough for what exactly? You can stretch out and feel both sides of any hole, fill it up and reach deeper than most of us cannot.
To feel truly manly, to go to urinals and use locker rooms without being embarrassed, and, to be real, have more fun jerking off and be able to take nicer pictures
 
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Right, but my point is I'm only fixated on it because these are things I don't have. If I were over 6 feet, I would fixate on that. If I were at least a good 8" or even 8.5" and thicker down there, I wouldn't fixate on that as much either. I feel like I might be more into guys, who are definitely more shallow – and regardless of who I'm attracted to, attractive people have an easier time getting in relationships. That's not really "incel/online bullshit" if everyone says it.
No, it is, because it is a cop out. It is conceding defeat. Which is much less attractive than arbitrary body sizes. You seem to get most of your info ONLINE, and probably from incels if they are whining about penis size.

Find the root of your insecurity and work through it. It’s a better option than choosing unhappiness.
 
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No. Women desire size. At the end of the day that is what it is going to physically satisfy them. That is what they desire and idealize. However, it is not @ddgggg problem
That’s such a load of bullshit. If you want to fantasize about being a cuck, cool, but why lie to someone feeling bad about themselves?
 
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That’s such a load of bullshit. If you want to fantasize about being a cuck, cool, but why lie to someone feeling bad about themselves?
Because its true. Ive heard women talk. Show me 10 women u personally know that idealize and desire small dick as their ideal sex partner. Outside of weird fetishes but genuinely desire it for optimal physical sexual pleasure
 
To feel truly manly, to go to urinals and use locker rooms without being embarrassed, and, to be real, have more fun jerking off and be able to take nicer pictures
I had a buddy in college who did nothing but brag about his big dick. He never knew I was bigger than him, In those days, I was shy about my Big Boy (not anymore!). This football dude had a big flaccid dick, and talked about being a stud in a porno. He used to whip his dick out 1 minute before he'd get to the urinal so all his buddies could see his long dong silver. He'd also pull it out in front of a large group of dudes and say, "Look at this Big Dick", and then laugh sarcastically. There was also a slightly overweight girl on campus named Meg who would tell the other dudes in my dorm how this "porn stud" would do her doggy style (she felt it hard the next day [no pun intended].

To this day, I always wondered if he shows off or not online. He had one floppy dick, but I'm not sure he wa that big when erect. Nonetheless, he was one damn shower, and could have been a porn stud with no issues.

He might have been a bit longer when soft than me, but I know I would have crushed him when I was rock hard, as he didn't have big girth like me.

It is true that big-time showers don't grow that much when hard.

^All true!
 
No, it is, because it is a cop out. It is conceding defeat. Which is much less attractive than arbitrary body sizes. You seem to get most of your info ONLINE, and probably from incels if they are whining about penis size.

Find the root of your insecurity and work through it. It’s a better option than choosing unhappiness.
I don't get my info from incels. These are said by dudes with bigger dicks than me about their experiences getting around (by definition, the opposite of being an incel) where they say they like being as big as they are, and that people love their size. I feel like the existence of this website within itself is a testament to that. I'm also not completely rooting what I say in fact either - a lot of it is just my opinion, that I would say, prefer having a 9-incher than a 7-incher, by a lot.

As for the root of my insecurity, it's literally just that I want to be manly in the way that I see other guys that are considered manly.
 
I had a buddy in college who did nothing but brag about his big dick. He never knew I was bigger than him, In those days, I was shy about my Big Boy (not anymore!). This football dude had a big flaccid dick, and talked about being a stud in a porno. He used to whip his dick out 1 minute before he'd get to the urinal so all his buddies could see his long dong silver. He'd also pull it out in front of a large group of dudes and say, "Look at this Big Dick", and then laugh sarcastically. There was also a slightly overweight girl on campus named Meg who would tell the other dudes in my dorm how this "porn stud" would do her doggy style (she felt it hard the next day [no pun intended].

To this day, I always wondered if he shows off or not online. He had one floppy dick, but I'm not sure he wa that big when erect. Nonetheless, he was one damn shower, and could have been a porn stud with no issues.

He might have been a bit longer when soft than me, but I know I would have crushed him when I was rock hard, as he didn't have big girth like me.

It is true that big-time showers don't grow that much when hard.

^All true!
A lot of guys with big flaccid dicks either a) also still grow quite a bit (e.g. 6"-->9" or b) already have a really big flaccid size (e.g. 8 inches). Also, how do you know this guy didn't get girthy when hard if you've never seen him hard? If that girl who had sex with him said she felt it the next day, then I'm sure he got girthy like you do.
 
7" length, then 5.5" girth on average. i had older measurements i mentioned in another thread, but those were likely inaccurate
also scratch this - my length sits between 6.5-7", depending on if i press a ruler / go along the curve or not. i gained weight and it created a bit of a fat pad.
 
I don't get my info from incels. These are said by dudes with bigger dicks than me about their experiences getting around (by definition, the opposite of being an incel) where they say they like being as big as they are, and that people love their size. I feel like the existence of this website within itself is a testament to that. I'm also not completely rooting what I say in fact either - a lot of it is just my opinion, that I would say, prefer having a 9-incher than a 7-incher, by a lot.

As for the root of my insecurity, it's literally just that I want to be manly in the way that I see other guys that are considered manly.
Have you considered just how full of shit those guys are?
 
What about those of us with more experience than you, that are larger than you, and been in successful relationships that are telling you the opposite of those clowns?

Ask yourself why anyone would lie about anything from their actual cock size to their “conquests”. Do you really think every guy that boasts to you is being truthful? Most people with actual social success aren’t talking shit about how great they are, on the Internet or not. Most losers WILL boast about how their cock is just so good they have lines of women (that you never really meet, and the ones you do meet look like they used ALL of the meth).

I know guys with very high body counts. I don’t know their fucking penis measurements because that’s weird, but one of them allegedly has a baby carrot and is 5-9. I am not going to go down the list, but your ideas about how much it matters do not hold up to reality.

It seems like there is hope for you, but I’m not fighting this battle for you. Eventually you are going to have to make a choice, stand up and be a fucking man with whatever you have, or let bullshit turn you into a bitch.
 
What about those of us with more experience than you, that are larger than you, and been in successful relationships that are telling you the opposite of those clowns?

Ask yourself why anyone would lie about anything from their actual cock size to their “conquests”. Do you really think every guy that boasts to you is being truthful? Most people with actual social success aren’t talking shit about how great they are, on the Internet or not. Most losers WILL boast about how their cock is just so good they have lines of women (that you never really meet, and the ones you do meet look like they used ALL of the meth).

I know guys with very high body counts. I don’t know their fucking penis measurements because that’s weird, but one of them allegedly has a baby carrot and is 5-9. I am not going to go down the list, but your ideas about how much it matters do not hold up to reality.

It seems like there is hope for you, but I’m not fighting this battle for you. Eventually you are going to have to make a choice, stand up and be a fucking man with whatever you have, or let bullshit turn you into a bitch.
How would you know? If you are really bigger as you state, you have no idea whatsoever. You do not have to go through the insecurities, rejections, questioning if you ever have enough.
 
What about those of us with more experience than you, that are larger than you, and been in successful relationships that are telling you the opposite of those clowns?

Ask yourself why anyone would lie about anything from their actual cock size to their “conquests”. Do you really think every guy that boasts to you is being truthful? Most people with actual social success aren’t talking shit about how great they are, on the Internet or not. Most losers WILL boast about how their cock is just so good they have lines of women (that you never really meet, and the ones you do meet look like they used ALL of the meth).

I know guys with very high body counts. I don’t know their fucking penis measurements because that’s weird, but one of them allegedly has a baby carrot and is 5-9. I am not going to go down the list, but your ideas about how much it matters do not hold up to reality.

It seems like there is hope for you, but I’m not fighting this battle for you. Eventually you are going to have to make a choice, stand up and be a fucking man with whatever you have, or let bullshit turn you into a bitch.
1) By that logic, maybe you're speaking from a different, possibly limited, perspective than I have and thus, you wouldn't really know what it's like, so I honestly don't really appreciate you reducing it to "[being] a fucking man" or "[letting] bullshit turn [me] into a bitch." You said you're larger, taller, more athletic, and straight based on your reply and the posts I saw on your profile – dating / beauty standards are a lot less forgiving in the gay community. Also, maybe these guys you speak of are either outliers (like the guy you said allegedly has a baby carrot) or they have other physical redeeming qualities, like looks, muscularity, size (which you said you didn't know for the other guys), etc.

2) I'm not only going off of what people tell me, since they usually have the proof to back it up (re: websites like these), and they're visibly larger than me.
 
Another thing: it's not just about being attractive to other people for a relationship (I would argue it barely is nowadays, since I don't plan to be in one for a while), I want to feel attractive/manly for myself too. That's simply easier to do when I fall in line with the men I (and oh-so-coincidentally, a lot of other people), consider attractive/manly.
 
2) I'm not only going off of what people tell me, since they usually have the proof to back it up (re: websites like these), and they're visibly larger than me.

Photo evidence is easily manipulated by several things. More importantly, you have no idea what is really going on in their lives. These are dudes posting dick pics online and then using said dick pics to exemplify their masculinity?!?! Reddit people? Fuck dude, those are the dregs of social society!

I’m not coming at it from a more limited perspective. I have more experience in relationships. I am not alone in this thread. Plenty of people have told you about reality but you choose to fixate on the virtual reality of online comments, completely buying into the “incel/online” bullshit they want you to believe by posting their bullshit to begin with.

Guys in successful relationships usually have charm. They usually have a good sense of humor and take care of themselves physically. All of those are well within your control. My friends that are successful in relationships, regardless of body count since I think maintaining a long-term relationship with a person you love and who loves you is success, share nothing in common physically. But we are confident.

Another thing: it's not just about being attractive to other people for a relationship (I would argue it barely is nowadays, since I don't plan to be in one for a while), I want to feel attractive/manly for myself too. That's simply easier to do when I fall in line with the men I (and oh-so-coincidentally, a lot of other people), consider attractive/manly.

If you want to be a man, be a man. That whole sentence of mine that you didn’t appreciate is true. It is all within your control but you are making a choice to not be a man as long as you continue down this “I’m not …enough” path.
 
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Photo evidence is easily manipulated by several things. More importantly, you have no idea what is really going on in their lives. These are dudes posting dick pics online and then using said dick pics to exemplify their masculinity?!?! Reddit people? Fuck dude, those are the dregs of social society!
I feel like you might be overestimating how much men edit their photos to make themselves appear bigger - most of them also have videos where they appear just as large. And what they have going on in their lives isn’t really relevant. I don’t have much going on in my life - again, still a virgin and never been in a relationship. I’d sure as hell take what they have if it means I have some physical redeeming quality for something I can’t definitively change.

I’m not coming at it from a more limited perspective. I have more experience in relationships. I am not alone in this thread. Plenty of people have told you about reality but you choose to fixate on the virtual reality of online comments, completely buying into the “incel/online” bullshit they want you to believe by posting their bullshit to begin with.

Guys in successful relationships usually have charm. They usually have a good sense of humor and take care of themselves physically. All of those are well within your control. My friends that are successful in relationships, regardless of body count since I think maintaining a long-term relationship with a person you love and who loves you is success, share nothing in common physically. But we are confident.

If you want to be a man, be a man. That whole sentence of mine that you didn’t appreciate is true. It is all within your control but you are making a choice to not be a man as long as you continue down this “I’m not …enough” path.
Maybe the limited perspective could be on basis on you not considering the possibility that you height etc. helped you be seen as attractive. Or by simply saying to “just be confident” as though traits like those don’t make it easier (or simply not harder). Or by implying that your perspective on masculinity is universal when not everyone agrees. Also, the other people that agree on this thread often times rather than not are also taller or have a bigger dick or otherwise (hence limited perspective). And either way, having a bigger dick, being taller, etc. and never be an objectively worse scenario than the opposites.
 
Photo evidence is easily manipulated by several things. More importantly, you have no idea what is really going on in their lives. These are dudes posting dick pics online and then using said dick pics to exemplify their masculinity?!?! Reddit people? Fuck dude, those are the dregs of social society!

I’m not coming at it from a more limited perspective. I have more experience in relationships. I am not alone in this thread. Plenty of people have told you about reality but you choose to fixate on the virtual reality of online comments, completely buying into the “incel/online” bullshit they want you to believe by posting their bullshit to begin with.

Guys in successful relationships usually have charm. They usually have a good sense of humor and take care of themselves physically. All of those are well within your control. My friends that are successful in relationships, regardless of body count since I think maintaining a long-term relationship with a person you love and who loves you is success, share nothing in common physically. But we are confident.



If you want to be a man, be a man. That whole sentence of mine that you didn’t appreciate is true. It is all within your control but you are making a choice to not be a man as long as you continue down this “I’m not …enough” path.
It is not online reality it is real life reality. Again, being big you do not know or have to deal with any issues of masculinity, insecurities, shaming, rejection, etc. A man can have all the charm, talent, confidence, etc. At the end of the day, it does not provide the physical attraction and sexual satisfaction women say they want and seek in sex.