feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

[Snps21]

Much easier said than done. And I also don’t really understand how me saying I’d feel better with a bigger one suggests that I think I could still possibly get a bigger one. I also get the impression that you view how I feel as somewhat trivial the way you say “grieving process”, as well as suggest immaturity on my part, which I didn’t really appreciate.

I apologize if I came across that way. However, this thread is almost a year old now. I’m only curious what you’re wanting to hear after this long. I hope something helps you feel better one day.

 

[borg1125]

Don't worry too much about it, masculinity is more about attitude and actions than how big your dick is.

Hum. Don't write checks your body can't cash.

 

[ddgggg]

I apologize if I came across that way. However, this thread is almost a year old now. I’m only curious what you’re wanting to hear after this long. I hope something helps you feel better one day.

I appreciate it - I admittedly didn't really know what I wanted to hear since everything that could have been said had been said..

 

[ddgggg]

Hum. Don't write checks your body can't cash.

What do you mean?

 

[borg1125]

What do you mean?

do not let your mouth write a check your ass can't cash

 

[ddgggg]

Honestly, I just feel even worse about it – and for that matter, everything else on my body. I really wish I could just start over and have a better card dealt. Just wanted to vent.

 

[ddgggg]

nothing’s really changed ngl. i do definitely appreciate the compliments i’ve gotten here and on sidechat, but i still really wish it was bigger like the other guys here and elsewhere. i’m honestly considering investing in a bathmate after college since i saw that alpha m on youtube got tangible results - maybe i can hike up to a nicer size with it

 

[Evenflow618]

Get the pump and kegels going

 

[BIGBULL29]

Most men are insecure about their penis size. I understand why you feel the way you do.

I am super hung, but still feel hung like a chipmunk at times. It's just how things are.

If you were hung like me, your life would still BE FAR from perfect. Being well-hung has its plusses and minuses, like everything in life. Big dick is fun for showing off, being porn stu/amateur stud/bull, bragging, urinal show-off, but it gets limited after a time.

I love my big dick, but it doesn't bring me peace. LOL.

 

[ddgggg]

Most men are insecure about their penis size. I understand why you feel the way you do.

I am super hung, but still feel hung like a chipmunk at times. It's just how things are.

I mean, I feel like being insecure about size at 7" is a world of a difference than being insecure about size at 8"+.

If you were hung like me, your life would still BE FAR from perfect. Being well-hung has its plusses and minuses, like everything in life. Big dick is fun for showing off, being porn stu/amateur stud/bull, bragging, urinal show-off, but it gets limited after a time.

That sounds better than avoiding urinals and locker rooms, being considered small by some people, and not being considered as masculine as other men. If that's "limited", then I'll gladly take those limits than the ones I have now, lol.

 

[Rooker]

You are overemphasizing something you have no control over.

 

[HarryPalmas]

I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest.

Is that you on the pictures. You're big. Whats your problem?

 

[ddgggg]

Is that you on the pictures. You're big. Whats your problem?

It is me; I appreciate the reassurance, but what I was getting at was that I'm not really big enough. Next to the many, many guys on here and elsewhere on the internet, I may as well as considered small or avg. I felt like I'd be able to appreciate my body much more if I had a dick like those other guys.

 

[ddgggg]

You are overemphasizing something you have no control over.

I get I don't have control over it (or do? depends on how effective penis enlargement truly is, but I digress) but that doesn't stop how it plays a role in how I see myself and how others see me. It's like height, men that are over 6 feet are considered more attractive even if height is largely an immutable physical trait

 

[HarryPalmas]

It is me; I appreciate the reassurance, but what I was getting at was that I'm not really big enough. Next to the many, many guys on here and elsewhere on the internet, I may as well as considered small or avg. I felt like I'd be able to appreciate my body much more if I had a dick like those other guys.

You are not small. What are your dimensions, length x circumference. Small, large size etc is not a comparison, it is a standard. I would sell my soul not to be small and be your size.

 

[Rooker]

I get I don't have control over it (or do? depends on how effective penis enlargement truly is, but I digress) but that doesn't stop how it plays a role in how I see myself and how others see me. It's like height, men that are over 6 feet are considered more attractive even if height is largely an immutable physical trait

Your fixation absolutely affects the role it plays, same as height. I have 5-9 friends that controlled rooms and 6-5 friends that couldn’t get a date. It seems like you are buying into the incel/online bullshit or you are running with a hyper shallow crowd.

Women like confidence.

Women hate whining.

Be the best person you can be with what you have, height, shoulders, eye color, etc… Build the areas you can and you’ll build confidence.

 

[HarryPalmas]

Your fixation absolutely affects the role it plays, same as height. I have 5-9 friends that controlled rooms and 6-5 friends that couldn’t get a date. It seems like you are buying into the incel/online bullshit or you are running with a hyper shallow crowd.

Women like confidence.

Women hate whining.

Be the best person you can be with what you have, height, shoulders, eye color, etc… Build the areas you can and you’ll build confidence.

No. Women desire size. At the end of the day that is what it is going to physically satisfy them. That is what they desire and idealize. However, it is not @ddgggg problem

 

[ddgggg]

You are not small. What are your dimensions, length x circumference. Small, large size etc is not a comparison, it is a standard. I would sell my soul not to be small and be your size.

7" length, then 5.5" girth on average. i had older measurements i mentioned in another thread, but those were likely inaccurate

 

[HarryPalmas]

7" length, then 5.5" girth on average. i had older measurements i mentioned in another thread, but those were likely inaccurate

So you are not small by any standard.

 

[ddgggg]

Your fixation absolutely affects the role it plays, same as height. I have 5-9 friends that controlled rooms and 6-5 friends that couldn’t get a date. It seems like you are buying into the incel/online bullshit or you are running with a hyper shallow crowd.

Women like confidence.

Women hate whining.

Be the best person you can be with what you have, height, shoulders, eye color, etc… Build the areas you can and you’ll build confidence.

Right, but my point is I'm only fixated on it because these are things I don't have. If I were over 6 feet, I would fixate on that. If I were at least a good 8" or even 8.5" and thicker down there, I wouldn't fixate on that as much either. I feel like I might be more into guys, who are definitely more shallow – and regardless of who I'm attracted to, attractive people have an easier time getting in relationships. That's not really "incel/online bullshit" if everyone says it.