On many threads on lpsg.com, individuals post comments about a man's "pussy". I don't understand what they mean by "pussy" in relation to a man as men don't have pussies or vaginas. Why do men post comments like this?
Gay Man's Pussy? Really?
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I’m not a fan of the term either. No clue where these things start.
I prefer to call it a man hole or a fuck hole. I'm gay, I don't fuck pussy.
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Entirely agree. The last thing I want to hear when I'm having sex with a man is any reference to female genitalia, especially not comparing me to them. Instant boner killer.
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Idk. Generally I think it's just playful, kinky bullshit that can't be given a satisfying explanation.
In a minority of cases, though, it's part of feminization play.
In a minority of cases, though, it's part of feminization play.
as a bottom i have been told that my pussy is fantastic and i always correct the top and say that i am a man with a very good fuckable ass not a pussy! some get incensed some just laugh but they all get it. i have a great ass that is made for fucking .
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Like Malakos said, its basically verbal play and fun. example is when some find an older man and call him "daddy", others who get horny hearing the words "married man", "faggot", cum slut", "pup", etc. Its diff for all sorts of guy. I dont have a problem with it, and turns me on at times too. Just simply let know others you're not into it, probably before hand, if they ever ask what a turn off is. that way, you can easily avoid it and have some good fun.
one last thing is, for some, and ive had the chance to enjoy it, it makes very masculine men feel submissive or give up their power..and turns them on. makes them feel more a bottom or sub.
one last thing is, for some, and ive had the chance to enjoy it, it makes very masculine men feel submissive or give up their power..and turns them on. makes them feel more a bottom or sub.
It probably comes from two directions.
Firstly, it's the heteronormative equivalence that the bottom must be the woman in the relationship since they are the one being penetrated.
Secondly, it's the roleplay of the bottom being emasculated by referring to them/themselves as less of a man than the top.
The term doesn't bother me as such. We have so many terms for a penis, not all of those are particularly flattering either.
Firstly, it's the heteronormative equivalence that the bottom must be the woman in the relationship since they are the one being penetrated.
Secondly, it's the roleplay of the bottom being emasculated by referring to them/themselves as less of a man than the top.
The term doesn't bother me as such. We have so many terms for a penis, not all of those are particularly flattering either.
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I find it is usually "straight" men that use the term pussy. I think it keeps it straight in their mind that they are fucking pussy and there is nothing gay about it.
Though I prefer the term hole or fuckhole or manhole, I actually don’t mind when a guy wants to call it a pussy. I don’t think of it in terms of it being emasculating or feminine, but in terms of functionality. A hole into which a cock is meant to be inserted. So though I don’t prefer the word, I don’t find it a turnoff either.
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Interesting...
This would seem to suggest that the penis is "meant" to be inserted into the vagina, but not into the anus. Is that what you intended to indicate?
I just want to clear the air. I call it a fucking hole or ass. But hey, call it whatever you want. Guys calling their holes a pussy is just a little too sissy.
So what are your thoughts when a guy talks about his “bussy” ?
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I don’t get what the big deal is.
I personally don’t call it a pussy, but it’s just kinky sex talk. I’ve had tops tell me they’re going to “fuck my pussy” and call me “bitch”. Depending on the setting and the chemistry it can be a turn on. I’ve also been with guys who talk like that and have wished they would stop. But that’s more because they were trying to hard and it seemed forced.
I personally don’t call it a pussy, but it’s just kinky sex talk. I’ve had tops tell me they’re going to “fuck my pussy” and call me “bitch”. Depending on the setting and the chemistry it can be a turn on. I’ve also been with guys who talk like that and have wished they would stop. But that’s more because they were trying to hard and it seemed forced.
I don't care for it. I fuck men, not women. I like ass, not pussy, even less so when called a name that's normally used in a derogatory way.... ie cunt. Call if whatever you want, but don't expect me to be interested in it.
I really hope LPSG will add a ‘don’t like’ button.
