Groups Of Tops

[Vertigo1814]

Soooo, I’m a gay guy in his mid 30s. Top and into twink bottoms.

It’s been a fantasy of mine for ages to form a group with similar tops (“Dad” types) and share solo twinks in group sessions.

I wanted tips and advice from anyone else that had done similar and how they went about recruiting and finding people. It’s such an awkward thing to bring up and approach people about!

Thanks

 

[theplayerking]

It’s best to do it in an app or online venue where people are already looking to hookup. I suggest finding a twink into servicing a group of daddies first as that’s the harder role to find. He might already have some fuckbuds that want to join.

 

[Vertigo1814]

It’s best to do it in an app or online venue where people are already looking to hookup. I suggest finding a twink into servicing a group of daddies first as that’s the harder role to find. He might already have some fuckbuds that want to join.

Yep I’ve found that tbh. Tops not been as hard to find as a boy that won’t flake. I know it’s a lot to ask and don’t wanna seem pushy.

 

[muskokan]

oh my! if i was anywhere near either of you i would be your fuck toy! i have found it difficult to find the group of tops in my area.

 

[youngthirdleg]

Sounds hot, but more bottom here. Yeah you can start groups on Grindr, I assume yes you need to know the tops well so no one flakes when moment arrives. You live in London so it probably won’t be too hard to find similar daddy tops. It’s the twinks it’s will be harder to convince

 

[cedarizzo]

oh my! if i was anywhere near either of you i would be your fuck toy! i have found it difficult to find the group of tops in my area.

Same here! I'm lucky if I can find 2 tops, but getting them in the same place at the same time is next to impossible. Being the bottom for a group of tops is my ultimate fantasy.

 

[Kala90]

Have some experience with Gangbangs as a bottom!

I know its hard to organize a group!

With me it started at first organizing a lot of threesomes with my BF, which was not hard at all too achieve - and step by step you get to know other people and know I have a few Top fuckbuddies!

Through them by BF often organizes gangbangs now with me as a bottom! Its an advantage knowing several tops personally - making a few other tops join (through app) is not hard at all then

 

[Vertigo1814]

Not been able to do this yet cos of lockdown

Finding a bottom that doesn’t go silent after a while has been really tricky. Meanwhile 3 more friends/mutuals have said they wanna top.

Hopefully something will happen soon.

 

[RowanB]

Not been able to do this yet cos of lockdown

Finding a bottom that doesn’t go silent after a while has been really tricky. Meanwhile 3 more friends/mutuals have said they wanna top.

Hopefully something will happen soon.

I'm sadly not a twink, but would love to bottom for a group of guys. Bit of an insatiable bottom, so give us a shout if you get tired of twinks

 

[KERRIGANFOX]

But why twinks? What’s the appeal?

 

[Vertigo1814]

Can’t speak for everyone but it’s the masculine/feminine dynamic of it for me. Plus the size difference. It heightens the sense of domination.

 

[indyfrat79]

Great post. I love this scene/vibe and as others have suggested, first try to find a bttm who's into group play. Ideally a submissive guy who loves taking dad dick. My experience is that the majority of tops love to share a bttm with others. I'd love to be in on this if you're ever in Chicago. Few things better than adding a load to a hole made sloppy by a horny dad.

 

[Vertigo1814]

Great post. I love this scene/vibe and as others have suggested, first try to find a bttm who's into group play. Ideally a submissive guy who loves taking dad dick. My experience is that the majority of tops love to share a bttm with others. I'd love to be in on this if you're ever in Chicago. Few things better than adding a load to a hole made sloppy by a horny dad.

Ha ha, yes it’s so hot. Glad you agree. Every top I’ve told about it has asked to join - so seems to quite a common fantasy. Bottom recruiting has been a lot harder! Particularly as there’s some differing taste in bottoms between us.

 

[Real Late Starter]

Soooo, I’m a gay guy in his mid 30s. Top and into twink bottoms.

It’s been a fantasy of mine for ages to form a group with similar tops (“Dad” types) and share solo twinks in group sessions.

I wanted tips and advice from anyone else that had done similar and how they went about recruiting and finding people. It’s such an awkward thing to bring up and approach people about!

Thanks

Hey. Did this ever get off the ground in London? Would be very interested- 40yo top here in to femme/twink bottoms too

 

[HungBtmVegas]

I have no experience forming these groups because I'm a submissive bottom, but I've been the bottom in multiple of the groups you're talking about.

I think nowadays, apps are the easiest way to find other tops, as well as bottoms. I've seen Sniffies profiles of couples who are specifically looking for other strict tops to gangbang the bottom, as well as individual bottoms and tops looking for existing groups.

In my case, I predominantly date dom tops, so part of submitting to a few of my exes was servicing their friends and clients. From there, I started jumping around different social circles and even moreso after leaving those relationships. I also networked as a submissive bottom at gay pool parties and sex parties.

 

[Brodie888]

One of my first relationships was with a much older guy in his thirties. He had a group of friends who were all tops. They would each try to get into relationships with younger guys for the purposes of bringing them into the group to be shared (which I didn't know at the time).

I was so in love with this guy at the time. He was everything I thought I wanted.

Very early in the relationship, he told me he was into cuckolding. To this day I don't know if that was true or just a ploy to get others into our bedroom.

On occasions he would participate. Having a cock at either end was heaven.

This progressed to gangbangs and then orgy holidays etc.

Some would say it was grooming. At the time, it just felt like he was introducing me to things at a pace I could handle.

I was inexperienced in relationships and he was very matter of fact about what gay relationships were and what was expected in any gay relationship.

Looking back now, I acknowledge that I was taken advantage of but at the same time it really broadened my horizons and was a more positive than negative experience.

 

[Vertigo1814]

Hey. Did this ever get off the ground in London? Would be very interested- 40yo top here in to femme/twink bottoms too

I did thnx!

Two sessions were very good - altho anyone doing this I’d recommend setting some ground rules with the tops about hogging/aggression and not attending high as fuck

The other two have been a few of us attending cum dumps which is a bit more formal cos you arrive together but fuck one a time rather than pass around.

All good experiences tho

Ive realised how into bottoms wearing lingerie I am ha ha

 

[Real Late Starter]

I did thnx!

Two sessions were very good - altho anyone doing this I’d recommend setting some ground rules with the tops about hogging/aggression and not attending high as fuck

The other two have been a few of us attending cum dumps which is a bit more formal cos you arrive together but fuck one a time rather than pass around.

All good experiences tho

Ive realised how into bottoms wearing lingerie I am ha ha

Yeah ground rules def sound helpful!

Awesome, seems you've had a great time!

Cute bottom boys in lingerie is always a yes haha