Since a few years after I started puberty...and was still growing...and had a lot left to grow....I had women start complaining and balking....nearly all want to "see"...and "touch"...and "play" with me...but usually nearly all balk at actually trying intercourse. Some will try....but I long ago learned that that is just frustrating for me and the lady if there is "no chance" she will be able to eventually stretch out wide enough...no matter how much time, patience, and lube and oral orgasms she has first...so I limit myself to women who have had experiences with others and other "criteria" that might help me decide they may be able to eventually have sex with me.....provided first and foremost they are also physically and mentally attractive to me. I am not a guy who will have sex with a woman I am not attracted to...no matter how "horny" I am...and I am always extremely horny...LOL.