Has your cock ever been too "big"?

Yes, my size is nearly always a problem in some way.

Both guys and girls say that it hurts too much if I try to go deep so I often have to stop when I’m at my horniest. And blowjobs are problematic too … I’m too big for anyone to suck more than about a few inches (so far anyway) and I’ve had my cock injured by teeth on more than a few occasions 😫
I'm really not surprised at that. I'm big and struggle but you're next level. Although there are loads of guys out there who are skilled, I used to DP my bf with my ex who is hung too. So don't go bottom 😅
 
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My cock was never too big. However, I've known cocks that were too big, and I can relate what was said, but from the point of view of the one who receives it. To put it bluntly, I have a very tight ass, and exceeding 15 cm can already be challenging for me, especially if it is thick. Normally, I would say that I can take 16-17 cm. Beyond that, it's debatable.

And while I have fun sexting here, I don't consider myself an enduring bottom, even if I love to be bottom. Perhaps because of unsolicited/violent sex I have experienced in the past, I need to be extremely relaxed. Otherwise it can be painful for me as well as for the top.

I have already experienced cocks over 20 cm, but the guy has to take his time, a lot of time. But does he even want to? He must allow a few hours ahead of him! And because I feel like I'm the problem, I become more tense, and therefore less able to take it... In short, a vicious circle!

Not to mention my personal case, patience is the key word, my big guys. ;) I know that with the excitement and adrenaline, we would want to go even faster and deeper. But really, make the person understand that it's not a big deal, don't show frustration that you can logically feel. Make the person as relaxed as possible, and you may achieve your goal.
 
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Many women and men have turned me down over my size I’m not even hugeee I’m about 8 inches ish but it’s quite thick and there’s a lot that won’t even attempt it I’ve noticed. Not that I’d want it to be smaller I’d still want to be even bigger but that’s jus my kink to be as big as possible
 
Sure when I’m horny and want to fuck with no foreplay, lube or fingering. But that’s shitty sex. With lube, patience and gentle persuasion I can get my girthy cock in the tightest pussy, asshole. I have slammed it in but why- you can’t fuck after that and I need to cum lotsduring sex
 
I'm 6x7.5 so for a very long time I didn't think I had a big dick, because I thought it was all about the length, and 6" was pretty average so I thought. Just about every women I been with would ask me if I had a big dick, and I would say no, its pretty average. Then they tell me about their former BF all had tiny dicks, and felt like they were missing out, and not only that but their former BF all said they had a big one. But yeah every women I was with would stop me, and pause before proceeding. I also don't go hard and fast like most porn movies, and being thicker I need longer time to ejaculate. At least an hour mostly. When it slip out, I hear a loud pop, like taking off a bottle cap, and they yelp when that happen, so I don't pull out until it goes soft to avoid the pain for her. If it does slip, I have to start over and gently ease back in with more lube. I think 6 inch in length is just right size in not bottoming out in her cervix. However, I think 6 inch for such a huge girth does make it prone to popping out. I do prefer to be on the bottom so she has full control with depth and speed.

I think not know how big its going to be, does help them get over the fear if they actually see it big. Needless to say its absolutely peak in size at ejaculation. She can feel it swell to that point.
 
Flat out too big? One time. In college, the first girl I had a crush on when I went there. I presumed her for months, trying to get her to give me a chance. Finally one night at a party at my house, she was being more than her usual flirty with me. She came to that party and was attached to me the entire time. As the party started to end I figured she’d leave but she lead me back to my room where we started fooling around. She asked me “are you going to let that horse out to play?” We stripped down and she climbed on top of me. After a few minutes of struggling she said “I was afraid of that” and said she had heard about my size and that’s why she was hesitant to date me. She apparently has and knows she has a very small opening.

So we chuckled about it for a while and went to bed and just remained good friends though college.

The “oh that’s too much” I get that a lot actually. Probably 65% of the women I’ve been with have needed a break or needed to tap out. But that’s okay, I was probably needing a break myself. Haha.