Many many many women complain that a man should listen carefully to the woman's body, and body language, and small movements and sighs and the intensity of their breathing...etc to know and understand if what they are doing is good and pleasurable or not that much.
Do you really think that men take most of the responsibility if they fail to interpret your "secretive" body language or body signals in response to their moves and actions to your body? Why not just sort of speak out and say or tell in a way, in a more clear or explicit or simple form that men would definitely understand instead of blaming "men" that they don't read our signals well, and that they should "listen carefully" or "watch carefully"!
You know, sometimes we do what we do with the good intention that we want to please our partners, but without proper understandable communication, we just don't know exactly what you want or need at a certain moment and we keep going or proceed without knowing that we are missing on something! and then we get ALL the blame!
I'm not saying it's women's fault, but I just want to explain it might not be the men's fault too! It's just a problem of miscommunication!
Some men (I don't want to say many men!) do not get the right message from your body moves and language, and they try hard to please their partners as far as they know! If a woman needs a certain kind of a move or act, why not make sure that her man is getting the message clearly!
Do you really think that men take most of the responsibility if they fail to interpret your "secretive" body language or body signals in response to their moves and actions to your body? Why not just sort of speak out and say or tell in a way, in a more clear or explicit or simple form that men would definitely understand instead of blaming "men" that they don't read our signals well, and that they should "listen carefully" or "watch carefully"!
You know, sometimes we do what we do with the good intention that we want to please our partners, but without proper understandable communication, we just don't know exactly what you want or need at a certain moment and we keep going or proceed without knowing that we are missing on something! and then we get ALL the blame!
I'm not saying it's women's fault, but I just want to explain it might not be the men's fault too! It's just a problem of miscommunication!
Some men (I don't want to say many men!) do not get the right message from your body moves and language, and they try hard to please their partners as far as they know! If a woman needs a certain kind of a move or act, why not make sure that her man is getting the message clearly!