Help Needed: Setting Up My Straight Friend's OnlyFans - Seeking Advice!

[Jamie L]

Hello everyone,


My name is Jamie and I've been a silent member of this community since 2016, and yes, I know... "silent" and "community" don't exactly go hand in hand. But now, I need your input and help on something. Let me explain the situation:


I've been friends with this guy - lets call him "AJ" - for years. I've watched him climb the career ladder, get married, and have two kids. We've seen each other naked a few times while changing or showering at work, and as a good gay friend, I often compliment him, but that's where it ends. He sometimes teases me with sexy pictures, and I try to push boundaries as much as I feel he's comfortable with. I've never had romantic feelings for him, but I'd definitely be interested in getting my hands on what he's packing...


Few days ago, he told me he needs some extra money and asked if I could help him set up an OnlyFans account. We've always been open and talked about things like this, so it wasn't a surprise. I agreed to help and mentioned that we need to create some content first, which he has started to provide. You might wonder why he needs my help. Well, he doesn't speak English at all (we live in Germany, and he might indeed be the last German not speaking English), his wife knows nothing about this, and he trusts my judgment. Plus, as a gay guy, it's assumed I know all about OnlyFans, right?


Here's where I need your help: I have no idea which direction to take, and I'm unsure if this will work at all. He doesn't want to show his face (yet), so he'll be using a mask. He won't talk in his videos, won't do any anal stuff (at least for now), and won't collaborate with others. I still need to come up with a name for him and a direction/niche to pursue. He's willing to work hard for this. The most I think I can convince him to do is maybe a worship video where I could massage him or something similar.


What do you all think? Does he have a chance in the OnlyFans Jungle? Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!


Thanks in advance!

P.S. Here are some more Infos about him: he's in his mid-30s, has 2 kids, never done anything with a guy (to my knowledge anyway), has a big uncut dick with a big foreskin, leaks precum like crazy, huge cumshots (I've seen one...), is very fit and works out daily. And here are some pictures of him:

 

[Merlstar78]

Mmmm he's hot! He will do well on the only fans platform as long as he uploads content regularly. I'm keen to see more!

 

[Jamie L]

Mmmm he's hot! He will do well on the only fans platform as long as he uploads content regularly. I'm keen to see more!

Yes, he is
I told him that we would have to upload photos on a daily basis and videos at leas few times a week. He is keen with that.

 

[Rodrigocasti]

Hello everyone,


My name is Jamie and I've been a silent member of this community since 2016, and yes, I know... "silent" and "community" don't exactly go hand in hand. But now, I need your input and help on something. Let me explain the situation:


I've been friends with this guy - lets call him "AJ" - for years. I've watched him climb the career ladder, get married, and have two kids. We've seen each other naked a few times while changing or showering at work, and as a good gay friend, I often compliment him, but that's where it ends. He sometimes teases me with sexy pictures, and I try to push boundaries as much as I feel he's comfortable with. I've never had romantic feelings for him, but I'd definitely be interested in getting my hands on what he's packing...


Few days ago, he told me he needs some extra money and asked if I could help him set up an OnlyFans account. We've always been open and talked about things like this, so it wasn't a surprise. I agreed to help and mentioned that we need to create some content first, which he has started to provide. You might wonder why he needs my help. Well, he doesn't speak English at all (we live in Germany, and he might indeed be the last German not speaking English), his wife knows nothing about this, and he trusts my judgment. Plus, as a gay guy, it's assumed I know all about OnlyFans, right?


Here's where I need your help: I have no idea which direction to take, and I'm unsure if this will work at all. He doesn't want to show his face (yet), so he'll be using a mask. He won't talk in his videos, won't do any anal stuff (at least for now), and won't collaborate with others. I still need to come up with a name for him and a direction/niche to pursue. He's willing to work hard for this. The most I think I can convince him to do is maybe a worship video where I could massage him or something similar.


What do you all think? Does he have a chance in the OnlyFans Jungle? Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!


Thanks in advance!

P.S. Here are some more Infos about him: he's in his mid-30s, has 2 kids, never done anything with a guy (to my knowledge anyway), has a big uncut dick with a big foreskin, leaks precum like crazy, huge cumshots (I've seen one...), is very fit and works out daily. And here are some pictures of him:

Hot man

 

[Damon01]

Im interested. Be hot to watch him fuck, at least a toy if not a pussy. Like a fleshlight or something. Especially with a view of that sexy ass. Maybe you can hold the toy for him

It’s fun to engage with OF creators. Would you help him answer his subscribers who write in English?

Hello everyone,


My name is Jamie and I've been a silent member of this community since 2016, and yes, I know... "silent" and "community" don't exactly go hand in hand. But now, I need your input and help on something. Let me explain the situation:


I've been friends with this guy - lets call him "AJ" - for years. I've watched him climb the career ladder, get married, and have two kids. We've seen each other naked a few times while changing or showering at work, and as a good gay friend, I often compliment him, but that's where it ends. He sometimes teases me with sexy pictures, and I try to push boundaries as much as I feel he's comfortable with. I've never had romantic feelings for him, but I'd definitely be interested in getting my hands on what he's packing...


Few days ago, he told me he needs some extra money and asked if I could help him set up an OnlyFans account. We've always been open and talked about things like this, so it wasn't a surprise. I agreed to help and mentioned that we need to create some content first, which he has started to provide. You might wonder why he needs my help. Well, he doesn't speak English at all (we live in Germany, and he might indeed be the last German not speaking English), his wife knows nothing about this, and he trusts my judgment. Plus, as a gay guy, it's assumed I know all about OnlyFans, right?


Here's where I need your help: I have no idea which direction to take, and I'm unsure if this will work at all. He doesn't want to show his face (yet), so he'll be using a mask. He won't talk in his videos, won't do any anal stuff (at least for now), and won't collaborate with others. I still need to come up with a name for him and a direction/niche to pursue. He's willing to work hard for this. The most I think I can convince him to do is maybe a worship video where I could massage him or something similar.


What do you all think? Does he have a chance in the OnlyFans Jungle? Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!


Thanks in advance!

P.S. Here are some more Infos about him: he's in his mid-30s, has 2 kids, never done anything with a guy (to my knowledge anyway), has a big uncut dick with a big foreskin, leaks precum like crazy, huge cumshots (I've seen one...), is very fit and works out daily. And here are some pictures of him:

 

[Jamie L]

Im interested. Be hot to watch him fuck, at least a toy if not a pussy. Like a fleshlight or something. Especially with a view of that sexy ass. Maybe you can hold the toy for him

It’s fun to engage with OF creators. Would you help him answer his subscribers who write in English?

I will probably end up doing all the work for his OnlyFans. The most fun part is telling him how to pose and what to record. Do you have any suggestions for a name or handle, or any direction we could take with his content? And of course, I will pay you back, guys. If this works out, this forum will get lots of goodies directly from the source!

 

[fireweed]

Yes, he is
I told him that we would have to upload photos on a daily basis and videos at leas few times a week. He is keen with that.

He's definitely got everything to be popular. He's really hot. I sure would subscribe.

Personally I'd say quality trumps quantity. 2-3 posts a week, with at least on video, rather than daily ones is better in my opinion. Various angles explored in photos, various mood and content in videos, but well executed, is the key for me.
Too many posts can see the quality suffer and become repetitive. That can be an issue for a new model, because if people feel like it becomes repetitive quickly they'll just move on. It's a fine balance between sending good content and keeping people hooked up with curiosity.

Good luck with all that!

 

[Jamie L]

He's definitely got everything to be popular. He's really hot. I sure would subscribe.

Personally I'd say quality trumps quantity. 2-3 posts a week, with at least on video, rather than daily ones is better in my opinion. Various angles explored in photos, various mood and content in videos, but well executed, is the key for me.
Too many posts can see the quality suffer and become repetitive. That can be an issue for a new model, because if people feel like it becomes repetitive quickly they'll just move on. It's a fine balance between sending good content and keeping people hooked up with curiosity.

Good luck with all that!

Thank you for your input, @fireweed

I completely agree with you about the danger of repetitiveness. I'll definitely keep an eye on that to ensure the content remains fresh and engaging.

Do you have any suggestions regarding the theme of the content we should create? Should we start with a simple and sexy approach and then expand from there, or would it be better to specialize in a particular niche right from the start? Any specific themes or ideas that you think would work well for him?

I'm eager to hear more of your thoughts. Thanks again for your support and guidance!

 

[friskydawg]

Thank you for your input, @fireweed

I completely agree with you about the danger of repetitiveness. I'll definitely keep an eye on that to ensure the content remains fresh and engaging.

Do you have any suggestions regarding the theme of the content we should create? Should we start with a simple and sexy approach and then expand from there, or would it be better to specialize in a particular niche right from the start? Any specific themes or ideas that you think would work well for him?

I'm eager to hear more of your thoughts. Thanks again for your support and guidance!

Personally, I would find the mask, i.e. no face shown, very annoying and with no ass play (will he even show his hole??) it will just be jerking off which can be hot initially but, as has been mentioned, gets repetitive very fast. If he refuses to show his face at all (understandable since he doesn’t want his wife to find out) I had rather see a blurred face than an annoying mask. I might subscribe to an initial trial but definitely would not be a long term subscriber. So many straight guys can’t seem to grasp who their core audience is on OF (gay men) and don’t seem to understand that women are very much a minority and straight men have no interest in watching a guy doing solo with no women involved. Being a gay guy I’m sure you have a grasp as to what gay men want to see and that’s where you need to guide him and let him know that expanding his boundaries (at least a dildo in his ass?) leads to more money.

 

[Jamie L]

Personally, I would find the mask, i.e. no face shown, very annoying and with no ass play (will he even show his hole??) it will just be jerking off which can be hot initially but, as has been mentioned, gets repetitive very fast. If he refuses to show his face at all (understandable since he doesn’t want his wife to find out) I had rather see a blurred face than an annoying mask. I might subscribe to an initial trial but definitely would not be a long term subscriber. So many straight guys can’t seem to grasp who their core audience is on OF (gay men) and don’t seem to understand that women are very much a minority and straight men have no interest in watching a guy doing solo with no women involved. Being a gay guy I’m sure you have a grasp as to what gay men want to see and that’s where you need to guide him and let him know that expanding his boundaries (at least a dildo in his ass?) leads to more money.

Hey @friskydawg , I totally understand what you're saying about the mask; it could either be off-putting or add an element of intrigue to his persona. One of my go-to performers on Chaturbate is MrLelex/Killerqueen88, who always wears a mask – it adds an air of mystery and sensuality that really resonates with me. In fact, I'd prefer not to see his face ever, as it would ruin the magic for me.

I know pixelating his face in photos would be easy, but not so much for videos. I am good at graphics, but I still have to get up in the morning and drive to work. I also run a small 3d printing business from home and that's why I thought of printing custom masks for him – one design is already looking promising (see attachment). What do you think about this option?

I am aware that it's essential for him to understand that his primary audience will likely consist of gay men. He will know that as soon as he gets his first 10 subscribers, 10 of which will probably be men

He will for sure show hole, I will make very sure of it. As for anal play, while it may take some time, it's merely a matter of establishing boundaries and willingness to adapt if he wants to succeed on OF.
re. ä.
One fun fact about him that I can attest to is that he has never been with anyone else before – he attempted an encounter with an escort girl, but it didn't work out.

 

[LustLickLove]

I’d like to watch him fuck a toy from behind. He’s hot, especially his ass.

 

[999alexandergrand]

Hey there! Actually we have a lot in common. I’m a quiet private person but have befriended two straight friends who have OF sites ! lol - one just started his this week and I think it’s important what was mentioned. Doesn’t have to be tons every day but should be good content without long gaps in between. Good luck. Viel Glück!

 

[Damon01]

Hey @friskydawg , I totally understand what you're saying about the mask; it could either be off-putting or add an element of intrigue to his persona. One of my go-to performers on Chaturbate is MrLelex/Killerqueen88, who always wears a mask – it adds an air of mystery and sensuality that really resonates with me. In fact, I'd prefer not to see his face ever, as it would ruin the magic for me.

I know pixelating his face in photos would be easy, but not so much for videos. I am good at graphics, but I still have to get up in the morning and drive to work. I also run a small 3d printing business from home and that's why I thought of printing custom masks for him – one design is already looking promising (see attachment). What do you think about this option?

I am aware that it's essential for him to understand that his primary audience will likely consist of gay men. He will know that as soon as he gets his first 10 subscribers, 10 of which will probably be men

He will for sure show hole, I will make very sure of it. As for anal play, while it may take some time, it's merely a matter of establishing boundaries and willingness to adapt if he wants to succeed on OF.
re. ä.
One fun fact about him that I can attest to is that he has never been with anyone else before – he attempted an encounter with an escort girl, but it didn't work out.

I agree @friskydawg that masks can become annoying, especially if they cover his whole face. I think there are good AI tools that detect and blur faces to various degrees. Maybe that’s worth looking into?

Or maybe a mask in this direction if it’s not too exposing for him?

I personally like lots of bulge and tease photos, also risky public if he’s into that? And some hot jack off vids and playing with toys he can fuck. Also fun if you Jack him off If he’d let you. He can tease us with ass and hole photos and vids without penetrating. I know he doesn’t want to talk but some moans, breathing and the occasional “fuck“ really cranks up the heat.

 

[BitchYaaaaaa]

Do you have any suggestions regarding the theme of the content we should create? Should we start with a simple and sexy approach and then expand from there, or would it be better to specialize in a particular niche right from the start? Any specific themes or ideas that you think would work well for him?

I feel like the obvious approach would be to play into the straight family man side of things since the gays usually drool over anything such. Unless he is apprehensive for privacy reasons I think it'd drive subscribers crazy to see a married straight dad catering to them and slowly dabbling in the spectrum of homoeroticism, so I'd recommend if you do end up making worship/massage videos to slowly work up to it and maybe play up the idea that's he's initially uninterested and slowly works up to being more open to male eroticism.

First opening up more with different forms of self-gratification (as I do feel that straight men tend to be more conservative even in masturbation practices). Then you can expand into toys, practices that feel moreso queer like edging, or cum eating etc. Then, if you manage to convince him, you could introduce hole content, solo anal play etc. and eventually reach a level where he's seeming open to actual interaction and experimentation.

You also have to be careful to not fall into the trap of the alpha male person though. I feel like a more open, sexually liberated yet strictly heterosexual male persona is more inviting and can cater to the consumers' fantasies with him better.

As "filler" content I do think casual nudity can also boost this no-fucks-given type personality. So videos of him changing or showering at the gym locker rooms (maybe semi-hard and making sure that others catch a glimpse), naked workout videos or if he has time alone around the house (or maybe at your place) simple daily routine chores or activities done naked. Maybe sweeping the living room, cooking or watching TV, even with you present but clothed if you'd be up for that.

Gay men, who will most certainly be his main audience, would kill to have such a provocative and sex positive straight best friend that likes to show off for them, so having them live vicariously through you or creating that fantasy would be very profitable in my opinion.

P.S.: We'd love to see some more pictures of him and his big uncut German tool, you know, for research purposes.

 

[friskydawg]

Hey @friskydawg , I totally understand what you're saying about the mask; it could either be off-putting or add an element of intrigue to his persona. One of my go-to performers on Chaturbate is MrLelex/Killerqueen88, who always wears a mask – it adds an air of mystery and sensuality that really resonates with me. In fact, I'd prefer not to see his face ever, as it would ruin the magic for me.

I know pixelating his face in photos would be easy, but not so much for videos. I am good at graphics, but I still have to get up in the morning and drive to work. I also run a small 3d printing business from home and that's why I thought of printing custom masks for him – one design is already looking promising (see attachment). What do you think about this option?

I am aware that it's essential for him to understand that his primary audience will likely consist of gay men. He will know that as soon as he gets his first 10 subscribers, 10 of which will probably be men

He will for sure show hole, I will make very sure of it. As for anal play, while it may take some time, it's merely a matter of establishing boundaries and willingness to adapt if he wants to succeed on OF.
re. ä.
One fun fact about him that I can attest to is that he has never been with anyone else before – he attempted an encounter with an escort girl, but it didn't work out.

Hey - if a mask is essential (which apparently it is) then you are certainly on the right track. Certainly better than some Halloween mask! And I get that everyone has their own likes and dislikes so there are probably lots of guys like you who like the mystery and intrigue of a guy wearing a mask. You will find out quickly from comments that subscribers will make, I’m sure. If he shoots big loads then that is certainly a positive!

 

[LTUK]

He looks incredible in those photos. For me personally you got my attention at "leaks premium like crazy" - I absolutely love that and not many performers make a thing of showing it. Maybe that could become one of his niche things? I agree with others re the getting the balance right, and quality rather than quantity. I would say that showing off arse and hole is a must & glad that he would be ok with that, with any luck ass play would come later down the line. Playing with toys is a great idea too.

 

[fireweed]

Thank you for your input, @fireweed

I completely agree with you about the danger of repetitiveness. I'll definitely keep an eye on that to ensure the content remains fresh and engaging.

Do you have any suggestions regarding the theme of the content we should create? Should we start with a simple and sexy approach and then expand from there, or would it be better to specialize in a particular niche right from the start? Any specific themes or ideas that you think would work well for him?

I'm eager to hear more of your thoughts. Thanks again for your support and guidance!

I don't think you need a specific niche. I agree with most following comments. A growing vibe is good, and a sexually liberated and sex positive straight men is the best approach. My favourite models have been the one where you could tell that exploring their exhibitionist side and trying different things was a huge turn on for them.

As for the mask, I agree that it can be a very enticing thing. But to me, it's necessary to see the eyes at least. The mask you designed is perfect. It makes the mystery super hot. I also like if over time the mask becomes slightly more revealing, or if we get partial face, like just the mouth, but yeah I get why some models prefer to stay anonymous.

 

[Jamie L]

Hey guys, I'm so glad you're all excited about the project! I hope my English is good enough - if my writing sounds strange to you, its probably because of the German syntax and a non-sufficient English vocabulary

@LustLickLove
I also think that is a “must” for him to cash on that bum he’s got



@999alexandergrand
I believe my most important task will be to keep him engaged and committed. I also mentioned that we need to take some photos and videos that aren’t just “selfies.” We might need to find a retreat for this purpose, but that shouldn’t be an issue. I’m very curious to see how open he will be with me, considering he’ll need to "interact" with himself for me to capture that content.

@Damon01
The suggestion to explore the AI tool is indeed worth considering. Thank you for this idea. I believe incorporating moans and groans, heavy breathing and some "onomatopoeia" won’t be an issue.

@BitchYaaaaaa
The idea of emphasising his straight family man persona feels natural to me because that is who he truly is, so there won’t be much “acting” required. This is why the “alpha male” niche doesn’t appeal to me as much. While he could certainly play that role and can be rough at times, I believe he needs love and attention more (I don’t want to get too personal about that here).

@friskydawg
I wouldn’t say the mask is “essential,” but I prefer it over pixelation. To me, a blurred face often signifies something disturbing to look at. In Germany, pixelation is typically used to mask the faces of convicts, felons, and similar individuals, or to obscure accidents and bloody scenes. I’m very happy to live in a country where you can indeed see asses, cocks, and tits after 8 PM on public television.
About the “big loads”… I have to tell you a "tragic" story. So, I’m pushing him to get some content done, and he sends me a video of him masturbating (the first time I’ve ever seen him do that). There I am, all excited in front of my monitor, and what do I see? Ten seconds of him cumming on a white piece of soft cloth. It was a huge load, yes, but what happened to the rest of the video? I asked him, and he told me he had masturbated for about 20 minutes (he needs longer to finish, or so he said) and only filmed the cumshot because he thought that’s what I wanted. So, you see how much work I have ahead of me?

@LTUK
Based on what I’ve seen so far, I can report that he produces significantly more precum than the average mortal. I find it quite hot, and I will definitely explore this aspect further.

@fireweed
The mask reference you made really opened my eyes, and I thank you so much for that. The idea to gradually make the mask more revealing over time is awesome! I’ll make sure everyone gets to see his eyes; he has the most beautiful green eyes you’ve ever seen, trust me.

@All
Guys, thank you so much for all your input. I expected nothing less from you—you truly are an awesome community!


Question: any ideas for a name? Should we do a poll once we have some good suggestions?

 

[Damon01]

Names are tough. but I’ll give it a try…

Max Stahl

 

[Damon01]

Names are tough. but I’ll give it a try…

Max Stahl

Scratch that! I googled the English version and there’s already someone by that name. sorry