How did you know

[frogman]

How did you decide or know you were transgender? Sometimes I wish my dick was really small or gone and I just always wondered. Most times I like it, but I just think its too big sometimes.

Thanks.

 

[ericats]

I knew I was transsexual when I was 3 or 4 though I didn't know what it was called. I just knew I was a girl and not a boy and would cry and carry on when ever someone tried to correct me. Being transsexual is more than not liking your genitals it a sense of self as the opposite of the gender you are labeled at birth.

 

[frogman]

OK thanks. I don't think I'm a girl, really, I just sometimes get very embarrasses about my maleness.

 

[ericats]

Be proud of who you are. Hold your head high and be confident in the person you are. You still may want to see a counselor about your concerns.

 

[frogman]

Thanks. I sometimes imagine what it would be like to have no dick and no bulge. I'm too big and draw too much attention. It's okay but sometimes like I said it would be nice to not have that heavy weight hanging there and so visible for everyone to see. Thank you for answering me.

 

[ericats]

If you have weight issues with your genitals you may have a severe medical condition.

 

[frogman]

Ha, no not a medical issue. I'm just think my junk is too big for my height and I am acutely aware of it all the time and because of that can feel it hanging, if that makes sense. I should probably talk to a shrink. I know most people wish they were hung, but sometimes for me I really don't like having that big thing hanging there, and wish people would notice me and not my crotch.

 

[ericats]

You do know you are in the wrong category.

 

[frogman]

I was just curious because I found this guy on X-tube and while I think he is extreme I have wondered what it would be like to have my junk removed. And I was just wondering if that thought process was what transgender people think, which is why I asked here.

sidewiner's Gallery :

Mostly I do like my junk but like I said sometimes it bothers me and I think about not having it and what that would be like.

Like I said I probably need a shrink, LOL

 

[Jcurve44]

Im glad you are so well adjusted Erica

 

[ericats]

thank you Jcurve.

 

[Samantha Hopkins]

I dont think I knew I was transgender...or at least i didn't think of it that way in the beginning for sure. In the beginning dressing as a girl made it easier to deal with all the horror and embarrassment I felt about having sex with guys. By dressing and pretending to be a girl it made it seem OK to do stuff with guys because it was "normal" for girls to do stuff with guys.

After a while, dressing as a girl made it easier for guys to do stuff with me as well. With most guys, having me dressed as a girl gave them a pass on the whole gay thing. I totally understood where they were coming from there. With other guys, especially those who were regular friends with benefits, the fact that i loved dressing in Lingerie, boots and anything they wanted was a huge hit. That and that I couldn't get pregnant.

After a while i settled down and understood it for what it is, but I never knew as a kid. It just sort of happened.

 

[MissThing]

I always knew I was female, even as a child. I gravitated toward toys that were marketed for girls, you know the story. As a young teenager, I came out as homosexual, though I knew it still wasn't quite right, but for the lack of a more precise term, I went with it. I was too male for the straight guys and too female for the gay ones. A couple of years after I started living full time this way (I was probably 20 or so when I started full time), I came across the term transgender and knew that it described what I had felt my entire life. It has never had anything to do with my genitals, really; I just knew that I always identified as female.