(Don't take the bait, oh! please don't take the bait...gracious no! please, for the love of all that is scared and good, don't take the.....ah, nuts! He took the bait).
How many close "straight friends" you suspect or confirmed that are bi curious ?
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You good, man? I said in my initial post I wasn't going to bog down the thread and you commented to spare us, then someone else posted and you're still going. It's up to them if they message.
I'll leave it to you to read the posts and responses to arrive at your own conclusion.
Does anyone have a technique to "seduce" someone you thought was bisexual (and succeeded). I have a friend which I suspect he is, and he does not know anything about me but I believe he suspects.
I’d always find a reason to put on porn to start anything with those types
Seduction only works when the other party, who is the target of the desire, offers an opportunity to be seduced. No "technique" will be successful if the other person is not already romantically inclined toward you. That's the difficult thing about attraction -- it has to be mutual and cannot be manipulated.
Agreed. The question in this case should be on the How to determine the other person's interest of exploring when there have been only (what you assume are) hints ? Asking upfront is not an answer as it is too delicate and risky... tough situation to be in, imo
Such is the art of romance. It's a more subtle one than merely experimenting with techniques gathered on a site like this -- at least, I hope so.
I understand that, but I'm 99% sure he's bi and attracted to me. It's just I'm afraid to make the first move. The 1% could be catastrophic.
What makes you think that interest is mutual ? What are the hints that he gave you or things he does or say ?
Probably one of the worst feelings is discovering your crush has your same sexual orientation but it's not into you, lolol.
:')
Fear of asking a question? (In which case, you remain ignorant). Fear he is straight? (In which case, you are heterophobic). Fear you get rejected? (In which case, your ego is too big). People who succumb to their fears are unattractive.
I lot of touching, hands, even he have been touching legs or knees for several seconds, the eyes; then some reels he has sent me and of course I sent some bi ambiguous posts as well
Same situation here with my friend. Try to be forward and let me know how that goes. Maybe if some of us actually take action and share the results, it will encourage others in same situation to also take action
Some dudes will never admit it even if given the chance, what was my biggest crush once, admitted later that he was bisexual too but by that point I was already too bitter about everything that went wrong between us, so I didn't reacted in the slightest and changed topic.
To follow up my own post, the same guy later said to me privately "I'm not saying I'm bi, but never say never". So I'd guess he's at least fantasised about it.
I did also find out that one of the managers is into twinks and femboys. Which probably explains why we get a fair share of twinks working there lmao.
I had a workmate who I got on really well with, and I always felt we had a level of sexual tension, but he was straight. Fast forward a few years later and we unknowingly started exchanging messages and nude pics on a gay hookup site. The realisation that we were talking to each other made things very awkward, and we lost touch quickly after that. I always regretted how that worked out, I wish I'd said to him "let's just fuck".
I guess he wasn't as "straight" as he claimed. You're better off not being involved with someone who is so ashamed of his true self that he cannot openly embrace it.
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