How many close "straight friends" you suspect or confirmed that are bi curious ?

[Nemorex]

I just come home drunk and if we have chatted about it that night whack some porn on without asking and see how he reacts. At that stage you can pretend it was a joke or continue. Then talk about it for a bit while grabbing your dick, see how he reacts to that and just be like “fuck it I need a wank, you game and it never leaves this room?” Blame drink if they say no or have fun. Make out like you did it on a whim

That the way to do it. Maybe you guys just want off together the first night. I had 2 or three straight guy friends end up sucking each others cock

 

[bidudeDL]

That the way to do it. Maybe you guys just want off together the first night. I had 2 or three straight guy friends end up sucking each others cock

Mind telling us the full story ? The hints they gave you, how did they react and what happened after with the friendship ?

 

[Buuhan]

So another story on a guy I found out was bi-curious. I had met this dude years ago through another friend when I was working as a bartender at a gay bar. He was there comfortably but maintained he was straight. It was cool we just talked to each other to get to know each other. I thought that was it until my friend had a house party and that dude showed up.

We both ended up staying at my friends house until we were the only ones there. He started making jokes about how I was his bf and shit but I took it in stride. It was a fun night. When it was time for bed I got in the pull out couch and to my surprise he got in with me when there was other places to sleep. He even just slept in his underwear. Looking back I could have made a move but if I was wrong I didn’t want to have an issue at my friends house.

I told my friend about what happened and he wasn’t surprised. He said that he’s heard things about him and he had his suspicions.

fast forward years after hanging out, one day I drunk and sending him all kinds of messy texts like let me see your dick and how do you fuck. To my surprise he was answering all the questions but wouldn’t share a picture. I was embarrassed on my part the next day lol

but the next time we hung out at his place. He has roommates so we just stayed in his room smoking and drinking. I get super sleepy when I smoke so he saw that and told me I could get in his bed. I was glad because I didn’t want to drive home. Now, I just remembered that I had on A jockstrap for some reason so I didn’t want to take my jeans off but I fell asleep anyways.

I woke up to him spooning me and feeling all over my ass where the jockstrap was. This was all the confirmation I needed. My horniness kicked in and I pinned his legs up and went to town on him. We messed around and I fucked him until I got sleepy again and we passed out.

we still talk and everything now but haven’t mentioned that situation yet. Next time we in person again I’ll bring it up to see if we can recreate it lol

I want to add the explicit details in these posts but then the post would be too long lol I’ll let y’all fill in the blanks

 

[Buuhan]

Ready for another story..,

there was this guy I’ve known for years. Bloke who looked Australian with the way he dressed and blue eyes. He knew I was gay and would always tease me by doing dumb stuff. Like make me go kiss with him, randomly showing his dick, giving me hickeys…
I didn’t want to push it so I kept I cute and didn’t do anything more than what was giving with the situation.
well one day we were drunk and he got naked in my hot tub. He let slip that he might do something if he was horny enough. Just would need to put some porn on of a like a Russian girl sucking a big dick. He ended up passing out that night before I got a chance to put that tidbit to use so I kept that info in my pocket waiting to use it at the perfect time.
the perfect time came when we got to a friends after a night of partying. Somehow we all ended up in one bed. The other friend happened to pass out while we were still up talking. I put the kind of porn on that he liked and it was like he was in a trance. He took my phone and started jerking.
He was still fully clothed and under a blanket but I was so horny that I just went for it. I started taking off his shoes expecting him to stop me but he never did. So I kept going until I finally got his dick in my mouth.
I know I did a good job because he ended up shooting in my mouth with no warning, moaning softly and trembling.
after that day, whenever I could tell we both were horny and wanted to do something I’d just put on porn for him and He’d activate lol
We don’t really hang anymore now because he’s sober and got a gf lol I’m sure when they’re done he’ll be back

 

[mrjobuddy]

Bottom line. In todays society it is great way to ruin a friendship. Because even if your friend felt receptive to you asking, their fear of being thought of as weird, gay, etc... Would stop them....sad!

 

[l3moning]

Bottom line. In todays society it is great way to ruin a friendship. Because even if your friend felt receptive to you asking, their fear of being thought of as weird, gay, etc... Would stop them....sad!

Arguably it's less likely to ruin a friendship now than it would have been 20-25-30 years ago or more. Depends on the people involved, of course.

 

[carolina_jacker]

This is something I wonder about a lot too. Sometimes I think every guy is curious to some extent, though some would never admit it or act on it. I've never been able to confirm a close friend was bi or bi curious, but I have had coworkers and acquaintances that I discovered were, mostly through craigslist personals, and a few sites and apps for same sex hook ups. Some of them surprised me, others I kind of had my suspicions already.

I wonder how many wonder it about me too though. Ideally I'd love to have a close friend that I know and trust that I could also play around with on occasion. Just to scratch that itch. Random hook up are just too risky these days.

 

[1373263]

Arguably it's less likely to ruin a friendship now than it would have been 20-25-30 years ago or more. Depends on the people involved, of course.

And also on how the friendship developed- was there an element of sexual attraction there from the beginning?
If its a friend who I suddenly notice is hot or starts to turn me on, cold shower time... someone who I'm friendly with and there is sexual element, maybe. Chances are they see it the same way too...

 

[mrjobuddy]

The idea of being turned ob by the friend is a whole different issue. Wanting to do more than play crosses the line from curious to bi/gay.

 

[MNpervert]

One friend that I have known for years I suspected was Bi we ended up hooking up one night after bar closing. He asked alter if it got weird and I said no we both got what we needed and you understand that it's not a long term thing. Turns out he actually admitted years later he was actually gay.
I have two other friends I suspected, one I still dont know but the other I found him on a gay dating app.

 

[BiDiscovery]

I was at work one day talking with a co worker about women, sex, and bj’s. Out of the blue he said guys give better bj’s then women. I took it he was speaking from experience and had my suspicions since.

 

[yld1]

Freshman year of college, I had a good friend who I hung out with all the time. He was handsome, worked out a lot and had a great body, and was constantly talking about sex and girls he fucked. He also talked about his dick a lot, how big it was. He once was wearing sweatpants and pressed the fabric against his dick to show the outline, saying “look how big my dick is, and it’s totally soft.” This made me wonder if he was totally straight, because it was just the two of us, no girls around.

Anyway, one night we were watching TV in my room, and I just hear him out of nowhere, “you have really nice lips. You know, if I was drunk enough, I’d kiss those lips.” This was a dream come true because I’d been crushing on him hard since we met, but I was totally in the closet at the time, so I just panicked and said nothing. He never brought it up again. Probably the greatest regret of my college life lol.

Pulls out 30pk of beer

 

[bidudeDL]

Went on a trip recently with a group of friends and shared a room with my buddy. We openly talked about porn jerking off etc. In the morning, he would often be sleeping on his bed without the sheets so I could see his boner, and I would do the same. He even undressed in front of me once thinking I was sleeping and got a glimpse of his semi dick. As a joke, before showering he got naked in the bathroom then got out and showed me his soft dick while laughing. When it was my turn to shower I did the same, although I was already rocking a semi. Several times during the trip he joked with me about how he is sure that I want to see his dick and jerkoff next to him. I tool action and jerked off once while he was asleep. Another time while he was awake, he didnt believe that I had the gut to do it so I removed the sheets and showed him that I was naked. One of the hotel we went to only had 1 queen bed so we had to share it. During the night I tried to spoon him discretly and ended up with his hands cupping my dick, after a min or so tried to move closer and he quickly turned and pushed me while "sleeping". In the morning he joked about me trying to spoon him, but when I told him about his hands cupping my balls, he denied that it happened and said "maybe with only 1 hand and by mistake". Knowing out history, I cant help but wonder if he did all of this on purpose to tease me or to throw some signals or whether this was just some bonding time. What do you think ? And what should I do next now that we are back in town ?

 

[bi1987]

A close friend is adamant he is straight (he does, of course, have the right to self-identify any way he wishes) and knows I'm bi. He's done stuff with guys in the past but claims not to enjoy it. Sometimes when we drink we kiss (but only a quick peck on the lips). Once or twice we've full-on made out but the next day always put it down to the drink or the fact that we're really close and are just showing that platonic love to each other. I do wonder how straight he actually is haha.

 

[Nemorex]

A close friend is adamant he is straight (he does, of course, have the right to self-identify any way he wishes) and knows I'm bi. He's done stuff with guys in the past but claims not to enjoy it. Sometimes when we drink we kiss (but only a quick peck on the lips). Once or twice we've full-on made out but the next day always put it down to the drink or the fact that we're really close and are just showing that platonic love to each other. I do wonder how straight he actually is haha.

Sounds like is working up to making out with your dick. Hope so one day

 

[l3moning]

There's a guy at my work who is a bit too insistent about being straight, and also is quite flirty with various young blonde guys, and he also once clumsily said, about one of said blonde twinks, "I didn't realise his legs were so thin", in a way which got taken by everyone as he was ogling the guys arse

 

[pedroram4567]

I have one friend who I'm almost sure he's also bi. We're over 40; and we've been friends for several years, and there are some hints. And of course I reciprocate the hints

 

[bidudeDL]

I have one friend who I'm almost sure he's also bi. We're over 40; and we've been friends for several years, and there are some hints. And of course I reciprocate the hints

Care to elaborate on the hints and how you react to them ? Also, why haven't you act or talk about it with him ?

 

[pedroram4567]

It's subtle but you can feel them, not sure if someone can relate to that, but the way he sees you while talking to you and a lot of touching your forearm or leg; then we send each other some ambiguous Instagram reels and other stuff; the thing is that I don't think I would dare to say or do something else, but guys I'm sure you can tell when your gut is right jeje, I guess that's my biradar

Care to elaborate on the hints and how you react to them ? Also, why haven't you act or talk about it with him ?

 

[deleted19462351]

Suspect? A couple
Confirmed? Just one and he's really weird about it, dresses very bi but also mostly mentions women and he used to constantly remind us how much he liked pussy among other things (but also he got a softie once I got very touchy)