Really? If I wanted to piss you off, I'd say ALL PEOPLE, regardless of race creed or color, deny small penis oppression much like white people tend to deny the remaining racism against Blacks. I don't deny the remaining racism, by the way, because I see it up close.
I hope that didn't actually piss you off. I meant it as a clarification.
I continue to wait for advice on "How to get over being small."
You seemed to suggest in a metaphorical way that dropping our shields (defenses? hiding tendency?) might be helpful. My testimony is that it isn't helpful. The Patriarchal Phallocracy treats the small like "near women" and oppresses both the small and women. It is true that typical "defenses" often identify the small crippled as surely as nudity.
I have no problem with accepting that throughout history women were treated worse than the small. The small might have developed compensatory fighting skills, limiting their vulnerability more successfully than women, etc.
Gotta admit. I lied. And i lied on purpose. I've already talked about how black people or african americans (not blacks, it may not seem important to you when it comes to language but it matters) can help men with small or smaller. I was just curious to see if you read it. Apparently you did not. Which says more about your way of understanding issues and discussing issues than anything else.
(But the topic is "How to Get Over Being Small." So far, we just get denial (or minimization) that the problem exists. Please tell me what Black people can contribute to dealing with this problem. The "small" Black men I've communicate with didn't seem to have an answer.)
You've kept repeating that the topic is men with small or smaller. As if i've been trying to change the subject. And as we've already seen i've talked before about how what black people go through can be of assistance to men with small or smaller.
(Because i mean, do women exist who are pleased by your size? What about men? Is it statistically possible for that to be the case? What do you think black people do regularly that you might not be doing regarding penis size? Do black people in general automatically accept what racists say as not only being true but 100% true? Should anyone accept what others say as being true 100% without ever asking questions or only asking a few? Should black people take whats said to them directly to heart and should they feel bad about themselves because it was said? There was a point to where the racist stuff got to me. And sometimes rarely still do when i'm in a vulnerable state. It's just that i know why they say it. Why they feel it. Where it comes from. Who taught it to them. What they aren't saying. What they're afraid to say. How instantly afraid of my race they are and why. And most of all they know there's no way in hell they could handle even a fraction of what they dish out.)
Questions. And the answers to those questions. Been saying that this entire time. And yet every last reply from you now says and implies i haven't. With bits of you flat out denying that it even could help. I think what's been happening and what continues to happen here is pretty clear. It may not be clear to you. You may hope it isn't clear to others. But i'm very sure it's crystal.
(The "small" Black men I've communicate with didn't seem to have an answer.))
So does that then mean there aren't any?
(I continue to wait for advice on "How to get over being small.")
And you got it, multiple times.
(You seemed to suggest in a metaphorical way that dropping our shields (defenses? hiding tendency?) might be helpful.)
Where you got this from i do not know. Asking questions of people does not make you vulnerable. Again, how you came to that conclusion i have no clue.
(Of course it is true. Bringing that up is besides the point: competing victimhoods again.)
At this point i'm pretty sure you're trying to paint me as the alt-right's label of needing to be a victim. Your language is so close to it that it's taking everything in me to continue giving you the last few shreds of benefit of doubt i can muster. And not completely and utterly dismiss you completely. Even if groups that want to kill men with small or smaller are created today it would still never compared to what was done, what is being done and what will continue to be done to black people. There is no competition. Period. I'm not just saying that as a black man. I'm saying that as a black man who does his best to be as logical as possible.
(Of course men are overly emotional about their penis size and sexual performance as compared to women. Yeah! That's part of how it works! Penis size is primarily a male status issue.)
And yet women are made fun of for way more things than guys. If they don't have the right makeup, aren't the specific size, if their vagina has long lips, if they haven't shaved, if they don't have money, if they do, if they like sex, if they don't among a whole host of other things. Difference is stead of labeling the wrong people of promoting it women have started movements targeting the specific groups of people who push that sort of stuff. With men created groups to try to silence them illogically.
Again, even the bibles of the world make fun of women. Make women to be seen as less than men. With as far as i can tell absolutely nothing in them about men with small or smaller. I mean do stores for men change sizes even within specific store brands for the sole purpose of making men feel like shit over their weight? No.
And then there's breast size, hair, waist, feet, ankles, thighs, hands and so on that women very often are made of for having against what men have created as the standards of beauty. Before they're of age, during and after. There's literally websites devoted by women to pointing out how even in older ages women are expected to continue on manipulated standards of beauty when men do not. A guy can get chubby in their older ages and have it not be seen as too much of an issue. Meanwhile men will divorce a woman immediately after she's gained weight even after having his kids.
(Really? If I wanted to piss you off, I'd say ALL PEOPLE, regardless of race creed or color, deny small penis oppression much like white people tend to deny the remaining racism against Blacks.)
And what would piss you off is me accurately and logically saying....there is no oppression when it comes to men with small or smaller.
[Oppression refers to an overt or secret malicious and harmful pattern of subjugation and exploitation of a community or individuals practiced by a regime, which is thus authoritarian or totalitarian but may be autocratic or hegemonic, on one or more levels of social structures such as governments and institutions from international to local.]
The government could not care less if a man is small or smaller. So while there are social problems and men with small or smaller are socially considered less than illogically. Men with small or smaller are not and i mean are NOT...oppressed. There is no political party within government that wants to ban men with small or smaller from the country. No political party that would use dog whistle politics to imply that men with small or smaller are inherently dangerous. No political party that would like to take away the rights of men with small or smaller because they are small or smaller.
There is though a political party who wants to do that with muslims. With immigrants. With african americans. With women. What you said doesn't make me angry. It makes me laugh. How ignorant or dismissive of history do you have to be to think like you do? Very. If anything it makes me sad. Because the very thing i've said this entire time could without doubt help you personally.
(With justification they ridicule men who can't cope with being compared sexually.)
No, it's justified when men with small or smaller get to the point you personally have. Where you try to put having a small or smaller penis on the same level as traditionally targeted groups of people who were murdered...again MURDERED for their skin color, their gender, their sexuality, their religion, and so on. THAT'S when it's valid to ridicule men with small or smaller. Because it's massively illogical. And no normal human being would think it's equal. So basically when men with small or smaller get the point you have. They deserve the ridicule. At that point the ridicule serves a purpose. Since you refuse to educate yourself might as well have a little fun with it.
I think i've officially said about as much as is possible to you. Hopefully other men with small or smaller get it. It's clear you never will. Have a good one.