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the other question no one has asked of the op is whether he's knew to this, or inexperienced - if either that can just be one of those things that will change in time and with experience - mostly though its just relaxing and not worrying about your 'performance' again which comes with time and experience. so go with the suggestions from others but also as one poster said this is tied to psychological issues probably more around 'worrying' about performance or lasting long enough - relax, breathe and take time - experience will help too.