I’m always was curious about living with a penis!

LOL - I did that today, too1 And I had to be on cam. Dress shirt up top, no pants down below. Bonus that I had another cam (attached to a different computer) under my desk so others could watch me stroke and play. :)
Oohh you are really naughty!
Who vould watch you?
 
Oohh you are really naughty!
Who vould watch you?
I was in another cam group. I didn’t finish, though. I’m 100% sure I couldn’t have kept a straight face on the work cam when I was cumming. LOL
 
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How is that to wake up and feel as first your cock hard?
I don't always wake up with an erection, even in my younger days, but having an erection always feels good no matter what time of day or night it happens.
I mean I love sex and so yes I think also, it is great to pee where ever you want?
Yes, it is quite convenient to be able to pee (almost) wherever we want!

Touch yourself through clothes and feeling good?
Yes, seeing a sexy woman, looking at pictures and videos, or just thinking about the sex I have had in the past will get me hard, and I will always touch myself through my clothing as long as nobody else can see me!
 
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Having had a penis for over five decades there are times I still am very self-aware of it, while other times (maybe for most of my day) I really don't think about it. Kind of like any other body part, such as one's nose. You are glad it's there to serve a purpose but also forget about it most of the time. Yet at other times, I might touch it or give it a squeeze for no reason during the day, particularly if I get a spontaneous erection. I think a lot of men have the unconscious need to manipulative their dicks through their clothing periodically, given the number of guys one might catch playing pocket pool unaware.

Since I almost always wake up in the morning with my dick at its hardest, this is one of the times I'm very much aware of it, yet it very, very rarely goes beyond that as for a lot of men, erection and libido can be two separate things and despite it sometimes being hard enough to be uncomfortable, I don't really feel in the mood to have sex or touch and stroke it when first being aroused from slumber. Going to the bathroom brings it down immediately, proving it is more a response to a full bladder than actual horniness. In fact, my wife will sometimes grab it teasingly and then tell me to go pee, knowing that it's not really hard because I want to do something and that urinating will make it deflate.

As far as using the bathroom, having a penis is one of those things I love about being a man as it allows me to do my business and leave without much muss or fuss. Pull it out, do a few shakes, zip up and I'm on my way, minimizing both the time I have to remain standing in the piss puddles around most urinals and worry about restroom voyeurs (spend enough time around here and it's hard not to be paranoid :laughing:).
Not having to worry about sitting down on a public toilet just to pee and waste time decontaminating the seat prior to said sitting, which could amount to several times a day, makes me feel bad for women who have no choice.

Of course, sometimes, having a penis has its disadvantages and as a result sometimes makes me envy women and their less prominent bits. One is in having to always take care that I wear the kind of clothing that does not highlight it. With the exception of the sexually charged environment of a sex club or party, I am not an exhibitionist by nature and very self-conscience that the twig and berries are not on display in vanilla or public settings. This is not always an easy thing to do, even with clothes that I think are somewhat baggy, but I do try even if it can't always be 100% helped.

Another drawback is in having to be aware of the vulnerability of my male parts, especially around situations where it could be an issue. Getting hit in the balls or having one's penis slam against something is no fun to say the least and another area that as proud as I sometimes am to have this obvious and fair-sized tool, sometimes it's a little too out there for comfort. Even sex can be hazardous if one is too enthusiastic, particularly with certain positions.

I also love the fact, that unlike with women, my orgasm is visual and prominent with a dick's ability to pump out cum, yet at the same time, I am sometimes jealous of a lot of women who make it up by having multiple orgasms rather than being totally spent for hours or even days after just one.

Hope that answered your question and offered some enlightenment :).
 
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Having had a penis for over five decades there are times I still am very self-aware of it, while other times (maybe for most of my day) I really don't think about it. Kind of like any other body part, such as one's nose. You are glad it's there to serve a purpose but also forget about it most of the time. Yet at other times, I might touch it or give it a squeeze for no reason during the day, particularly if I get a spontaneous erection. I think a lot of men have the unconscious need to manipulative their dicks through their clothing periodically, given the number of guys one might catch playing pocket pool unaware.

Since I almost always wake up in the morning with my dick at its hardest, this is one of the times I'm very much aware of it, yet it very, very rarely goes beyond that as for a lot of men, erection and libido can be two separate things and despite it sometimes being hard enough to be uncomfortable, I don't really feel in the mood to have sex or touch and stroke it when first being aroused from slumber. Going to the bathroom brings it down immediately, proving it is more a response to a full bladder than actual horniness. In fact, my wife will sometimes grab it teasingly and then tell me to go pee, knowing that it's not really hard because I want to do something and that urinating will make it deflate.

As far as using the bathroom, having a penis is one of those things I love about being a man as it allows me to do my business and leave without much muss or fuss. Pull it out, do a few shakes, zip up and I'm on my way, minimizing both the time I have to remain standing in the piss puddles around most urinals and worry about restroom voyeurs (spend enough time around here and it's hard not to be paranoid :laughing:).
Not having to worry about sitting down on a public toilet just to pee and waste time decontaminating the seat prior to said sitting, which could amount to several times a day, makes me feel bad for women who have no choice.

Of course, sometimes, having a penis has its disadvantages and as a result sometimes makes me envy women and their less prominent bits. One is in having to always take care that I wear the kind of clothing that does not highlight it. With the exception of the sexually charged environment of a sex club or party, I am not an exhibitionist by nature and very self-conscience that the twig and berries are not on display in vanilla or public settings. This is not always an easy thing to do, even with clothes that I think are somewhat baggy, but I do try even if it can't always be 100% helped.

Another drawback is in having to be aware of the vulnerability of my male parts, especially around situations where it could be an issue. Getting hit in the balls or having one's penis slam against something is no fun to say the least and another area that as proud as I sometimes am to have this obvious and fair-sized tool, sometimes it's a little too out there for comfort. Even sex can be hazardous if one is too enthusiastic, particularly with certain positions.

I also love the fact, that unlike with women, my orgasm is visual and prominent with a dick's ability to pump out cum, yet at the same time, I am sometimes jealous of a lot of women who make it up by having multiple orgasms rather than being totally spent for hours or even days after just one.

Hope that answered your question and offered some enlightenment :).
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I kiss your…cock and thank you, it is so good to know, that not all is pure pleasure with a cock!
you told me all the things, I wondered but didnt know it exist. It is wonderful to know
 
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Hello dear wonderful lovely straight Men

how is that with a Penis? I’m a 100% straight woman, love my curvy body, my sexuality. But I always wondered how is that to wake up and feel as first your cock hard? I mean I love sex and so yes I think also, it is great to pee where ever you want? Touch yourself through clothes and feeling good?
hope that you get what I want to know
To me, it's great to have an obvious and potent sign of my sexuality. I walk around the house naked and go commando often. I'm in an almost constant state of arousal, if not awareness, and if I am not hard, it is because I am working or otherwise distracted.

My regular erections, especially morning wood, remind me that I have something special to offer, and I am motivated in life to share the enjoyment my cock can bring to women.

I love feeling the hardness and warmth of my cock. The rim of the head is especially sensitive and I play with it frequently. I also grip my smooth balls and pull on them. It's fun, feels good, so why not?

It's also a visual reminder. I catch a glimpse of my thick, meaty cock in the mirror and want immediately to share it with appreciative women. I shake my hips and let my cock slap my thighs, feeling the weight of it.

If there are any women who would see my cock and not be turned on, I would like to ask them why. It is an instrument of erotic pleasure and I know how to use it. You should see my cock and be inspired to imagine the head pressed deep against the back wall of your vagina, filling the warm pocket behind your cervix. I can clench and make my cock head swell in there.

What woman would not want to feel that?
 
So great that you told me, how wonderful you write about it, I never thought you or man can lay on stomach!

Oh yes so it is, you can see I have nice big boobs. Before when I was a child, I enjoyed to walk around with nothing, well when I was a Teenager and they grow , first boys started to see me and I started to touch my breast, it made me feel good and bad same time.
I’m now 53 (yes and I’m proud of them) of course they going down hang, are no more so strong as before but I always love to wear a bra, so still lovely.

i not like when they would loose shape, yes I love to wear clothes to show them or tight and it is great to wiggle them or look at it! It hurts me, when I run without a bra. But on the other hands, nipples are sensitive and when they jump up and down, and move over shirt, I have them hard immediately and it feels so great!
Wonderful decolletage! Looks like about four inches of cum catching cleavage there! Be proud of your fine body. We need more sexy women like you!
 
To me, it's great to have an obvious and potent sign of my sexuality. I walk around the house naked and go commando often. I'm in an almost constant state of arousal, if not awareness, and if I am not hard, it is because I am working or otherwise distracted.

My regular erections, especially morning wood, remind me that I have something special to offer, and I am motivated in life to share the enjoyment my cock can bring to women.

I love feeling the hardness and warmth of my cock. The rim of the head is especially sensitive and I play with it frequently. I also grip my smooth balls and pull on them. It's fun, feels good, so why not?

It's also a visual reminder. I catch a glimpse of my thick, meaty cock in the mirror and want immediately to share it with appreciative women. I shake my hips and let my cock slap my thighs, feeling the weight of it.

If there are any women who would see my cock and not be turned on, I would like to ask them why. It is an instrument of erotic pleasure and I know how to use it. You should see my cock and be inspired to imagine the head pressed deep against the back wall of your vagina, filling the warm pocket behind your cervix. I can clench and make my cock head swell in there.

What woman would not want to feel that?
Mmm kiss you, what a great description of your manhood!
I believe many women would be surprised about all of your saying.
Nowadays maybe it is different but, my generation had different thinking about Lust and men and of course sex.
Love it!
 
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Do you think the answer to your question might depend on if the guy answering has a massive cock or a small one?

A question I could ask women is, "What is it like to have boobs?"

I think the experience would be different for a woman with A cups or a woman like yourself.

I have always been a very sexy, horny man, but I actually didn't know that I have a massive cock until just a few years ago.

If my sexuality and the view I have, as I described earlier is because I have a huge cock, then it is completely natural and organic, not because I have an inflated ego as the result of knowing I am special. Perhaps I would never have been the way I am if I had a regular sized cock.

At least women know where they stand due to their tits from an early time in life. If you have big tits, you are going to receive plenty of attention and can feel very sexy because of it.

I just felt sexy but I didn't receive plenty of attention because of my huge cock to encourage me. So, it must be an entirely physical thing. Having a huge cock is a huge part of my daily life. Always has been.

The question is, does size matter, when it comes to the answer to your question?
 
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The question is, does size matter, when it comes to the answer to your question?

Do you think the answer to your question might depend on if the guy answering has a massive cock or a small one?

Oh I’m quite sure, it is different if it is small or big, it is like to have no or small breast or like mine!
I not wanted to walk around without a bra, it hurts when I run and jump and my breast are free. They move heavily, girls with small ones don’t know this feelings, and I not think all women would be honest about it.


A question I could ask women is, "What is it like to have boobs?"

At least women know where they stand due to their tits from an early time in life. If you have big tits, you are going to receive plenty of attention and can feel very sexy because of it.

That I think it isn’t so easy, when I was 14 and oh dear got tall for a woman (1m75cm) and got my big breast, I was not feeling great! I mean hello, man not have troubles that his cock can jump out of a shirt. Or all people look at you, and at this age, I wanted to fade away! Not have at all breast! To tall, big boobs and clumsy well no guy at all looked at me in the nice way.
So no, I think girls are better maybe with smaller breast. But yes now, I love my body as you all can see, I’m curvy, tall great boobs and look younger. So yes I’m ok.

But still I not always say all is fine, my nipples are very sensitive, so yes you kiss or lick it, I love it. But when maybe I have to run and someone push inside me hard, it hurts like hell and then best way, is to rub my nipples, ever watched a woman do that in a full train not so fun! So no can’t do it and it hurts.

I know women with really even bigger boobs, can have pain in the back and body. So yes not all is heaven. But I like to wear a bra, it helps with all that.
 
how is that with a Penis
Think Venom, the Marvel comics symbiote. Having a penis is disturbingly similar to Tom Hardy's portrayal of Eddie Brock living with an alien symbiote in body and in his head. It's distracting, often gives you bad ideas, and far too often interrupts logical and productive thought processes...whereas simultaneously it can serve as the greatest motivational source for us. It's a signal in the morning of a healthy boot up process, it's a built in stress relief mechanism that only requires an opportunity, not a reason
 
Pretty neat I'd say! :D

It's nice to have something you can play around with to make you feel good and, ideally, others as well. Also really practical because you can wasily piss everywhere you want.

Drawbacks are that the balls are really sensitive! I play sports in my free time as a goalkeeper, I've gotten pretty good at breathing away most of the pain but it's still very much no fun.
 
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Men and their cocks have a weird duality. For something so important to us, so defining to how we feel about our maleness to both other men and women, yet hidden away unseen leaving most men in a loop of torturous self doubt. Am I big enough? Is everyone else bigger than me? Can I satisfy a woman? Does it look normal? Will people laugh if they see me? And for straight men, the only real source of information to compare is to hear stories from your partner about their part experiences - not exactly accurate data and not always great hearing about other men fucking your GF/wife. Deep down most men develop a love/hate relationship with their penis.

The reason I can say this is I was one of those men till only recently. Full of self doubt about my cock. Having had only one partner and she only having a few (which included a particularly large gent), I had a very warped perception of my size and this had a big impact on how confident a man I felt, especially as I'm also short in height. I would even shy away from other men at urinals.

Now, not only because I know I'm on the large side, but also because I have learnt so much about penises (and seen more than I'd ever imagined), I'm so much more comfortable with this part of myself. And this has run on effects into many parts of your life. Jesus, even my golf game has improved :)

I love living with a penis (and a circumcised one which is more sensitive, and so enjoyable rubbing on your boxers), but it does have a dark side. By bringing it into the light, by talking about it more (maybe showing it a little more...), providing better education, will help so many men learn to love their penises, with support for men who are small, average or large just like I've found on this forum.
 
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Think Venom, the Marvel comics symbiote. Having a penis is disturbingly similar to Tom Hardy's portrayal of Eddie Brock living with an alien symbiote in body and in his head. It's distracting, often gives you bad ideas, and far too often interrupts logical and productive thought processes...whereas simultaneously it can serve as the greatest motivational source for us. It's a signal in the morning of a healthy boot up process, it's a built in stress relief mechanism that only requires an opportunity, not a reason
Well I never thought for a cock like a Marvel Comic, but hey I will start to read them now! thank you for all this lovely comments! Enjoy it. and makes sense!
 
Pretty neat I'd say! :D

It's nice to have something you can play around with to make you feel good and, ideally, others as well. Also really practical because you can wasily piss everywhere you want.

Drawbacks are that the balls are really sensitive! I play sports in my free time as a goalkeeper, I've gotten pretty good at breathing away most of the pain but it's still very much no fun.
Oh dear, I can say jealous about the Piss! Go on a big events, men never have to think, how long until I am can let it run........
and the other well, I know how it can hurts because of my not so small Breast! So maybe where something to protect????
 
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Men and their cocks have a weird duality. For something so important to us, so defining to how we feel about our maleness to both other men and women, yet hidden away unseen leaving most men in a loop of torturous self doubt. Am I big enough? Is everyone else bigger than me? Can I satisfy a woman? Does it look normal? Will people laugh if they see me? And for straight men, the only real source of information to compare is to hear stories from your partner about their part experiences - not exactly accurate data and not always great hearing about other men fucking your GF/wife. Deep down most men develop a love/hate relationship with their penis.

The reason I can say this is I was one of those men till only recently. Full of self doubt about my cock. Having had only one partner and she only having a few (which included a particularly large gent), I had a very warped perception of my size and this had a big impact on how confident a man I felt, especially as I'm also short in height. I would even shy away from other men at urinals.

Now, not only because I know I'm on the large side, but also because I have learnt so much about penises (and seen more than I'd ever imagined), I'm so much more comfortable with this part of myself. And this has run on effects into many parts of your life. Jesus, even my golf game has improved :)

I love living with a penis (and a circumcised one which is more sensitive, and so enjoyable rubbing on your boxers), but it does have a dark side. By bringing it into the light, by talking about it more (maybe showing it a little more...), providing better education, will help so many men learn to love their penises, with support for men who are small, average or large just like I've found on this forum.

Oh Thats so an interesting part to say about love/hate. Because (not want to hurt someones feelings here) all Men I met here, are confident and happy and sure and love their cock and body. Most what no one here knows. only one Man im talking privately. He knows me now a little, and knows that I am very insecure, and still not understand, why lot of men look at me and think I am great and sexy. so yep I can follow your thoughts! But I always will be thankful, for any comments and all you men tell me. that is new and great! But I not was sure, that men like women judge and and look and compare. thats new


sorry that made me laugh, how did or could your golf game improve????' wonder me really!


I am not sure, about that, but hopefully you are right. for one thing, I am thank you again for answering me! so good. and I wished haha for one day to be a man, to know really how it is. I wonder if any men ever wished to be a woman......naaaaaaaaaaaaa never! no men I talked wanted that! we are hmm what so complicated
 
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Oh Thats so an interesting part to say about love/hate. Because (not want to hurt someones feelings here) all Men I met here, are confident and happy and sure and love their cock and body. Most what no one here knows. only one Man im talking privately. He knows me now a little, and knows that I am very insecure, and still not understand, why lot of men look at me and think I am great and sexy. so yep I can follow your thoughts! But I always will be thankful, for any comments and all you men tell me. that is new and great! But I not was sure, that men like women judge and and look and compare. thats new


sorry that made me laugh, how did or could your golf game improve????' wonder me really!


I am not sure, about that, but hopefully you are right. for one thing, I am thank you again for answering me! so good. and I wished haha for one day to be a man, to know really how it is. I wonder if any men ever wished to be a woman......naaaaaaaaaaaaa never! no men I talked wanted that! we are hmm what so complicated
I agree this site is full of confident men who love their cocks, but I'm sure many weren't that way when they first stumbled on these forums. Just gaining a little awareness makes a huge difference.

And golf is all about confidence :)

Lastly, I imagine most men fantasise about being a woman briefly, for a bit of a play, but not long term...
 
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I agree this site is full of confident men who love their cocks, but I'm sure many weren't that way when they first stumbled on these forums. Just gaining a little awareness makes a huge difference.

And golf is all about confidence :)

Lastly, I imagine most men fantasise about being a woman briefly, for a bit of a play, but not long term...
You are right, i think. Lot of hear maybe still struggle

Ok I never understood Golf! So maybe now.

Ahaha yes only until you get the PMS then back to Man
 
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I wonder if any men ever wished to be a woman......naaaaaaaaaaaaa never! no men I talked wanted that! we are hmm what so complicated

I think for a short term it'd be fun to be a woman. I'd love to play with my titties, but I don't know if it'd be more fun than playing with my cock. It'd be fun to find out. I'd probably flash those girls any chance I got, kinda like to do with my cock here... but I could probably get away with flashing my titties in public.

I do know that I'd use my feminine wiles to get laid more. I assume this freaky friday situation wouldn't change who I'm attracted to so I'd probably still try to get with women, but I think I'd have to try a cock in my new pussy at least once...
 
I failed to add in my earlier response that this is a question best direct to my wife. She's lived with my penis for over 50 years and knows it quite well. She describes my penis as "needy". LOL