I want to experiment with having an experience with a male escort, I like the idea of meeting just for an hour of hot sex with someone more experience, especially with someone with a great body. But I’ve never been with one before. I’m curious what other peoples experiences have been? Did it feel comfortable? were they into it? Did it feel safe?
I’m considering going with an escort, any advice/ experience?
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I should probably add I’ve not really had much experience with guys, but always been curious, now I’ve had a bit of fun with a guy but it’s awkward when you haven’t done more than kiss and jerk off. It’s kind of hot to experiment further with someone who knows exactly what they are doing
That sounds hot. I’d actually like to be an escort and be paid to be a slut. It’s actually very arousing knowing someone is willing to pay to be with you just for sex.
A couple of tips:
Find an escort that is gay and a horny bastard that enjoys sex for it’s own sake. Avoid escorts that are essentially straight and just looking to make a quick buck. Look for a true professional that is a full-time sex worker and proud of what he does and the services he provides for other guys.
Be very upfront on your experience and expectations. The more he knows, the better he can prepare for and guide your time together. The best escorts know that it is more about making the client feel relaxed and comfortable than any particular act.
Have fun.
Find an escort that is gay and a horny bastard that enjoys sex for it’s own sake. Avoid escorts that are essentially straight and just looking to make a quick buck. Look for a true professional that is a full-time sex worker and proud of what he does and the services he provides for other guys.
Be very upfront on your experience and expectations. The more he knows, the better he can prepare for and guide your time together. The best escorts know that it is more about making the client feel relaxed and comfortable than any particular act.
Have fun.
Finally, a question! Lol. I’d be glad to offer my advice to you. It may be slightly the same as some other guys have posted to you thus fa, but here we go. Also, I have personally hired several escorts in the past for various reasons, mainly to get laid, but there were other times as well. I learned what to do and not to do quickly. It’s poor planning and simply generalizing your expectations, which could Ruin the experience, so let’s get started to ensure that doesn’t happen to you! I’ve always felt safe, comfortable and I’ve always felt they were into it. If I feel any of the items above, I didn’t rehire. I’ll make a suggestion, but it will be natural being your first time. They come to your home, show up as preferred, and talk a bit with you, like a person you just met, because, well…you have just met. That’s the time to hone your gut instincts and skill set. In my experience, these are very nice guys. Some are assholes, but hey, if you’re into that, even better.
First thing… You aren’t unique. MANY men have hired escorts for a variety of reason, the first reason, SEX. Never feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. It’s an itch, so scratch it! In fact, make it an event for yourself. That’s what you are doing— treating yourself to something great!
Planning—
1) Figure out exactly what you want and how ya want it. Obviously, you wanna get laid, but there are other simple things to consider such as:
a) Total package. Again, this is YOUR treat to yourself. Do you want a guy with Blond hair, dark hair, bald, age, tall, short, leather, Daddy, Twink?… you get the picture, but be very choosy! Find the 3 or 4 escorts you find most attractive on the site (I assume you are on-line and looking at a site) and pay CLOSE attention to what they offer in terms of services. Next, make a comparison list of each escort side-by-side. Where are they located? Do they want you to call them or do they prefer email? Do they require payment upfront? (BIG red flag…DO NOT ever do that!… payment and tip are always last.), how long do they provide their services—1 hour, 2, more?, do they have a minimum and max on their time, do they smoke, do you smoke?, do they drugs?, do they require a condom? (If not, STAY AWAY, you know this already), etc. If they arrogantly ask you for your picture as a requirement before hiring them, ditch them. They are just looking to fuck handsome, fit guys and get paid for it. Don’t give them the pleasure. They are working for you, not the other way around. And if you are worried about what they think of a request you make and if they’ll do it, don’t be worried. They’ve heard it all, and if they judge and are professional, they do it silently. Think no more about it when they say “sure, I can do so and so and so…”
b) You‘ve made you decision on the right guy. Great! Now, what are YOUR conditions? General things like, do YOU have a time limit?, when they show up, do you want to be touched, hugged, have them kiss you a lot, talk a little?, etc. On the sex side of things, do you want them to talk dirty to you, fuck you hard, fuck you slow, get a little rough with you, treat you like a cum slut? Just general stuff that YOU enjoy about sex, or maybe a fantasy of the sex with a guy that you’d LOVE to have but have been too afraid to ask for it. I had a fantasy, found the right escort and paid him to show up as someone else. He asked a lot of questions about what his demeanor should be, how he should dress, did he have an accent?, was he a rough guy, did he have a buddy who just happened to show up? (hey, I went ALL out on my fantasy!), stuff like that, which was incredibly hot and turned me the fuck on! I got EXACTLY a what I wanted and what paid for.
NOW, this is about what YOU want, what YOU are PAYING for so go fuckin nuts, man!
c) Now that you’ve found the guy you want as an escort, you can now go on to when you’d like to hire them. Remeber this: THEY ARE WORKING. YOU ARE PAYING. Sure, they like to fuck and who doesn’t, but you are PAYING THEM to be professional and fulfill your expectations. If email is their preferred contact, write an email as a draft and tweak until perfect. If a phone call is preferred, have a bulleted list of your and his requirements ready to discuss and validate, especially with his accommodations. Know the time you’d want and the date, etc. Also consider, what if there is an issue that comes up, can you call them to reschedule? What’s the best way to handle that situation, and the same goes for him as well. Be patient. I’d wait no more than 12 hours to hear back from them. If you are looking for same day, you might find it, but planning is better.
d) Okay, you’re all set. Go to the bank and pull out the cash you’ll need. Most will take Venmo, PayPal, CashAp, etc., but tell them you prefer cash. Paying cash will give you a step up considerably with the escort! CASH IS KING! If they do what they are supposed to and satisfy you, hey…they might get a nice big fat tip, right? Believe me, they want the cash And you WILL get exactly what you want. Okay, banking. Here’s an example of what I have done in the past:
Your Escort Charges—@ $400 per hour. Say you booked 2 hours, so that’s $800
Afterwards (a hopefully you can’t walk) was the escort:
-Pretty good, but…? $100 tip
-Very good? $150 tip
-Fucking great! $225 tip
-They did everything I wanted and more. I can’t walk, remeber my name and my ears are bleeding good? $350$400+ Tip
Have your base amount of cash ready in a room outside of where you had sex. Keep the tips someplace out of sight or in another room. Have all three tip amounts ready and put them in three individual envelopes: lowest tip on the bottom, mid tip in the middle, highest tip on top. Once they are paid the base amount you owe them, say, “oh, hold on a minute, man…”, get the tip envelope you think they deserve quickly, hand it to them and walk them (if you can) to the door. “I had a great time. Thanks a lot!”
If they were FUCKING INCREDIBLE, say nothing. Your tip will let them know, and also put you first on their phone as a VIP when you wanna get laid again.
Lastly, and is surprising how many people do not know this, don’t expect a “a had a good time”, phone call from them, or “hey, thanks for that awesome tip, bro!”, because it doesn’t work that way. Also, if you see them around, at a club, grocery shopping (that happened to me), or elsewhere, do nothing, just keep doing your thing and do not engage, even with eye contact or a smile. If they want to, they’ll approach you, etc. always let them make the first more or speak first. They may be with friends, family, boyfriend, etc.
T-MINUS 5.5 HOURS UNTIL…
e) This is the day you get laid, yo! Scenario: James is coming to your place/meeting him someplace at 7:30PM:
Pick out your outfit. Be casual. Dress to what you had in mind for the encounter.
Be in the shower by 2:30PM. Okay…Clean your body, and if you are on the receiving end of things, gotta clean the gremlin. (No more eating. Nothing. #1 of 3 cleanings. If you have a douche bag, use it. If you have a shower with a removable handle, use it. Use either one VERY good initially. At 5:30pm, take another shower with same steps, backing off from the very deep clean because you’ve already done that. Relax and let it all come out, making sure you are clean, clean, clean. At 6:30Pm, jump in the shower again and just do a check. Remeber, you want to be clean, clean, clean, clean…CLEAN!)
Have a drink, (Stay away from red wine. Just trust me on that lil’ tidbit…
), or do whatever it is that is relaxing to you.Brush your teeth. Floss your teeth. Use mouthwash. Repeat.
It’s 7:00PM. Get dressed. Give yourself enough time to choose something different if you’ve changed your mind. When you are done dressing, check on all of your envelopes and the base money you owe “James.”
Most important… BE YOURSELF. SMILE. RELAX. GET FUCKED GOOD N’ PROPER! ENJOY THIS GIFT YOU GAVE TO YOURSELF. BE KIND TO YOURSELF WITH YOUR THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS ALWAYS. YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT FROM ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE YOU HIRED AN ESCORT. IF YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP IT PRIVATE, KEEP IT PRIVATE…NO BIG WHOOP. I truly hope you have a GREAT time!
Muah!,
Jeff
Wow, thanksFinally, a question! Lol. I’d be glad to offer my advice to you. It may be slightly the same as some other guys have posted to you thus fa, but here we go. Also, I have personally hired several escorts in the past for various reasons, mainly to get laid, but there were other times as well. I learned what to do and not to do quickly. It’s poor planning and simply generalizing your expectations, which could Ruin the experience, so let’s get started to ensure that doesn’t happen to you! I’ve always felt safe, comfortable and I’ve always felt they were into it. If I feel any of the items above, I didn’t rehire. I’ll make a suggestion, but it will be natural being your first time. They come to your home, show up as preferred, and talk a bit with you, like a person you just met, because, well…you have just met. That’s the time to hone your gut instincts and skill set. In my experience, these are very nice guys. Some are assholes, but hey, if you’re into that, even better.
First thing… You aren’t unique. MANY men have hired escorts for a variety of reason, the first reason, SEX. Never feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. It’s an itch, so scratch it! In fact, make it an event for yourself. That’s what you are doing— treating yourself to something great!
Planning—
1) Figure out exactly what you want and how ya want it. Obviously, you wanna get laid, but there are other simple things to consider such as:
a) Total package. Again, this is YOUR treat to yourself. Do you want a guy with Blond hair, dark hair, bald, age, tall, short, leather, Daddy, Twink?… you get the picture, but be very choosy! Find the 3 or 4 escorts you find most attractive on the site (I assume you are on-line and looking at a site) and pay CLOSE attention to what they offer in terms of services. Next, make a comparison list of each escort side-by-side. Where are they located? Do they want you to call them or do they prefer email? Do they require payment upfront? (BIG red flag…DO NOT ever do that!… payment and tip are always last.), how long do they provide their services—1 hour, 2, more?, do they have a minimum and max on their time, do they smoke, do you smoke?, do they drugs?, do they require a condom? (If not, STAY AWAY, you know this already), etc. If they arrogantly ask you for your picture as a requirement before hiring them, ditch them. They are just looking to fuck handsome, fit guys and get paid for it. Don’t give them the pleasure. They are working for you, not the other way around. And if you are worried about what they think of a request you make and if they’ll do it, don’t be worried. They’ve heard it all, and if they judge and are professional, they do it silently. Think no more about it when they say “sure, I can do so and so and so…”
b) You‘ve made you decision on the right guy. Great! Now, what are YOUR conditions? General things like, do YOU have a time limit?, when they show up, do you want to be touched, hugged, have them kiss you a lot, talk a little?, etc. On the sex side of things, do you want them to talk dirty to you, fuck you hard, fuck you slow, get a little rough with you, treat you like a cum slut? Just general stuff that YOU enjoy about sex, or maybe a fantasy of the sex with a guy that you’d LOVE to have but have been too afraid to ask for it. I had a fantasy, found the right escort and paid him to show up as someone else. He asked a lot of questions about what his demeanor should be, how he should dress, did he have an accent?, was he a rough guy, did he have a buddy who just happened to show up? (hey, I went ALL out on my fantasy!), stuff like that, which was incredibly hot and turned me the fuck on! I got EXACTLY a what I wanted and what paid for.
NOW, this is about what YOU want, what YOU are PAYING for so go fuckin nuts, man!
c) Now that you’ve found the guy you want as an escort, you can now go on to when you’d like to hire them. Remeber this: THEY ARE WORKING. YOU ARE PAYING. Sure, they like to fuck and who doesn’t, but you are PAYING THEM to be professional and fulfill your expectations. If email is their preferred contact, write an email as a draft and tweak until perfect. If a phone call is preferred, have a bulleted list of your and his requirements ready to discuss and validate, especially with his accommodations. Know the time you’d want and the date, etc. Also consider, what if there is an issue that comes up, can you call them to reschedule? What’s the best way to handle that situation, and the same goes for him as well. Be patient. I’d wait no more than 12 hours to hear back from them. If you are looking for same day, you might find it, but planning is better.
d) Okay, you’re all set. Go to the bank and pull out the cash you’ll need. Most will take Venmo, PayPal, CashAp, etc., but tell them you prefer cash. Paying cash will give you a step up considerably with the escort! CASH IS KING! If they do what they are supposed to and satisfy you, hey…they might get a nice big fat tip, right? Believe me, they want the cash And you WILL get exactly what you want. Okay, banking. Here’s an example of what I have done in the past:
Your Escort Charges—@ $400 per hour. Say you booked 2 hours, so that’s $800
Afterwards (a hopefully you can’t walk) was the escort:
-Pretty good, but…? $100 tip
-Very good? $150 tip
-Fucking great! $225 tip
-They did everything I wanted and more. I can’t walk, remeber my name and my ears are bleeding good? $350$400+ Tip
Have your base amount of cash ready in a room outside of where you had sex. Keep the tips someplace out of sight or in another room. Have all three tip amounts ready and put them in three individual envelopes: lowest tip on the bottom, mid tip in the middle, highest tip on top. Once they are paid the base amount you owe them, say, “oh, hold on a minute, man…”, get the tip envelope you think they deserve quickly, hand it to them and walk them (if you can) to the door. “I had a great time. Thanks a lot!”
If they were FUCKING INCREDIBLE, say nothing. Your tip will let them know, and also put you first on their phone as a VIP when you wanna get laid again.
Lastly, and is surprising how many people do not know this, don’t expect a “a had a good time”, phone call from them, or “hey, thanks for that awesome tip, bro!”, because it doesn’t work that way. Also, if you see them around, at a club, grocery shopping (that happened to me), or elsewhere, do nothing, just keep doing your thing and do not engage, even with eye contact or a smile. If they want to, they’ll approach you, etc. always let them make the first more or speak first. They may be with friends, family, boyfriend, etc.
T-MINUS 5.5 HOURS UNTIL…
e) This is the day you get laid, yo! Scenario: James is coming to your place/meeting him someplace at 7:30PM:
Pick out your outfit. Be casual. Dress to what you had in mind for the encounter.
Be in the shower by 2:30PM. Okay…Clean your body, and if you are on the receiving end of things, gotta clean the gremlin. (No more eating. Nothing. #1 of 3 cleanings. If you have a douche bag, use it. If you have a shower with a removable handle, use it. Use either one VERY good initially. At 5:30pm, take another shower with same steps, backing off from the very deep clean because you’ve already done that. Relax and let it all come out, making sure you are clean, clean, clean. At 6:30Pm, jump in the shower again and just do a check. Remeber, you want to be clean, clean, clean, clean…CLEAN!)
Have a drink, (Stay away from red wine. Just trust me on that lil’ tidbit…
Brush your teeth. Floss your teeth. Use mouthwash. Repeat.
It’s 7:00PM. Get dressed. Give yourself enough time to choose something different if you’ve changed your mind. When you are done dressing, check on all of your envelopes and the base money you owe “James.”
Most important… BE YOURSELF. SMILE. RELAX. GET FUCKED GOOD N’ PROPER! ENJOY THIS GIFT YOU GAVE TO YOURSELF. BE KIND TO YOURSELF WITH YOUR THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS ALWAYS. YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT FROM ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE YOU HIRED AN ESCORT. IF YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP IT PRIVATE, KEEP IT PRIVATE…NO BIG WHOOP. I truly hope you have a GREAT time!
Muah!,
Jeff
Man, that is the best advice ever!Finally, a question! Lol. I’d be glad to offer my advice to you. It may be slightly the same as some other guys have posted to you thus fa, but here we go. Also, I have personally hired several escorts in the past for various reasons, mainly to get laid, but there were other times as well. I learned what to do and not to do quickly. It’s poor planning and simply generalizing your expectations, which could Ruin the experience, so let’s get started to ensure that doesn’t happen to you! I’ve always felt safe, comfortable and I’ve always felt they were into it. If I feel any of the items above, I didn’t rehire. I’ll make a suggestion, but it will be natural being your first time. They come to your home, show up as preferred, and talk a bit with you, like a person you just met, because, well…you have just met. That’s the time to hone your gut instincts and skill set. In my experience, these are very nice guys. Some are assholes, but hey, if you’re into that, even better.
First thing… You aren’t unique. MANY men have hired escorts for a variety of reason, the first reason, SEX. Never feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. It’s an itch, so scratch it! In fact, make it an event for yourself. That’s what you are doing— treating yourself to something great!
Planning—
1) Figure out exactly what you want and how ya want it. Obviously, you wanna get laid, but there are other simple things to consider such as:
a) Total package. Again, this is YOUR treat to yourself. Do you want a guy with Blond hair, dark hair, bald, age, tall, short, leather, Daddy, Twink?… you get the picture, but be very choosy! Find the 3 or 4 escorts you find most attractive on the site (I assume you are on-line and looking at a site) and pay CLOSE attention to what they offer in terms of services. Next, make a comparison list of each escort side-by-side. Where are they located? Do they want you to call them or do they prefer email? Do they require payment upfront? (BIG red flag…DO NOT ever do that!… payment and tip are always last.), how long do they provide their services—1 hour, 2, more?, do they have a minimum and max on their time, do they smoke, do you smoke?, do they drugs?, do they require a condom? (If not, STAY AWAY, you know this already), etc. If they arrogantly ask you for your picture as a requirement before hiring them, ditch them. They are just looking to fuck handsome, fit guys and get paid for it. Don’t give them the pleasure. They are working for you, not the other way around. And if you are worried about what they think of a request you make and if they’ll do it, don’t be worried. They’ve heard it all, and if they judge and are professional, they do it silently. Think no more about it when they say “sure, I can do so and so and so…”
b) You‘ve made you decision on the right guy. Great! Now, what are YOUR conditions? General things like, do YOU have a time limit?, when they show up, do you want to be touched, hugged, have them kiss you a lot, talk a little?, etc. On the sex side of things, do you want them to talk dirty to you, fuck you hard, fuck you slow, get a little rough with you, treat you like a cum slut? Just general stuff that YOU enjoy about sex, or maybe a fantasy of the sex with a guy that you’d LOVE to have but have been too afraid to ask for it. I had a fantasy, found the right escort and paid him to show up as someone else. He asked a lot of questions about what his demeanor should be, how he should dress, did he have an accent?, was he a rough guy, did he have a buddy who just happened to show up? (hey, I went ALL out on my fantasy!), stuff like that, which was incredibly hot and turned me the fuck on! I got EXACTLY a what I wanted and what paid for.
NOW, this is about what YOU want, what YOU are PAYING for so go fuckin nuts, man!
c) Now that you’ve found the guy you want as an escort, you can now go on to when you’d like to hire them. Remeber this: THEY ARE WORKING. YOU ARE PAYING. Sure, they like to fuck and who doesn’t, but you are PAYING THEM to be professional and fulfill your expectations. If email is their preferred contact, write an email as a draft and tweak until perfect. If a phone call is preferred, have a bulleted list of your and his requirements ready to discuss and validate, especially with his accommodations. Know the time you’d want and the date, etc. Also consider, what if there is an issue that comes up, can you call them to reschedule? What’s the best way to handle that situation, and the same goes for him as well. Be patient. I’d wait no more than 12 hours to hear back from them. If you are looking for same day, you might find it, but planning is better.
d) Okay, you’re all set. Go to the bank and pull out the cash you’ll need. Most will take Venmo, PayPal, CashAp, etc., but tell them you prefer cash. Paying cash will give you a step up considerably with the escort! CASH IS KING! If they do what they are supposed to and satisfy you, hey…they might get a nice big fat tip, right? Believe me, they want the cash And you WILL get exactly what you want. Okay, banking. Here’s an example of what I have done in the past:
Your Escort Charges—@ $400 per hour. Say you booked 2 hours, so that’s $800
Afterwards (a hopefully you can’t walk) was the escort:
-Pretty good, but…? $100 tip
-Very good? $150 tip
-Fucking great! $225 tip
-They did everything I wanted and more. I can’t walk, remeber my name and my ears are bleeding good? $350$400+ Tip
Have your base amount of cash ready in a room outside of where you had sex. Keep the tips someplace out of sight or in another room. Have all three tip amounts ready and put them in three individual envelopes: lowest tip on the bottom, mid tip in the middle, highest tip on top. Once they are paid the base amount you owe them, say, “oh, hold on a minute, man…”, get the tip envelope you think they deserve quickly, hand it to them and walk them (if you can) to the door. “I had a great time. Thanks a lot!”
If they were FUCKING INCREDIBLE, say nothing. Your tip will let them know, and also put you first on their phone as a VIP when you wanna get laid again.
Lastly, and is surprising how many people do not know this, don’t expect a “a had a good time”, phone call from them, or “hey, thanks for that awesome tip, bro!”, because it doesn’t work that way. Also, if you see them around, at a club, grocery shopping (that happened to me), or elsewhere, do nothing, just keep doing your thing and do not engage, even with eye contact or a smile. If they want to, they’ll approach you, etc. always let them make the first more or speak first. They may be with friends, family, boyfriend, etc.
T-MINUS 5.5 HOURS UNTIL…
e) This is the day you get laid, yo! Scenario: James is coming to your place/meeting him someplace at 7:30PM:
Pick out your outfit. Be casual. Dress to what you had in mind for the encounter.
Be in the shower by 2:30PM. Okay…Clean your body, and if you are on the receiving end of things, gotta clean the gremlin. (No more eating. Nothing. #1 of 3 cleanings. If you have a douche bag, use it. If you have a shower with a removable handle, use it. Use either one VERY good initially. At 5:30pm, take another shower with same steps, backing off from the very deep clean because you’ve already done that. Relax and let it all come out, making sure you are clean, clean, clean. At 6:30Pm, jump in the shower again and just do a check. Remeber, you want to be clean, clean, clean, clean…CLEAN!)
Have a drink, (Stay away from red wine. Just trust me on that lil’ tidbit…
Brush your teeth. Floss your teeth. Use mouthwash. Repeat.
It’s 7:00PM. Get dressed. Give yourself enough time to choose something different if you’ve changed your mind. When you are done dressing, check on all of your envelopes and the base money you owe “James.”
Most important… BE YOURSELF. SMILE. RELAX. GET FUCKED GOOD N’ PROPER! ENJOY THIS GIFT YOU GAVE TO YOURSELF. BE KIND TO YOURSELF WITH YOUR THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS ALWAYS. YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT FROM ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE YOU HIRED AN ESCORT. IF YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP IT PRIVATE, KEEP IT PRIVATE…NO BIG WHOOP. I truly hope you have a GREAT time!
Muah!,
Jeff
I wish you could have coached me a few years back. I speak out of experience
Hi Danny,
I used myself to escort when I was a student. Most of my clients were 50 yo or older. They were more driven by a lack of attention/affection than by sex. I do not regret this time although I am happy it is over.
I then started hiring escorts because I had a body type fantasy and I could not manage to hook up with a guy with this body type. My first time as a client was honestly disappointing.
As a client, I initially made a lot of mistakes because I was naive thinking that escorts are all honest (like me) and keep their words (like I do). I even got robbed once.
I am always vigilant now. For me, hiring an escort is like negotiating to rent a car for a trip.
I do not have physical preferences when hiring escorts now.
To put it shortly, I now recruit only when I am on a business trip and when i feel like it. The first advantage is that you do not have the awkwardness of meeting some stranger via a hookup app such as Grindr or Romeo. The second advantage is that I don't give a f*ck about what I look like or whether I will leave a good impression so I am super relaxed and I enjoy the moment.
My two golden rules:
1) Always recruit a versatile, even if eventually you end up only bottoming or only topping. This filter is a way of screening out fakers and gay-for-pay dudes who cannot get hard more than 30 seconds to satisfy a man. I prefer giving my money to a genuine gay guy than to a self-absorbed straight pretender.
2) Always have a conversation (ideally a vocal conversation, if not possible then by Whatsapp) on the phone before the meeting to speak about your sexual terms (do you want it rough or cuddly? balls-deep or romantic? anal or not? for my part, I love getting rimmed but not all escorts perform that: this is a topic I always address before). this is also a way to detect potential attackers (in case they have no reviews on websites)
Never forget: YOU are paying for a service and the escort is providing the service.
YOU ARE THE PRINCE, HE IS YOUR KNIGHT. You define the pace and the borders. If the escort puts too many constraints ("I dont do this, I dont do that"), drop him and hire someone else.
Take care!
This is useful advice thanks, this is where I might fall down if I don’t feel they are into me I’m not going to enjoy it. So I’ve gotta feel like I’m at least looking good
I understand your driver: you enjoy being the focus of attention and feeling attractive. Who would not?
My humble advice: just be mindful of not putting too much weight on your attractiveness, as the main reason why you are hiring is precisely to alleviate the burden of self-judgement. Otherwise you will get stressed for nothing and this will ruin the encounter.
Just let it go, feel natural and you will be sexy af!
Man, u must be very richFinally, a question! Lol. I’d be glad to offer my advice to you. It may be slightly the same as some other guys have posted to you thus fa, but here we go. Also, I have personally hired several escorts in the past for various reasons, mainly to get laid, but there were other times as well. I learned what to do and not to do quickly. It’s poor planning and simply generalizing your expectations, which could Ruin the experience, so let’s get started to ensure that doesn’t happen to you! I’ve always felt safe, comfortable and I’ve always felt they were into it. If I feel any of the items above, I didn’t rehire. I’ll make a suggestion, but it will be natural being your first time. They come to your home, show up as preferred, and talk a bit with you, like a person you just met, because, well…you have just met. That’s the time to hone your gut instincts and skill set. In my experience, these are very nice guys. Some are assholes, but hey, if you’re into that, even better.
First thing… You aren’t unique. MANY men have hired escorts for a variety of reason, the first reason, SEX. Never feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. It’s an itch, so scratch it! In fact, make it an event for yourself. That’s what you are doing— treating yourself to something great!
Planning—
1) Figure out exactly what you want and how ya want it. Obviously, you wanna get laid, but there are other simple things to consider such as:
a) Total package. Again, this is YOUR treat to yourself. Do you want a guy with Blond hair, dark hair, bald, age, tall, short, leather, Daddy, Twink?… you get the picture, but be very choosy! Find the 3 or 4 escorts you find most attractive on the site (I assume you are on-line and looking at a site) and pay CLOSE attention to what they offer in terms of services. Next, make a comparison list of each escort side-by-side. Where are they located? Do they want you to call them or do they prefer email? Do they require payment upfront? (BIG red flag…DO NOT ever do that!… payment and tip are always last.), how long do they provide their services—1 hour, 2, more?, do they have a minimum and max on their time, do they smoke, do you smoke?, do they drugs?, do they require a condom? (If not, STAY AWAY, you know this already), etc. If they arrogantly ask you for your picture as a requirement before hiring them, ditch them. They are just looking to fuck handsome, fit guys and get paid for it. Don’t give them the pleasure. They are working for you, not the other way around. And if you are worried about what they think of a request you make and if they’ll do it, don’t be worried. They’ve heard it all, and if they judge and are professional, they do it silently. Think no more about it when they say “sure, I can do so and so and so…”
b) You‘ve made you decision on the right guy. Great! Now, what are YOUR conditions? General things like, do YOU have a time limit?, when they show up, do you want to be touched, hugged, have them kiss you a lot, talk a little?, etc. On the sex side of things, do you want them to talk dirty to you, fuck you hard, fuck you slow, get a little rough with you, treat you like a cum slut? Just general stuff that YOU enjoy about sex, or maybe a fantasy of the sex with a guy that you’d LOVE to have but have been too afraid to ask for it. I had a fantasy, found the right escort and paid him to show up as someone else. He asked a lot of questions about what his demeanor should be, how he should dress, did he have an accent?, was he a rough guy, did he have a buddy who just happened to show up? (hey, I went ALL out on my fantasy!), stuff like that, which was incredibly hot and turned me the fuck on! I got EXACTLY a what I wanted and what paid for.
NOW, this is about what YOU want, what YOU are PAYING for so go fuckin nuts, man!
c) Now that you’ve found the guy you want as an escort, you can now go on to when you’d like to hire them. Remeber this: THEY ARE WORKING. YOU ARE PAYING. Sure, they like to fuck and who doesn’t, but you are PAYING THEM to be professional and fulfill your expectations. If email is their preferred contact, write an email as a draft and tweak until perfect. If a phone call is preferred, have a bulleted list of your and his requirements ready to discuss and validate, especially with his accommodations. Know the time you’d want and the date, etc. Also consider, what if there is an issue that comes up, can you call them to reschedule? What’s the best way to handle that situation, and the same goes for him as well. Be patient. I’d wait no more than 12 hours to hear back from them. If you are looking for same day, you might find it, but planning is better.
d) Okay, you’re all set. Go to the bank and pull out the cash you’ll need. Most will take Venmo, PayPal, CashAp, etc., but tell them you prefer cash. Paying cash will give you a step up considerably with the escort! CASH IS KING! If they do what they are supposed to and satisfy you, hey…they might get a nice big fat tip, right? Believe me, they want the cash And you WILL get exactly what you want. Okay, banking. Here’s an example of what I have done in the past:
Your Escort Charges—@ $400 per hour. Say you booked 2 hours, so that’s $800
Afterwards (a hopefully you can’t walk) was the escort:
-Pretty good, but…? $100 tip
-Very good? $150 tip
-Fucking great! $225 tip
-They did everything I wanted and more. I can’t walk, remeber my name and my ears are bleeding good? $350$400+ Tip
Have your base amount of cash ready in a room outside of where you had sex. Keep the tips someplace out of sight or in another room. Have all three tip amounts ready and put them in three individual envelopes: lowest tip on the bottom, mid tip in the middle, highest tip on top. Once they are paid the base amount you owe them, say, “oh, hold on a minute, man…”, get the tip envelope you think they deserve quickly, hand it to them and walk them (if you can) to the door. “I had a great time. Thanks a lot!”
If they were FUCKING INCREDIBLE, say nothing. Your tip will let them know, and also put you first on their phone as a VIP when you wanna get laid again.
Lastly, and is surprising how many people do not know this, don’t expect a “a had a good time”, phone call from them, or “hey, thanks for that awesome tip, bro!”, because it doesn’t work that way. Also, if you see them around, at a club, grocery shopping (that happened to me), or elsewhere, do nothing, just keep doing your thing and do not engage, even with eye contact or a smile. If they want to, they’ll approach you, etc. always let them make the first more or speak first. They may be with friends, family, boyfriend, etc.
T-MINUS 5.5 HOURS UNTIL…
e) This is the day you get laid, yo! Scenario: James is coming to your place/meeting him someplace at 7:30PM:
Pick out your outfit. Be casual. Dress to what you had in mind for the encounter.
Be in the shower by 2:30PM. Okay…Clean your body, and if you are on the receiving end of things, gotta clean the gremlin. (No more eating. Nothing. #1 of 3 cleanings. If you have a douche bag, use it. If you have a shower with a removable handle, use it. Use either one VERY good initially. At 5:30pm, take another shower with same steps, backing off from the very deep clean because you’ve already done that. Relax and let it all come out, making sure you are clean, clean, clean. At 6:30Pm, jump in the shower again and just do a check. Remeber, you want to be clean, clean, clean, clean…CLEAN!)
Have a drink, (Stay away from red wine. Just trust me on that lil’ tidbit…
Brush your teeth. Floss your teeth. Use mouthwash. Repeat.
It’s 7:00PM. Get dressed. Give yourself enough time to choose something different if you’ve changed your mind. When you are done dressing, check on all of your envelopes and the base money you owe “James.”
Most important… BE YOURSELF. SMILE. RELAX. GET FUCKED GOOD N’ PROPER! ENJOY THIS GIFT YOU GAVE TO YOURSELF. BE KIND TO YOURSELF WITH YOUR THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS ALWAYS. YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT FROM ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE YOU HIRED AN ESCORT. IF YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP IT PRIVATE, KEEP IT PRIVATE…NO BIG WHOOP. I truly hope you have a GREAT time!
Muah!,
Jeff
