Oh trust me, Black men who mostly date white men get labeled. With some guys its self hate issues that would take a long thread about beauty stigmas Black men face in the gay community at large and the beauty standards of the gay community. And other times while it's not self hate it leans toward who they associate with and who was in their orbit when developing sexually that led to that "type" being who they're mostly attracted to. I'm Black, was raised in a diverse neighborhood in one of the most busy big cities in America and have been with a rainbow of men but I also love the idea of finding Black love as a gay man too. So it varies