I wanted an unfiltered glimpse into the male sexual psyche...

That is why I decided to join this site. It was like diving into a science project. I am quite a curious person and like to "study" human behavior and tend to treat life as if its a live nature show.

However, barely 30 days of heavy forum browsing later...

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Totally relate. That said... I'm a man with sexual thoughts and desires that would offend some here for certain. There are many cool members here though who are chill with interesting life experiences that you may not find in other places on social media. I had to give up Facebook and Twitter for political reasons which to me were as gross as the infidelity issues you've described. I could not take it. Fortunately most here do not judge others in any ugly way. There are some I've blocked and I'm sure some have blocked me as well. Hook up with the fine ladies here as well as some of the men who you find in a positive light.

Avoid the darkness in the shadows. Also limiting your profile view has saved you countless times. There are many great members here!
 
When I swung by here 6 years ago, I didn't know entirely what to expect. My photos don't particularly stand out among the cornucopia of dudes around here, so I didn't attract too much unwanted attention. I can only imagine how insane it must be for the women around here. However, I was totally shocked at a request I got that I didn't even imagine was a thing: someone offered me money to ship him my underwear soiled with a requested 3 types of bodily fluids. Yikes. I now realize that anything that can be imagined, no matter how far-fetched and/or disgusting, might be something someone is into. Innocence lost. ;)
 
When I swung by here 6 years ago, I didn't know entirely what to expect. My photos don't particularly stand out among the cornucopia of dudes around here, so I didn't attract too much unwanted attention. I can only imagine how insane it must be for the women around here. However, I was totally shocked at a request I got that I didn't even imagine was a thing: someone offered me money to ship him my underwear soiled with a requested 3 types of bodily fluids. Yikes. I now realize that anything that can be imagined, no matter how far-fetched and/or disgusting, might be something someone is into. Innocence lost. ;)

I thought I was pretty open-minded before I found this place. Oh Sweet Summer Child. I had not even a clue.
 
When I swung by here 6 years ago, I didn't know entirely what to expect. My photos don't particularly stand out among the cornucopia of dudes around here, so I didn't attract too much unwanted attention. I can only imagine how insane it must be for the women around here. However, I was totally shocked at a request I got that I didn't even imagine was a thing: someone offered me money to ship him my underwear soiled with a requested 3 types of bodily fluids. Yikes. I now realize that anything that can be imagined, no matter how far-fetched and/or disgusting, might be something someone is into. Innocence lost. ;)

My condolences.
 
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That’s a bit unfair to the women here.
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I'm afraid she's right. We are simply not here. I don't know where they got the notion that women would be remotely interested in the Internet. I think it was some alcohol-induced daydream.
 
I'm afraid she's right. We are simply not here. I don't know where they got the notion that women would be remotely interested in the Internet. I think it was some alcohol-induced daydream.
I'm not all here either.................mmm, 'spose that's a bit different......:emoji_stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::emoji_stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::emoji_stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
 
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It's men obsessed with their peens, trying to convince themselves that it's the ladies obsessed with them.



There's your first mistake right there...

But seriously, welcome to the jungle...

A simple unassailable truth
 
Back in the day.....at the very beginning of cam+internet, I and my love played with mutual masturbation.
Yet, we were Boomers...hahahaha...we only knew the days of trunk dialing phone calls, the days when one person in the street or neighbourhood had an actual phone.

Through the days of dial up internet...20 second porn skits, opening up the first days of email with 50 pages of spam..................Elon Musk was still in nappies, maybe a twinkle in his Mum's eye.

So many changes have overtaken us with the invention of social media, and digital age. What I have noticed, on the road, it has become very difficult to distinguish between male/female psych.

Females, especially young love mobiles...it's amazing when you drive to work they can't put their device down....also, the aggressiveness has multiplied to being equal to young male drivers.

This is just my observation. To be honest, the young male psych these days is warped, simply because of social media content focusing on favouring crap. They all need to be heroes, forget manners, respect for others and themselves.

Not saying it is all, just saying it's become a disease. After talking with Doctor, Psychologist friends, yes friends....their industry is growing, tripling by the day...in fact, they are seeing increase of 9, 10 year old's with huge issues being placed on their psych health from social media stress, thinking the world will end tomorrow because of false and misleading news media. Mum and Dad work long hours, they are placed in childcare....dropped of when they are half asleep, picked up, only time for tea, homework and bed........no conversation because everyone is tired.

Repeat, rinse and repeat. Society's psyche as a whole has been turned upside down. There is a letter for every sexuality, if you are not this, you are that, orrr you are part this, part that..a Bitza. Personally I don't care, I'm of an age where I worked it out....but if you are of an age if you haven't...it would do your head in, I'm glad I be not raising kids in this age. I'm there to support my kids, and theirs. No decisions are mine, I'm there only to support any they make.

I'm so very happy I taught my children to walk through creeks, make things, stuff. Teach them the basics of having fun, getting dirty, crawl before you can walk, being polite, respectful and enjoy......yeah, lot more, but no one is listening to this boomer anyway :) :) That's another thing....once upon a time older tribal members were listened to.........now it's all about shun. It shows in every culture across the planet, old or young.

Sometimes I regret very much my generation inventing the internet. Like everything in life it is abused more than it is used.
 
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