It's not all about dick size. I'd say that the majority of guys that are really popular, that I've come across, only have average to slightly-above-average dicks. Their personalities are really what make them popular and gain larger social media followings. What's deemed as "hot" is also subjective (to a point). Some guys, for instance, think that a guy with an average/ugly face but really nice body can still be hot. I'm not one such person. For me, attractiveness is about facial symmetry and body structure. If a person has an ugly face, they are ugly. However, I will admit that ugly faces are sometimes interesting to look at.