this is a forum afterall. to me, i don't see the harm of seeing some cautioning posts from some posters here. ian does have some commitment issues given his history of divorce and trouble with medical school. so i understand why some people here are more cautious
those who are defensive for ian, i get you guys are worried he will leave if he sees the cautioning posts. but if ian was really as true to what he is claiming himself to be, there was no reason for him to runaway, anyway. in fact, if he is willing to show himself to the world like this, he should be able to handle the heat, it is to be expected
personally i am actually more concerned about ian's mental health in general. his histories are giving all the warning signs (not just all about cheating others)
- divorce
- poor commitment
- drop out from school
- history of steroid use
- suspecting financial issue
therefore i won't be surprised if he is actually involved in some sort of addiction and fall into a bad place now desperate for some quick bucks - and hence might do whatever it takes to get it (even if by means of cheating)
i hope i am wrong but given randy's recent departure - this is just something to be aware off