Just Found Out Al Parker Was Actually Bisexual; don't know how to feel

[Jeffer2580]

Atleast it's better than claiming to be gay and fucking women (which is trending nowadays in gay porn industry).
Al didn't fake his sexuality like Arpad miklos who claimed to be gay and had sex with woman on-camera to dismay of a large amount of his audience. Many gay porn stars are doing the same thing.

Everyone who knows Arpad and also Arad winwin in the industry knows they are gay but porn is a job for them both,they will literally fuck anything for money. The way the gay community blacklisted them especially Arad is just terrible,Arad was the upcoming it boy and he was everywhere as his career was moving fast,then after that bi scene,y'all saw him as the enemy.

Yes I do know that there are some gay pornstars who lie about their sexuality which literally makes no sense as straight men were the number one most searched type of porn by gay men last year,these men will even get more fans if they were their true gay selves but Arad and Arpad are real gay men who happen to be pornstars by profession doing their jobs and everyone treated them like complete thrash and it's painful especially for Arad as he's Persian and seeked asylum in the states because of his country's mistreatment of gay people, for him to hear allegations that he's a "fake gay" using the gay community really hurt him,I know this because I have mutual friends with him,that scene literally damaged his career,now he's pretty obscure in porn even on OF as he doesn't make what his fellow pornstars make

 

[tedmatel]

Atleast it's better than claiming to be gay and fucking women (which is trending nowadays in gay porn industry).
Al didn't fake his sexuality like Arpad miklos who claimed to be gay and had sex with woman on-camera to dismay of a large amount of his audience. Many gay porn stars are doing the same thing.

It’s literally what the interview says: he said he’s gay and came out as gay and in romantic relationship with men (and as far as I could tell only was involved romantically with men before his death) but he said he wouldn’t mind shooting porn with women, love fucking women, and on occasions had 3some sex with woman and his bf together

 

[HeroSignalCosplay]

I have a straight friend who will fuck anyone when he's even slightly drunk. He doesn't even care if people knew he fucked a guy. But he's still pursuing women for relationships. I don't know if it's bisexuality or not.

I have a friend who's the opposite he will happily fuck women drunk or sober he just loves sex regardless of who its with but he only gets into romantic relationships with men.

 

[HeroSignalCosplay]

Most self identified gay men are way too hung up on labels. Men have been fucking other men for thousands of years but the whole notion of a "gay" identity is a mid 20th century idea.

true idk how much you know about the Greek and Roman times but both cultures the wealthy men happily took on male concubines not just to serve them on a daily basis but also sexually and was not shy about it

 

[carolina]

He sounds disgusting. If true he should have went out and got a real job rather than fooling gay men. Glad he’s not around anymore.

 

[DudePussyBro]

Atleast it's better than claiming to be gay and fucking women (which is trending nowadays in gay porn industry).
Al didn't fake his sexuality like Arpad miklos who claimed to be gay and had sex with woman on-camera to dismay of a large amount of his audience. Many gay porn stars are doing the same thing.

Who cares? Why is anyone is “dismay” he had sex with woman? Gay men should be the last people on the planet upset over what another person does sexually. Melodramatic much. Grow up!

 

[ahaahahahaa]

Who cares? Why is anyone is “dismay” he had sex with woman? Gay men should be the last people on the planet upset over what another person does sexually. Melodramatic much. Grow up!

I think people are upset about lying, not the fact he was bisexual.

 

[Alberto.ftw]

I kinda feel envy n jealous for those types of bi men. I'm gay and had never experienced dating or fucking women

 

[HeroSignalCosplay]

I kinda feel envy n jealous for those types of bi men. I'm gay and had never experienced dating or fucking women

plus bi and pan guys dont get the much the flak that gay guys get cause they still go for women and date them

 

[XtunaStan]

How old were you when you realized there's actually far more bi guys than gay guys.

 

[XtunaStan]

It’s literally what the interview says: he said he’s gay and came out as gay and in romantic relationship with men (and as far as I could tell only was involved romantically with men before his death) but he said he wouldn’t mind shooting porn with women, love fucking women, and on occasions had 3some sex with woman and his bf together

Well that's a direct contradiction, neither him nor his bf are actually gay at all. They're bisexual, period.

 

[tedmatel]

Well that's a direct contradiction, neither him nor his bf are actually gay at all. They're bisexual, period.

I guess. It’s not like I’ve never met bi men before: I know someone who’s really into men but when I asked him about women he said he doesn’t mind (so prob something like 90% gay and 10% straight, similar to Al Parker probably). But I’m just surprised to find that Al park is

 

[BUNBEA]

So I discovered a very rare 1985 interview of Al Parker online, originally featured in the first issue of Torso. It's a lengthy interview, and within Al Parker sort of revealed his bisexuality. Here's roughly what I found.

1. When he was working at Playboy, he met many beautiful girls and was sexually interested in them, though he was in the meantime becoming more and more attracted to men. The only reason he apparently became not "turned on" by women was because they weren't centerfold candidate for Playboy.

2. He said he'd enjoying doing a straight porn, and wouldn't find it difficult because he enjoyed being with women and saw women sexually once in a while by having a threesome involving him, his male partner, and the woman; and that he find it enjoying to fuck a female. (He also auditioned for Playboy which certainly would involve having sex with a female model.)

Even though in the interview he said he came out as gay to his roommate and said he enjoyed being with a male. I'm not even getting into the fact that he had girlfriends before becoming a gay pornstar (because frankly, I think many gay men back then did have girlfriends).

I'm not biphobic or anything, and I certainly don't think less of him or think him less attractive because of this revelation. However, because I fantasized or idolized him as the rarest gold-star gay god who only had sex with men... well let's just say i won't see him that way anymore.
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I am totally with you as when I join this site a few months ago I discovered that one of my old time favs Shane Rollins was married and straight and that was a bloody shock and I assumed he was Gay. So I dont see him the same way anymore, same as Josh form Corbin Fisher who is married to a woman.

Sometimes it best not to know what these Gay Porn guys do in their real lives as it ruins the fantasy in my opinion. Lots of of the other commentators disagree with this but thats stance lol.

 

[BUNBEA]

I felt the same way about Billy Brandt when I read an Unzipped magazine article that he was gay for pay and had a wife and kids. Was madly in lust with him from the moment I seen him in an issue of Freshmen Magazine. I've accepted the fact that those gay magazines and videos misled me about him...and had to move on.
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Nicely put as it happens all the time and our fantasy bubbles are always burst lol.

 

[BUNBEA]

I am categorically against heterosexuals interfering in gay spaces. Let them go to work elsewhere. These people have done nothing good for the LGBT community. They did not go to any rally and did not sign any petition. They remember about gays only when they need money and go into porn, and after the end of their activity they continue to repost homophobic posts on their pages on social networks

yes and sadly they are revered and praised for it and have been since the conception of Sean Cody and Corbin Fisher et al and rise of the g4p porn industry

 

[BUNBEA]

Why do some gay men have a fixation on distinguishing between gay-identified and bisexual-identified men, Particularly in porn or adult content? It’s friggin 2023. Fluidity should not be a big deal or noteworthy.

Atleast it's better than claiming to be gay and fucking women (which is trending nowadays in gay porn industry).
Al didn't fake his sexuality like Arpad miklos who claimed to be gay and had sex with woman on-camera to dismay of a large amount of his audience. Many gay porn stars are doing the same thing.

Well said mate as this is ideology is consuming and saturating the gay porn industry and is MEN.Com and the baiters ethos's to take over and make money out out the gay male community since the pandemic and it being accepted as the norm sadly.

 

[tedmatel]

I am totally with you as when I join this site a few months ago I discovered that one of my old time favs Shane Rollins was married and straight and that was a bloody shock and I assumed he was Gay. So I dont see him the same way anymore, same as Josh form Corbin Fisher who is married to a woman.

Sometimes it best not to know what these Gay Porn guys do in their real lives as it ruins the fantasy in my opinion. Lots of of the other commentators disagree with this but thats stance lol.

Yeah same. I get it. But for Al I didn’t feel too disappointed since he was more gay than straight (both of his long term partners were male). I was just weird about the fact that he was not a gold star gay and was actually open to women. Nothing wrong with that but my fantasy of him was that he’s a gold star gay.

 

[Alberto.ftw]

honestly we need a poll finding the number of gold star gay existing in this world

 

[BUNBEA]

honestly we need a poll finding the number of gold star gay existing in this world

honestly we need a poll finding the number of gold star gay existing in this world

When you say 'gold star gay' do you mean those gay porn models who say their gay and actually mean it?

Not those who claim they are gay and them tell us that they have sex with females on and off camera and live and marry them and have families and are boasting about it all over social media and are often homophobic with it?

Or those say they are bisexual or whatever and continue having sex with women all the time on film like Dillon Diaz who is married to man and then get angry with people who call him out on social media for this.

Either way the gay porn industry had become to inclusive and not in a good way.

 

[mcFred]

Yeah but this is AL PARKER we’re talking about, who had been with men ever since he joined the biz and who well was basically a god when it came to having sex with men. I just couldn’t wrap my mind around it when I first discovered that. He was likely more into men than women but still.

Have u realized there's a certain quality (i wouldn't describe it as hyper masculinity, it's just something special) that bisexuals have that 100% gay men just don't have?
Even if they are not really bi and just gay-for-pay or in real life they are just experimenting, it has happened to me... they behave sexually in a quite special way which makes them more appealing.

And yes, I do understand this is about Al Parker... but I can isolate what they do with men from what they do with bitches... the fact that he could fuck bitches really shouldn't bother u... he was so much of a man so why be selfish?