Just Found Out Al Parker Was Actually Bisexual; don't know how to feel

[mcFred]

I have a friend who's the opposite he will happily fuck women drunk or sober he just loves sex regardless of who its with but he only gets into romantic relationships with men.

Your friend is a complete fluid / pansexual... things that I really couldn't believe or understand... but over time I learned that lucky for them, they really ENJOY being with whatever they can fuck... and I say lucky cause they've got double the chances of scoring.

 

[HeroSignalCosplay]

Your friend is a complete fluid / pansexual... things that I really couldn't believe or understand... but over time I learned that lucky for them, they really ENJOY being with whatever they can fuck... and I say lucky cause they've got double the chances of scoring.

lmao my coworkers and firends use say that to me all the time when I was single, "you dont care who you pick up" '"you swing you everywhere so you always got choices" and by friend is the same way, my husband is actually his boyfriend's brother lol

 

[tedmatel]

Have u realized there's a certain quality (i wouldn't describe it as hyper masculinity, it's just something special) that bisexuals have that 100% gay men just don't have?
Even if they are not really bi and just gay-for-pay or in real life they are just experimenting, it has happened to me... they behave sexually in a quite special way which makes them more appealing.

And yes, I do understand this is about Al Parker... but I can isolate what they do with men from what they do with bitches... the fact that he could fuck bitches really shouldn't bother u... he was so much of a man so why be selfish?

I do understand that and I’m not upset at least not now. In retrospect I was just taken aback and surprised because while most gay/bi men back then had girlfriends before coming out, al Parker was only in relationships with men after he came out. I just thought because of his romantic inclination he must have been 100% gay. But now I know he’s prob 80-90% gay

 

[cam_cam17]

I am categorically against heterosexuals interfering in gay spaces. Let them go to work elsewhere. These people have done nothing good for the LGBT community. They did not go to any rally and did not sign any petition. They remember about gays only when they need money and go into porn, and after the end of their activity they continue to repost homophobic posts on their pages on social networks

How do you know this?

 

[cam_cam17]

Ya

Try to tell them homophobia is the western import and watch them chew your head off,they value the Abrahamaic religions like crazy

Yall are saying the same thing

 

[DugLucas]

I never could get into Al Parker cuz he always wore a cockring & his dick & balls looked 3 shades darker than the rest of his body & I found it very off-putting. Sexy guy though.

It was well known that Al Parker used a pump on his dick and balls, that is why he is always seen with a cock ring (to prevent deflation) and years of pumping caused the discoloration.

 

[Silver Quaith]

So I discovered a very rare 1985 interview of Al Parker online, originally featured in the first issue of Torso. It's a lengthy interview, and within Al Parker sort of revealed his bisexuality. Here's roughly what I found.

1. When he was working at Playboy, he met many beautiful girls and was sexually interested in them, though he was in the meantime becoming more and more attracted to men. The only reason he apparently became not "turned on" by women was because they weren't centerfold candidate for Playboy.

2. He said he'd enjoying doing a straight porn, and wouldn't find it difficult because he enjoyed being with women and saw women sexually once in a while by having a threesome involving him, his male partner, and the woman; and that he find it enjoying to fuck a female. (He also auditioned for Playboy which certainly would involve having sex with a female model.)

Even though in the interview he said he came out as gay to his roommate and said he enjoyed being with a male. I'm not even getting into the fact that he had girlfriends before becoming a gay pornstar (because frankly, I think many gay men back then did have girlfriends).

I'm not biphobic or anything, and I certainly don't think less of him or think him less attractive because of this revelation. However, because I fantasized or idolized him as the rarest gold-star gay god who only had sex with men... well let's just say i won't see him that way anymore.
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Move on.
Al Parker was bisexual in the essence that he could enjoy sex with women. He was undoubtedly homoromantic.
That's gay to me.

 

[Silver Quaith]

Your friend is a complete fluid / pansexual... things that I really couldn't believe or understand... but over time I learned that lucky for them, they really ENJOY being with whatever they can fuck... and I say lucky cause they've got double the chances of scoring.

Being sexually fluid can be a blessing, if your romantic attraction is mostly fixed on one of the genders. If your romantic feelings are also fluid, it can be a nightmare, at least, imo.
I am very sexually fluid. I can have sex with both genders and those in between, but mostly date gay men, because they can make me the happiest.
A friend's main fuckbuddy is truly bisexual and he hasn't had a steady relationship for over a decade, fucking both men and women, and dating both alternately or even simultaneously.
Sorry, but that seems emotionally exhausting to me. I do understand it's their true nature, but I don't think I'd be happy if I were biromantic.

 

[Jeffer2580]

Being sexually fluid can be a blessing, if your romantic attraction is mostly fixed on one of the genders. If your romantic feelings are also fluid, it can be a nightmare, at least, imo.
I am very sexually fluid. I can have sex with both genders and those in between, but mostly date gay men, because they can make me the happiest.
A friend's main fuckbuddy is truly bisexual and he hasn't had a steady relationship for over a decade, fucking both men and women, and dating both alternately or even simultaneously.
Sorry, but that seems emotionally exhausting to me. I do understand it's their true nature, but I don't think I'd be happy if I were biromantic.

As someone who's biromantic, it's a breeze,your friend doesn't strike me as someone who has a problem unless he's dating them simulataneously without them knowing,now that's cheating,if not, maybe he just haven't found the right person yet. Heteroromantics bisexuals are the majority of bisexuals with biromantics bisexuals coming in second while homoromantics bisexuals are the rarest of bisexuals

 

[Silver Quaith]

As someone who's biromantic, it's a breeze,your friend doesn't strike me as someone who has a problem unless he's dating them simulataneously without them knowing,now that's cheating,if not, maybe he just haven't found the right person yet. Heteroromantics bisexuals are the majority of bisexuals with biromantics bisexuals coming in second while homoromantics bisexuals are the rarest of bisexuals

Hahaha
Yeah, it's kinda like a breeze, but I am very relationship-focused (unless someone has broken up with me• my inner slut emerges from the dungeons at this point), so that'd be terrible for me. I guess, if I were biromantic, I wouldn't be as such, but biromanticity scares the shiiit out o' me.
He doesn't let his partners know he's seeing other people, primarily because he knows the flings will last for just a little while. Unless he's dating bi women. Then, he's more honest.
I don't think that we, Kinsey 4's, are the least populous of all bis. I think biromantics are. My belief is that half of self-identifying Kinsey-3's are Kinsey-4's.
But Kinsey-2's are definitely the most populous.

 

[tedmatel]

Move on.
Al Parker was bisexual in the essence that he could enjoy sex with women. He was undoubtedly homoromantic.
That's gay to me.

Yeah that’s the conclusion I’ve come to.

 

[alpha_centauri]

I have a straight friend who will fuck anyone when he's even slightly drunk. He doesn't even care if people knew he fucked a guy. But he's still pursuing women for relationships. I don't know if it's bisexuality or not.

Your friend is bisexual. If he was really hetero/straight he wouldn't be having sex with men. Alcohol just removes peoples' inhibitions.

 

[alpha_centauri]

Atleast it's better than claiming to be gay and fucking women (which is trending nowadays in gay porn industry).
Al didn't fake his sexuality like Arpad miklos who claimed to be gay and had sex with woman on-camera to dismay of a large amount of his audience. Many gay porn stars are doing the same thing.

Arpad did that scene with the lady for attention because he thought it would boost his porn/escorting career and he also mutilated his cock for the same reason.

Eastern European porn star Franscois Sagat did a bisexual MMF 3 way in a berber/Arab themed porn when he was starting out.

 

[alpha_centauri]

So I discovered a very rare 1985 interview of Al Parker online, originally featured in the first issue of Torso. It's a lengthy interview, and within Al Parker sort of revealed his bisexuality. Here's roughly what I found.

1. When he was working at Playboy, he met many beautiful girls and was sexually interested in them, though he was in the meantime becoming more and more attracted to men. The only reason he apparently became not "turned on" by women was because they weren't centerfold candidate for Playboy.

2. He said he'd enjoying doing a straight porn, and wouldn't find it difficult because he enjoyed being with women and saw women sexually once in a while by having a threesome involving him, his male partner, and the woman; and that he find it enjoying to fuck a female. (He also auditioned for Playboy which certainly would involve having sex with a female model.)

Even though in the interview he said he came out as gay to his roommate and said he enjoyed being with a male. I'm not even getting into the fact that he had girlfriends before becoming a gay pornstar (because frankly, I think many gay men back then did have girlfriends).

I'm not biphobic or anything, and I certainly don't think less of him or think him less attractive because of this revelation. However, because I fantasized or idolized him as the rarest gold-star gay god who only had sex with men... well let's just say i won't see him that way anymore.
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Why is this so important to you? The obsession and underlying biphobia and homophobic BS some queens on this site have when they learn that *GASP* OMG my favorite porn guy or EX BF had sex with women and is not a gold star gay! He must be bisexual!

Al Parker was a super vapid porn star, stayed stoned all the time he was awake, was known to lie especially in interviews with porn magazines, was selling himself as an escort and fake image, and in the biography I read about him he said he thought he was bisexual as his first sexual experience was being raped by a man as a teen or young adult, had sex and date women as his family pressured him to and then discovered that he is gay. This is not uncommon. I have a gay friend who in the late 1970s and early 1980s when he was living with family and closeted and in denial did not want to be gay then-he dated and had sex with a super low number of women as he did not want to be gay, coming out as a black gay man was at the time in a major USA city seen by other black people as the worst thing a black man could do, and he said that he had to think about men the entire time to get hard, stay hard, and finish and sex with women just showed him how he is gay.

 

[HeroSignalCosplay]

Arpad did that scene with the lady for attention because he thought it would boost his porn/escorting career and he also mutilated his cock for the same reason.

Eastern European porn star Franscois Sagat did a bisexual MMF 3 way in a berber/Arab themed porn when he was starting out.

mutilated? what did he do to his dick?

 

[alpha_centauri]

Yeah but this is AL PARKER we’re talking about, who had been with men ever since he joined the biz and who well was basically a god when it came to having sex with men. I just couldn’t wrap my mind around it when I first discovered that. He was likely more into men than women but still.

Lol wut? You know people lead private lives and that porn is edited/scripted right? I found Drew/Al to be boring in porn he would have sex in the same positions in almost every single scene, and the obsession he had with plain plastic SKY DAWSON-there is a porn where he has sex with men all wearing masks of Sky Dawson's face was super weird. Why have them pretend to be someone that they obviously are not? Oh and in the sky dawson mask porn Al never has sex with the porn guy he obsessed over despite directing it...

Drew Okum/Al Parker was like Chad Douglas versatile or versatile/bottom when they had sex away from porn and escorting where they were billed as "tops". How do you think they got pozzed and died super early from AIDS? Yes tops can and do get pozzed but the vast majority of men who get pozzed are versatile or bottom.

 

[alpha_centauri]

mutilated? what did he do to his dick?

He got cut (circumcused) to boost his porn career or for attention when his cock was perfectly fine with no need for it to be done at all.

 

[jellyfishh]

However, because I fantasized or idolized him as the rarest gold-star gay god who only had sex with men...

Until I joined this site I didn't know 'gold-star gay' was even a thing. Now every time I see it it makes me cringe. It's so weird that never having sex with a woman is seen as an accomplishment and as a result you receive a 'gold star'. Is it a chronically online term? Like surely people in the real world aren't going round asking if you're a gold star gay.

 

[alpha_centauri]

Atleast it's better than claiming to be gay and fucking women (which is trending nowadays in gay porn industry).
Al didn't fake his sexuality like Arpad miklos who claimed to be gay and had sex with woman on-camera to dismay of a large amount of his audience. Many gay porn stars are doing the same thing.

I have read that Arpad was a bisexual Eastern European porn guy, who marketed himself as gay for his "brand" when he came to North America. But then here he says he is gay so does it matter?

Arpad Miklos Responds to His 'Straight-For-Pay' Haters - TheSword.com

I watch free amateur porn of men and women on Twitter. I like amateur porn people film not for a pay fans site but do so for free. I got bored with gay and hetero porn when the same 'stars' would just all go from one studio or website to the next. I like Czech bisexual porn as some can be hot 3 ways of all types, and super hot decadant orgies!

I think it is weird that those porn blokes and some guys on Twitter are obviously bisexual having sexual attraction to both men and women-includes trans"men" who are women and female biologically and genetically-yet insist that they are gay/homosexual...I take it to mean they are the exact opposite of bisexual men in gay/all male porn who like to pretend they are "straight" for their image, brand, escorting, denial, etc.

 

[alpha_centauri]

Until I joined this site I didn't know 'gold-star gay' was even a thing. Now every time I see it it makes me cringe. It's so weird that never having sex with a woman is seen as an accomplishment and as a result you receive a 'gold star'. Is it a chronically online term? Like surely people in the real world aren't going round asking if you're a gold star gay.

Exactly. In real life mostly nobody cares.

I have gay friends who have never had any sexual experience with women and they don't like the "ewwww you had sex with a woman before you were out?!" mentality that some gay men have.