Yes, I disagree, oral is every bit as intimate and vaginal, maybe more so. cum in the mouth is all a part of that and snowballing adds even more.That's interesting about the intimacy. I, and I think that most guys feel the same, we don't regard blowjobs as real intimate sex. Having vaginal intercourse is totally intimate, but a blowjob not so much. Any guys like to agree or disagree?