Married men who use a cocksucker

[chrisrobin]

You always have to make sure that the first blowjob you give them is amazing. The orgasm has to override the fear/taboo/ homphobia or whatever is going through they're minds it's the onlything that might get him to come back again.

Good advice to a cocksucker with a new cock on a married guy. They start off tenuous, cock hard but just outa the fly and quick cum caused by nerves and excitement. The next time the fear has gone, the erection firm and steady and the sucking takes longer to bring them to fruition - and always the same look in the eyes as you swallow their load.

 

[a_smoothtalker]

Patience. Praise. Instruction. Reinforcement.
Dominance—established early and firmly. This may involve some physicality at first—forced to knees with hand entwined in hair, almost brutal cock slapping against face (with mouth finally capturing it the only safe place). Rubbing genitals all over face—and hair—aroma perseveres longer there. Use the physicality as long as both benefit—-but when a gesture, a word, an expression is just as powerful —-even better!

Submission—-cs want dominance and crave to submit—-its extremely freeing for them.
Reinforcement—-‘what they’re feeling and wanting is natural —“
Imprinting—-they may suck many cocks in future—-but I want them imprinted on mine—-craving mine-attached
lol—in a couple ways) to mine.


Just a brief kinda outline—-left out a lot—-and not all have the potential—-happily , I continue to recognize which do a little quicker as I mature.

To all the cocksuckers —-Salut!

So, I will disagree on the submission and dominance angle. Yes, I’m on my knees pleasing but in no way does that make me submissive. Some guys do get off being dominant over others with name calling, rough face fucking and things like that. More power to you if that’s your thing. I love it when my married men kick back, starting moaning, telling me how good it feels, and touch the back of my head or face to say keep doing what you are doing. Not slapping or hitting but almost like a caress to the head. As if to say “I appreciate what you are doing.” Not always easy to find in a man to do that but when it happens damn. YMMV.

 

[hugefanofu]

So, I will disagree on the submission and dominance angle. Yes, I’m on my knees pleasing but in no way does that make me submissive. Some guys do get off being dominant over others with name calling, rough face fucking and things like that. More power to you if that’s your thing. I love it when my married men kick back, starting moaning, telling me how good it feels, and touch the back of my head or face to say keep doing what you are doing. Not slapping or hitting but almost like a caress to the head. As if to say “I appreciate what you are doing.” Not always easy to find in a man to do that but when it happens damn. YMMV.

Bravo - fully agree! It is not a submissive role, you are in control of that dick!

 

[Woodcasey]

Patience. Praise. Instruction. Reinforcement.
Dominance—established early and firmly. This may involve some physicality at first—forced to knees with hand entwined in hair, almost brutal cock slapping against face (with mouth finally capturing it the only safe place). Rubbing genitals all over face—and hair—aroma perseveres longer there. Use the physicality as long as both benefit—-but when a gesture, a word, an expression is just as powerful —-even better!

Submission—-cs want dominance and crave to submit—-its extremely freeing for them.
Reinforcement—-‘what they’re feeling and wanting is natural —“
Imprinting—-they may suck many cocks in future—-but I want them imprinted on mine—-craving mine-attached
lol—in a couple ways) to mine.


Just a brief kinda outline—-left out a lot—-and not all have the potential—-happily , I continue to recognize which do a little quicker as I mature.

To all the cocksuckers —-Salut!

I would say NOT all cocksuckers here are like that being dominated or humiliated?? lol. Sounds very extreme.

Yes maybe cock slap but being encouraged!! Telling us we are so special and wonderful at what we do! Enough times I hear my married buddies complaint about their families and works too.

Remember we are in control!! Your cocks are mine!!!

 

[Muscle.Sub]

Well what can I say. Us gay boys love sucking dick. I love oral. I used to be married even though I knew I was gay. What can I say. I grew up Mormon. So I felt like I had to get married. The difference between a gay guy sucking a dick and my wife was night and day. Not only do they want to suck cock, they want it down their throat taking my cum
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Please sign me up

 

[Oldcowboy]

I think they are probably about 30-40 percent. Most married guys don’t tell their buddies!!

Lotsa reasons to have married cocksuckers—-way more apt to be exclusive and they got lots to lose.
And if they just got one cock to suck, more apt to get imprinted on it and kinda addicted to it.

 

[Oldcowboy]

I have a question, do married men give anything in return for getting their cock sucked to anyone? I feel like they should at least tip or give something nice in return to treat the person sucking their cock . What do y'all think? I'm not saying pay for the blowjob but maybe buy them coffee or something lol. Is that too much to ask?? Lol

I’m not married—but I prefer married cocksuckers. They got a life—-whole other focus—but when my cock is in their mouth—-that’s very much their focus!

These guys aren’t sex workers-I don’t pay or tip them.

But—-I treat them with respect, as friends—-and I got more stuff and $ than I need—-if they’re in a bind or I got something they’d like—no strings—I give lots of stuff away

 

[Oldcowboy]

Communication. My straight bud would tell me when he was getting close and i would stop. Either work on his balls or rim him (though that's not for everyone) until he was ready for another go. We eventually got it down to a 30 second rotation (after an hour of edging) and he would tell me when he absolutely NEEDED to cum - I would then edge him a few more time and swallow him hole. If you both agree that you want to be edged, then your CS should appreciate clear feedback when you're getting close.

With another straight buddy, we agreed we would edge him 10x, so that meant 10 "I am getting close" warnings, which I welcomed. We are cocksuckers, not psychics!

Excellent! I love that—-and, when I start to soften/shrink I love to have a cocksucker maintain suction, his lips working to pull more cock in—-very sensitive now—a good cocksucker will stay on the edge of ‘almost too much’—-if he kinda sucks clear from his diaphragm he can get a bunch a cock down his throat—

 

[Oldcowboy]

Finding guys on the internet for any service is sometimes a difficult task. Between the lies and BS, success rates are low. But that is my experience. I have fun no matter what. It would be nice though to have a few tried and true encounters, regularly. Also, I did type use in quotes, wasn't meant to be controversial. However, why is "using" bad when its mutual, sincere and fucking hot!! Just my opinion.....

It takes time multiple sessions to build a good relationship—and trust

 

[Oldcowboy]

A few observations from a married sucker. It has always worked better for me when I find another married guy because our availability and need for discretion seem to match. Single guys don’t seem to understand either. They think I can leave the house during any hour and really don’t want to plan a meeting. These are generalizations of course but I have found it true in my experience. So muck easier for married guys to find a cruising spot to visit when they can than using apps.

Also I feel that there are more guys today looking to suck than to be sucked. Back in the day of cruising the woods I was looking to get sucked and seemed to run into mostly other guys wanting to be sucked. I remember one time standing in line for an older guy who was sucking. Today it seems like even the younger guys just want to suck with no reciprocation. I met a 26 year old guy the other day who wanted to suck me and refused to allow me to suck him. I told him I want to see his and when I saw how hung he was I had to beg to suck him.

I agree—-‘suckers’ are the majority—-and I call that “Bonanza!”

 

[Woodcasey]

Lotsa reasons to have married cocksuckers—-way more apt to be exclusive and they got lots to lose.
And if they just got one cock to suck, more apt to get imprinted on it and kinda addicted to it.

In your case since your preference is a married cs that’s probably a little different from some of us here.

Most gay cs love the married or str8 cocks bc they are very deprived from attention and we know how to take the loads off without being dominated by the feeder.

I would say when it comes to experience hands down a gay cs is way more advanced than a married cs.

 

[Woodcasey]

I’m in the Chicago area and it can be hard at times to find someone who is not a pic collector or just playing games. There is an apartment building next door full of families. A group of married dads was sitting out in the courtyard one night just talking and drinking. I could have sucked them all off. One of them I see often scrambling with the kids in the morning getting them off to school and thinking he would so appreciate a great bj. So much potential just a few feet away…

Where is that? Maybe I can stop by the building and ‘break the ice’!!

We can throw them a party and invite all the married dads over??

 

[Fin212]

Where is that? Maybe I can stop by the building and ‘break the ice’!!

We can throw them a party and invite all the married dads over??

you're an inspiration for all cs's.

 

[Oldcowboy]

In your case since your preference is a married cs that’s probably a little different from some of us here.

Most gay cs love the married or str8 cocks bc they are very deprived from attention and we know how to take the loads off without being dominated by the feeder.

I would say when it comes to experience hands down a gay cs is way more advanced than a married cs.

I agree. But a guy who’s married—-and sucking cock—-has some serious needs.

Many of these guys are ‘alpha’ in ‘other life’—-with responsibility’s and perhaps a status to maintain,

They find my control, guidance , affirmation and domination quite freeing. You can’t make anybody do something they really don’t want to do—-consciously or subconsciously, they are seeking what I furnish—-

I am hardly ‘deprived’ from attention—-and in a very secure environment, sexually speaking.

Gays ‘More advanced’ —you bet. But my married cocksuckers get their ‘advancement’ from me—-hopefully, they’re imprinted on my cock. Dependent on it, the only cock they have—or want—a relationship with.

Granted —it’s not for all—-I am blessed with abundance of fine—and potential—cocksuckers—-

 

[Oldcowboy]

Communication. My straight bud would tell me when he was getting close and i would stop. Either work on his balls or rim him (though that's not for everyone) until he was ready for another go. We eventually got it down to a 30 second rotation (after an hour of edging) and he would tell me when he absolutely NEEDED to cum - I would then edge him a few more time and swallow him hole. If you both agree that you want to be edged, then your CS should appreciate clear feedback when you're getting close.

With another straight buddy, we agreed we would edge him 10x, so that meant 10 "I am getting close" warnings, which I welcomed. We are cocksuckers, not psychics!

This is another benefit of having long term cocksuckers and them becoming very in touch with your cock.
I love to be edged, I love long sessions, and I value very highly a cocksucker who is very much in ‘sync’——I hade a fav take me to the edge a bunch of times this morning——and almost every time—-just before I gave him ‘the tap’——he backed off——and—finally!—-“now I’m in charge——and I m not stopping—- MY cock is gonna give me every drop—and there just might be a lil’ milking and stretching session before I’m done…

 

[Woodcasey]

I agree. But a guy who’s married—-and sucking cock—-has some serious needs.

Many of these guys are ‘alpha’ in ‘other life’—-with responsibility’s and perhaps a status to maintain,

They find my control, guidance , affirmation and domination quite freeing. You can’t make anybody do something they really don’t want to do—-consciously or subconsciously, they are seeking what I furnish—-

I am hardly ‘deprived’ from attention—-and in a very secure environment, sexually speaking.

Gays ‘More advanced’ —you bet. But my married cocksuckers get their ‘advancement’ from me—-hopefully, they’re imprinted on my cock. Dependent on it, the only cock they have—or want—a relationship with.

Granted —it’s not for all—-I am blessed with abundance of fine—and potential—cocksuckers—-

Most married cs might be ‘alpha’ in their real life but they are not greater cs than any gay cocksucker.

I agree. But a guy who’s married—-and sucking cock—-has some serious needs.

Many of these guys are ‘alpha’ in ‘other life’—-with responsibility’s and perhaps a status to maintain,

They find my control, guidance , affirmation and domination quite freeing. You can’t make anybody do something they really don’t want to do—-consciously or subconsciously, they are seeking what I furnish—-

I am hardly ‘deprived’ from attention—-and in a very secure environment, sexually speaking.

Gays ‘More advanced’ —you bet. But my married cocksuckers get their ‘advancement’ from me—-hopefully, they’re imprinted on my cock. Dependent on it, the only cock they have—or want—a relationship with.

Granted —it’s not for all—-I am blessed with abundance of fine—and potential—cocksuckers—-

Even if you helped your married cs to improve their skills there is no way that they are better than any skillful gay man.

You might not be ‘deprived’ but most of the guys who came to see me for years are most definitely are.

 

[Woodcasey]

you're an inspiration for all cs's.

 

[Woodcasey]

Mr Brian was all horny yesterday afternoon after long day of work. Saved up good three weeks for me!! He walked in and went straight to my sofa and stared at me with his nice smile.

Told him yes Sir. I got it slowly unzipped his pants then pulled out his monster. My my he was dripping precum!! Yum. I took my time teasing his head then licked it all up and starting getting to work!

Took like 30 minutes before he pulled my head back and said I’m ready to feed but need to stand up. Yes Sir I replied I’m ready to be fed after three weeks!! He gave me at least good 8-20 ropes of shots into my hungry mouth and throat. He told me he will see me very soon!!

It has awhile since I’ve seen Mr B because we both have been busy and on vacations.

We met up yesterday! Oh my gawd. I forgot how tasty he was. He kept asking me to slow down. but yet moaning so much.

He mentioned that he has been saving up for at least three to four weeks because he knew I like that. I was slurping, licking and sucking that nice loaded married cock for at least an hour.

He finally told me to be ready and swallow every thing. He pumped at least 10 huge ropes down my throat I had to take a few gulps. We both were pretty happy.

Since it is Spring breaks nowadays, he said he might have sometime since he usually had to stay in town to juggle a few things with kids while wife and other kids traveling. I smiled and told him to reach out anytime day or night. Let see if he might come morning and night.

 

[Woodcasey]

I had shared awhile ago about a divorced friend of mine who has been a great friend of mine for years. Beginning of this year another married buddy wrote on my behalf telling him how great of a cs I have been for him and if my friend ever needs any heads he could reach out to me. My friend said he has been busy but will reach out soon. Any advice on either I should let it go or wait for him to ‘talk’ to me? I’m a little frustrated waiting for this guy to show me his cock!! Ha ha.

 

[Bisubsydney]

I'd love to be a married guy's cocksucker in Sydney Australia. I'm attached too and it's been a while, so would be more a mutually safe arrangement to satisfy our needs.