Moral Dilemma. NOT fiction!

[thongdotcom]

You said it's your original 'NSFW' name snapchat you added him on, right?
I think you're right, JohnTrager1. He must know what you usually use your account for.

I do get a feeling that he's just into showing off. I know I would've been happy to have someone I could trust to send nudes to early on.

I don't think you should send any photos back, but just be casual with him. Maybe he enjoys sending you photos where he just happens to be nude and he knows that you're someone who won't react negatively to it.

 

[Thick_uncutUK]

You said it's your original 'NSFW' name snapchat you added him on, right?
I think you're right, JohnTrager1. He must know what you usually use your account for.

I do get a feeling that he's just into showing off. I know I would've been happy to have someone I could trust to send nudes to early on.

I don't think you should send any photos back, but just be casual with him. Maybe he enjoys sending you photos where he just happens to be nude and he knows that you're someone who won't react negatively to it.

I don’t plan on reciprocating with the pic sharing.. and yes, you and @JohnTrager1 are correct- my Snapchat name is clearly a direct, written representation of the size of my dick. So at least he knows that much without my having to prove it to him

 

[JohnTrager1]

Tbh, I think @thongdotcom is right. Who are 18 wouldn’t have wanted a gay friend to chat to and help guide them a bit? Maybe we’ve all been looking at this from a sexual point of view (towel at top of the stairs etc) rather than a kid who is becoming a gay man and is realising it.

You said he’s only had a relationship with a girl before. Maybe he’s bi or gay and is using this as a way to ‘chat gay’ to a gay role model he can trust? The tensing etc is standard teenager, I reckon most young gays tense their whole body even when putting the bins out .

But yeah, he obviously knows this is a secret chat that no one else in the family is going to find out about. Maybe this is him coming to terms with his sexuality and just having some fun with it along the way. Would explain why he said no when you added him under an unknown account and why conversation has just been normal so far and not straight away dick pics.

 

[Thick_uncutUK]

Tbh, I think @thongdotcom is right. Who are 18 wouldn’t have wanted a gay friend to chat to and help guide them a bit? Maybe we’ve all been looking at this from a sexual point of view (towel at top of the stairs etc) rather than a kid who is becoming a gay man and is realising it.

You said he’s only had a relationship with a girl before. Maybe he’s bi or gay and is using this as a way to ‘chat gay’ to a gay role model he can trust? The tensing etc is standard teenager, I reckon most young gays tense their whole body even when putting the bins out .

But yeah, he obviously knows this is a secret chat that no one else in the family is going to find out about. Maybe this is him coming to terms with his sexuality and just having some fun with it along the way. Would explain why he said no when you added him under an unknown account and why conversation has just been normal so far and not straight away dick pics.

Yea that thought crossed my mind once I realised he wasn’t going to fire dick pics at me every minute of the day!

He’s a very confident lad, and I wouldn’t be surprised if, in the near future, our conversation turns to his sexuality and him wanting to open up about it. I considered that maybe he felt more comfortable talking to about it than to a direct family member (ie my husband).

We’ll wait and see..

 

[Inputpower1]

Yea that thought crossed my mind once I realised he wasn’t going to fire dick pics at me every minute of the day!

He’s a very confident lad, and I wouldn’t be surprised if, in the near future, our conversation turns to his sexuality and him wanting to open up about it. I considered that maybe he felt more comfortable talking to about it than to a direct family member (ie my husband).

We’ll wait and see..

Thanks for keeping us updated. It is a very interesting story. Good idea to keep your husband (somewhat) in the loop. We want to know more if this progresses.

 

[Sexb1150]

Maybe he’s bi or gay and is using this as a way to ‘chat gay’ to a gay role model he can trust? The tensing etc is standard teenager,

It may be a bit optimistic, but I'm going to hope that this is what is actually going on.

That said...

once I realised he wasn’t going to fire dick pics at me every minute of the day!

What if that does happen?

 

[Thick_uncutUK]

It may be a bit optimistic, but I'm going to hope that this is what is actually going on.

That said...

What if that does happen?

I’ll have to deal with that when/if it happens

 

[Sexb1150]

I’ll have to deal with that when/if it happens

And what is your idea of dealing with it? Because that's what will decide how this turns out.

 

[Johnnie89]

And what is your idea of dealing with it? Because that's what will decide how this turns out.

No offence, but I feel like you are trolling OP / the topic at this point.

I think it's very clear the original topic at hand is gone past a moral dillema question, and has become an update post of a situation that is happening. OP themselves day they will deal with things as they happen.

Just based on what you've already contributed to this thread, I don't know if it will go in any direction you approve of.

 

[deepthroatLVR]

No offence, but I feel like you are trolling OP / the topic at this point.

I think it's very clear the original topic at hand is gone past a moral dillema question, and has become an update post of a situation that is happening. OP themselves day they will deal with things as they happen.

Just based on what you've already contributed to this thread, I don't know if it will go in any direction you approve of.

By the same token, I dont think the OP was looking for advice. More encouragement/attention and acceptance baiting an 18 year old family member is the right thing to do

 

[Thick_uncutUK]

By the same token, I dont think the OP was looking for advice. More encouragement/attention and acceptance baiting an 18 year old family member is the right thing to do

Another helpful and insightful reply! Thank you for your contribution

 

[Sexb1150]

No offence, but I feel like you are trolling OP / the topic at this point.

I think it's very clear the original topic at hand is gone past a moral dillema question, and has become an update post of a situation that is happening. OP themselves day they will deal with things as they happen.

Just based on what you've already contributed to this thread, I don't know if it will go in any direction you approve of.

I have no interest in trolling. I am however trying to see where this situation will go. If it turns out that the guy just needs some guidance, despite the initial flirting, then I hope it turns out well and he finds someone to talk to. However, going down the road of engaging in a sexual relationship with the his husband's nephew is not something anyone should be encouraging the OP to do.

The topic was moral dilemma was it not? That alone and given the his likes to certain posts gives the impression that this situation could lead to sex. And no, that isn't something that I or any of us should approve of, because none of us are going to be there to help once the whole situation blows up.

 

[deepthroatLVR]

Another helpful and insightful reply! Thank you for your contribution

You think baiting young family members into sending nudes to an anon account is a decent thing to do?

 

[Thick_uncutUK]

You think baiting young family members into sending nudes to an anon account is a decent thing to do?

Please read my posts. Thank you

 

[Johnnie89]

Lads, I think the language here is becoming quite accusatory. I understand this situation doesn't make everyone feel comfortable and it can potentially lead to a family issue, but please be careful to not use language that insinuates OP is bating.

Removing the husband / their nephew layer dilemma, this is two consenting adults at this point. It would be no different than any story of two people with different legal ages.

 

[Sexb1150]

Removing the husband / their nephew layer dilemma, this is two consenting adults at this point. It would be no different than any story of two people with different legal ages.

Except you can't remove that layer because it's intrinsically tired to the whole situation.

I will however, agree on the careful use of language.

 

[dana2]

Have you thought about getting a younger fuck buddy to get out pent up sexual energy? That might help diffuse the situation. And, after seeing your Thick uncut, I suspect it will not be too difficult to find a sexy younger guy eager to play with it.

 

[pluscachange]

Unless you're craving a future full of drama and situations you may not be able to control, it would be best not to.

 

[Maurice9]

The questions you need to contemplate are:

1) If you add the nephew to your sexy snapchat, what are the chances your husband will find out?
2) Flirtations can ramp up quickly and lead to dick sucking and more. By adding him to your snapchat you are increasing the possibility of ramping up the flirtation and ending up entwined naked with the nephew. What are the chances your husband will find out that his nephew sucked your dick and/or that you sucked his?

On the one hand I say go for it! Life is too short. On the other hand your will be doing something that can potentially end your marriage if your husband finds out. I would not want to be in your shoes.

too much talk go fuck him and more!!!

 

[Johnnie89]

too much talk go fuck him and more!!!

Agreed.

I know there is no need to, but I almost feel like future posts should be as if this topic had changed from "dillema" to "so this is happening".

Oooooh forward to updates.