Pansexual

[fieldguide4dragons]

WTF am I.
I have to really know someone before I can find them sexy, hot or even have lust for them.
I have had my shares of one night stands, they equate to a replacement for my hand nothing more.
I never had to date some Hot man or woman, just based on looks. I would always seem to fall for my friends. Who 99% are straight or not available.
I got married to a woman, but caught her with another man.
Moved in with best friend and his girlfriend, fell so fucking hard for him. I had to BURN THAT HOUSE DOWN just to get away from him. He was 100% straight, it killed me seeing him with her.
Tried internet dating, fell for a man who took my breath away. He picked the other person he was talking to.
I tried just going on a blind date with a women, ended up using her for sex for two years. She did not want a relationship and I did not really care for her.
So I have a hard time with “Porn” that has no back story or romance.
I am not GAY OR STRAIGHT OR BI, so where do I fit in the LGBT COMMUNITY?

 

[halcyondays]

IMO you answered your own question in the title.

I'll take "burn down the house" as a reference to the Talking Heads song...

 

[coolestguy]

Pansexual sounds right

 

[Topher the Gopher]

Demisexual, perhaps? As I understand it, demis have to have an emotional attachment to someone in order to be sexually attracted to them. Of course, this overlaps with other orientations, as a demi can be gay, straight, bi, or pan.

 

[fieldguide4dragons]

Demisexual, perhaps? As I understand it, demis have to have an emotional attachment to someone in order to be sexually attracted to them. Of course, this overlaps with other orientations, as a demi can be gay, straight, bi, or pan.

Never heard of that one. Thanks for the info.