Race play - thoughts and discussion

[pass3434]

"what do you think of race play?"
"it's problematic"
"don't tell others what to do!!"

lol.

babies.

You can have all the thoughts you want but keep them to yourself. really it’s not your business to teach others what to do and what not to do in the bedroom and to judge what they do in the bedroom.

Are we clear?

 

[pass3434]

CAers don't think well. lol.
OK.
no acts have wider implications. got it.
Glad I'm not even American, let alone part of that fake state.

Fine. I guess

 

[pass3434]

I'm not triggered at all. I'm amused you have a blinded view to it. and assume it's all contained. you've not entertained various vies posed here, not just by me, over how it can be seen as problematic. if you're this "smart" then answer the views of various here. and don't cite me as the "villain" when it's clear I'm not hahaha. such a blinded dope. typical CA psyche. ]

So answer this question - could be used to advance racism? are ALL cases of it benign and sexuallypositive? Are those who oppose it wrong or are they "bad and evil and oppressive" for "violating" what people do in their own private spaces?
Or you can continue to be blinded and sensitive.
Or will youcite me, when many others here have said similar viewpoints to my own and the pro-race play advocates haven't answered them?

You are losing it.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Whatever, dude.
numerous people here have given their views. most of us detractors are black or otherwise non-white. our views are common ones against it. nobody here has said it should be outlawed or utterly condemned. your responses are shallow and don't account for the wider impacts. You've just defended your right to do it, without engaging with the wider impact of it. My points on public sex stand. we don't just say "it's consenting adults!" we always call out or question acts between consenting adults.

But then a mass of people who have concerns over it aren't allowed to voice them. Though I won't hold my breath over an answer to them. just "it's consenting adults, so it's our right!" yes, it is. but actions don't exist in vacuums.

Like, nobody at all engaged with the vids i posted, which reflect a common view of most blacks/non-white at large on it. But oh no - it's the evil detractors who are Hitler wanted to fascistically clamp down on freedom.

Race Play 101: My Introduction Into The World Of Racist Sex Play

I doubt anybody would engage with this either.
Good.
But oh no, everybody else is wrong!!

 

[Intellectualmeat]

Whatever, dude.
numerous people here have given their views. most of us detractors are black or otherwise non-white. our views are common ones against it. nobody here has said it should be outlawed or utterly condemned. your responses are shallow and don't account for the wider impacts. You've just defended your right to do it, without engaging with the wider impact of it. My points on public sex stand. we don't just say "it's consenting adults!" we always call out or question acts between consenting adults.

But then a mass of people who have concerns over it aren't allowed to voice them. Though I won't hold my breath over an answer to them. just "it's consenting adults, so it's our right!" yes, it is. but actions don't exist in vacuums.

Like, nobody at all engaged with the vids i posted, which reflect a common view of most blacks/non-white at large on it. But oh no - it's the evil detractors who are Hitler wanted to fascistically clamp down on freedom.

Race Play 101: My Introduction Into The World Of Racist Sex Play

I doubt anybody would engage with this either.
Good.
But oh no, everybody else is wrong!!

Engage with that article in what way? What are your thoughts on the article you shared?

 

[FrankieGuile]

look, people asked for opinions. for quite a few, it's distasteful. there is no real issue. It's understandable why some would have issues with it. can it be done in a non-hateful way? I suppose so. Though the nature of how it's done seems pretty sinister. Just as others can engage in it, many can deem it harmful or distasteful. it is what it is! I'm not Jewish, but then I'd deem "Holocaust play" negative if a German couple did this, with one partner being Jewish.

There are issues on which one should not parse words in an attempt to show understanding or seek a middle ground. The kink in question on this thread is not illegal and it might be practiced with consent, gleefully, or begrudgingly. However, it is still patently racist.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Engage with that article in what way? What are your thoughts on the article you shared?

I give up.

Frankly, i'm not interested.

I stated my points, which many here have echoed.
It's a common viewpoint in the wider world.
Keep your head in the sand over legitimate concerns.

 

[Intellectualmeat]

I give up.

Frankly, i'm not interested.

I stated my points, which many here have echoed.
It's a common viewpoint in the wider world.
Keep your head in the sand over legitimate concerns.

No worries, man.

 

[pass3434]

I give up.

Frankly, i'm not interested.

I stated my points, which many here have echoed.
It's a common viewpoint in the wider world.
Keep your head in the sand over legitimate concerns.

sex is an extremely private matter. If you like race play and your partner also like it, then have fun.

If you don’t like it, don’t agree with anyone who propose it.

If you like it but someone else don’t, do not force him to do it with you.

If both of you don’t like it. Then what’s the matter?

You don’t get to teach others what to do in the bedroom. Not your business

 

[Kanashi]

lust is stronger than pride.

 

[Dongdragon]

Interesting.



It's my sincere believe that any Black person who desires to engage in this and take on the submissive role is in need of therapy to work on their self-hate issues. And any White person who desires to engage in this and take on the dominant role is just a full blown racist. That white hood in their closet is not just for "scenes."

You have to be Uncle Ruckus levels of self-hate to want to engage in this mess. It's toxic and regressive. It's right up there with rape play to me. These aren't kinks to me. These are signs of decaying mental and emotional health that should be addressed by a mental health professional.

I’m not racist at all, man. You don’t have to believe that but I know it’s the truth. I get off on ‘unusual’ sexual situations and ‘forbidden’ stuff.

 

[AllieHeidi]

I’m not racist at all, man. You don’t have to believe that but I know it’s the truth. I get off on ‘unusual’ sexual situations and ‘forbidden’ stuff.

I'm not a man. And I didn't say anything. I just happened to notice that you're a White guy from Alabama who is into race play and I just find that interesting. That's all. I am effectively minding my Black business on this one.

 

[FrankieGuile]

sex is an extremely private matter. If you like race play and your partner also like it, then have fun.

If you don’t like it, don’t agree with anyone who propose it.

If you like it but someone else don’t, do not force him to do it with you.

If both of you don’t like it. Then what’s the matter?

You don’t get to teach others what to do in the bedroom. Not your business

All of that is a poor excuse for acting out racially-driven sexual fantasies. Because you asked, "then what's the matter?" I'll explain. The "matter" is the refusal to acknowledge the racist nature of the act. You incorrectly interpret the matter to be an objection to the act, per se. The matter is not so much acting out a racially-based sexual fantasy between (hopefully) consenting adults, but the refusal to acknoweldge the racist nature of the act as if to excuse anything of a racist nature by claiming it is not racist becuase it it private and racist with consent.

 

[pass3434]

All of that is a poor excuse for acting out racially-driven sexual fantasies. Because you asked, "then what's the matter?" I'll explain. The "matter" is the refusal to acknowledge the racist nature of the act. You incorrectly interpret the matter to be an objection to the act, per se. The matter is not so much acting out a racially-based sexual fantasy between (hopefully) consenting adults, but the refusal to acknoweldge the racist nature of the act as if to excuse anything of a racist nature by claiming it is not racist becuase it it private and racist with consent.

In the end, it still doesn’t matter. Because we enjoy race play sex with our bedroom door shut. And feel free to imagine how many people are doing shits during sex that may lead to your judgements.

The difference between you and me is, I treat sex as sex and I have fun. You seem to treat sex much more seriously. What else can I say? Hope you enjoy your politically correct sex?

 

[FrankieGuile]

In the end, it still doesn’t matter. Because we enjoy race play sex with our bedroom door shut. And feel free to imagine how many people are doing shits during sex that may lead to your judgements.

The difference between you and me is, I treat sex as sex and I have fun. You seem to treat sex much more seriously. What else can I say? Hope you enjoy your politically correct sex?

Because I haven't commented on how I "treat sex," you have no basis to know. However, I do have a basis to know how you "treat sex," and you treat it with suspect racial undertones as if antebellum Dixie were alive and well in your bedroom.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

All of that is a poor excuse for acting out racially-driven sexual fantasies. Because you asked, "then what's the matter?" I'll explain. The "matter" is the refusal to acknowledge the racist nature of the act. You incorrectly interpret the matter to be an objection to the act, per se. The matter is not so much acting out a racially-based sexual fantasy between (hopefully) consenting adults, but the refusal to acknoweldge the racist nature of the act as if to excuse anything of a racist nature by claiming it is not racist becuase it it private and racist with consent.

he was being deliberately obtuse. Assuming that people are calling for its legal abolition. and he never discussed or even acknowledged any wider ramifications of it.

 

[pass3434]

Because I haven't commented on how I "treat sex," you have no basis to know. However, I do have a basis to know how you "treat sex," and you treat it with suspect racial undertones as if antebellum Dixie were alive and well in your bedroom.

how you treat sex is very obvious in your reply. you are probably the kind who would stop your partner when he "cross your line" and then gave him a lecture?

I mean, it is totally fine and correct to not to participate in any sexual activities that you are not into. But you are trying to put "right" and "wrong" labels on sex? give me a break. I would suggest you just go out and have some sex then.

 

[pass3434]

he was being deliberately obtuse. Assuming that people are calling for its legal abolition. and he never discussed or even acknowledged any wider ramifications of it.

people in life should be free to like what they like. is that wrong to state?

Dude, I found it extremely difficult to believe that you said this. size queen shame

Apparently, when it comes to your sexual preference, you say "people in life should be free to like what they like".

But when it comes to others' sexual preference, you became so judgmental.

Dude. Get a life. Have some sex.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

I'm not a man. And I didn't say anything. I just happened to notice that you're a White guy from Alabama who is into race play and I just find that interesting. That's all. I am effectively minding my Black business on this one.

Funny how none of the raceplay advocates here actually engaged with the detractors. But apparently it's all some evil and dictatorial plot to get in their bedrooms so they can't do "slave sex" or "coloniser sex" in their bedrooms. Never acceptable to draw on wider concerns like promoting racism, or people using it to express racism. Since that's not a valid point at all. ever.....

 

[bigboaster]

I understand. Your experience is evidence of an intolerance for independent thought endemic among groups who define themselves as victimized, yet superior, to others. My advice is to never withhold an honest thought and never apologize for it. Otherwise, you cede your agency and allow others to take control, which is exactly what they want from you.

Hmmm. Very interesting...