You're right that I don't get enough sex. My husband has been away for two months, but I'm trying not to let that cloud any answers I give you. I may be preoccupied with celibacy, but I'm able to fully function otherwise.
Now, someone said "running away" from oral. Yes, that's a thing. He can be a goddam mosquito and I have to swat him away when I can't take it anymore. He's merciless and will send me over the top and try to push me higher. But he does know when I mean "stop it!"
Yes, I've never really had that. Females either tell me flat out not exert any force in their mouths or they are just completely submissive. Not all of my girls have been vaginal runners, though lots of them have been. I guess the consensus here seems to be that running is an indication of uncomfortable pain, but how do some here know this when they've never had the experience of running.