Running during doggystyle
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Well we don't "all" run, to start. 
Having your hair pulled or being fucked in doggy style doesn't automatically equate dominance and submission, either.
The man I'm involved with isn't small by any means, nor do I feel anything that translates as pain when he fucks me from behind. In fact it's one of our favorite positions. The movement I do is to help him fuck me harder.
Having your hair pulled or being fucked in doggy style doesn't automatically equate dominance and submission, either.
The man I'm involved with isn't small by any means, nor do I feel anything that translates as pain when he fucks me from behind. In fact it's one of our favorite positions. The movement I do is to help him fuck me harder.
I have never heard of this running thing.
Seriously? Like they don't stand up and literally run, but they are continuously crawling/scooting away from the penis.
See at 2:35 here:
http://www.xvideos.com/video719328/latina_likes_a_big_cock_fucking
There are better examples. I just can't think of them.
Nope, never have. I don't watch porn and don't really discuss sex a lot.
Well we don't "all" run, to start.
Having your hair pulled or being fucked in doggy style doesn't automatically equate dominance and submission, either.
The man I'm involved with isn't small by any means, nor do I feel anything that translates as pain when he fucks me from behind. In fact it's one of our favorite positions. The movement I do is to help him fuck me harder.
That's fine. I'm not saying all women have to, some Dont. I just want to understand why some of them do run. Maybe it's because I'm relatively young and hook up with young women, mostly. I don't know. What is your partner's length of you don't mind me asking?
Sure, I do, but this doesn't negate my experiences. I've had my fair share of runners.
I had no idea what "running" meant, either.
If I'm pulling away, you're going too hard. Do not pull my hair and go harder. I'll kick you in the nuts.
I'm not acting in porn and I'm not going to pretend I am. If it hurts, I'm going to pull away. Personally, I don't like my hair being pulled. That hurts, too. Fingers in the hair is sexy, but my hair is not a handle to control me.
Maybe you go out with a different kind of girl. That's just my perspective.
If I'm pulling away, you're going too hard. Do not pull my hair and go harder. I'll kick you in the nuts.
I'm not acting in porn and I'm not going to pretend I am. If it hurts, I'm going to pull away. Personally, I don't like my hair being pulled. That hurts, too. Fingers in the hair is sexy, but my hair is not a handle to control me.
Maybe you go out with a different kind of girl. That's just my perspective.
Yes, you did in fact say "all".
That's none of your business. I've also never measured him and he has never held a ruler up to his dick either.
I have to admit I clicked that damn link. When I heard her saying "Ow ow ow" I gave up.
I have never "run" or scooted. I've adjusted myself, but I stay put. He's never pulled my hair, but he's stroked it.
Quit watching porn. It's not helping you to understand sexuality or women.
I have never "run" or scooted. I've adjusted myself, but I stay put. He's never pulled my hair, but he's stroked it.
Quit watching porn. It's not helping you to understand sexuality or women.
The title of the thread conjured a pretty bizarre mental image
I don't 'run', if anything I push back
If I was trying to get away, my partner would be doing something hella wrong. If your partners are trying to get away from you, sounds like poor technique to me...
I don't 'run', if anything I push back
If I was trying to get away, my partner would be doing something hella wrong. If your partners are trying to get away from you, sounds like poor technique to me...
This thread is a bit hostile. I just yanked up that scene because I don't know how else to convey what I'm talking about. It's not just porn, it's my experience. I'm not freakishly huge, but big enough to cause discomfort/pain, I guess. I'm 8 inches/6.3-6.5 girth.
My experience is varied. Some run, some don't. One expressed that they liked "being ran" and to restrain her if she ran too much because she liked pain, this lead me to ask the question. Another ran, but yelled she ran because I didn't let her cum. Like I said, my real life responses are varied, I thought I could get more consistent and learned feedback here, considering that it is a site geared towards large penises?
No need to vilify me and attribute my cutiousity to porn-induced naïveté.
Ok that video is disgusting. She's crying and begging him to stop. He grabs her not only by the hair, but by the throat to keep thrusting into her. Of course the camera gets a good close-up of her tear stained face. That's when I stopped watching.
Why do women try to crawl away? Because it hurts. If that's your experience, then you are one bad fuck.
Geez. Stop watching that kind of porn. It does not educate you in any way. It has no bearing on real life.
If a woman likes it, she'll be thrusting back into you, not crawling away, crying or saying "stop". There's a difference between whimpering in pain and moaning in pleasure.
Why do women try to crawl away? Because it hurts. If that's your experience, then you are one bad fuck.
Geez. Stop watching that kind of porn. It does not educate you in any way. It has no bearing on real life.
If a woman likes it, she'll be thrusting back into you, not crawling away, crying or saying "stop". There's a difference between whimpering in pain and moaning in pleasure.
Yes, it's a bad example emotionally, but physically it's the kind of "running" talking about. One of my partners liked it, so that. One claimed that it me not letting her cum, we had literally moved a couple of feet in the prone bone position.
Again, it's not just porn. That scene just came to mind. I'm sure there are others which aren't as brutal. You are right, maybe it's a bad thing I'm doing, but why? You say non pleasurable pain, that could be it for the most part. I don't know just yet, this is why I asked.
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This. And if you pull my hair for any reason I will decorate your left eye with my right hook. You would have been playfully warned in advance, but the repercussions would be serious as hematoma and ecchymosis.
I do tend to scoot away during oral sex when overwhelmed. A lover I would consider good would either simply follow me across the room, or occasionally put me back where he wants me in a manner that is firm, but gentle.
What if a girl was deep throating you and her teeth are scraping your cock raw? Most guys are going to yank their dicks out of the girl's mouth, or push her head away. The odd guy is going to like the pain. Why is what she doing bad? Should she just force herself down on you even if you are in pain? Even if one other guy liked it? Maybe you are too turned on to push her away, but you are going to suffer for days afterward.
It's assaultive behaviour. It's inconsiderate. Sure, there are going to be a few girls who might like being bruised up and hurt inside - most will not. Crawling way is body language for "ouch" or "slow down". Change your pace, change positions. Or just ask - am I hurting you? A little communication never hurt anybody.
I can agree with the logic there, inflicting pain for pain's sake is pretty bad. However, that doesn't map onto my experiences very well. They like the pain, state the running is for other reasons, etc. thanks for your feedback though.
