Yes, I've never really had that. Females either tell me flat out not exert any force in their mouths or they are just completely submissive. Not all of my girls have been vaginal runners, though lots of them have been. I guess the consensus here seems to be that running is an indication of uncomfortable pain, but how do some here know this when they've never had the experience of running.
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Yes, I've never really had that. Females either tell me flat out not exert any force in their mouths or they are just completely submissive. Not all of my girls have been vaginal runners, though lots of them have been. I guess the consensus here seems to be that running is an indication of uncomfortable pain, but how do some here know this when they've never had the experience of running.
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The experience of running for many was probably cut short by a compassionate lover that could read the signs of pain and he stopped what he was doing. I can easily decipher the sounds in porn from when a woman goes from pleasure to real pain. It's like the difference in a baby's cry when they are simply crying or crying because something is terribly wrong. If you can't read those signs and simply chalk them up to "Hey all women must like this because a few women I've been with liked it" when the overwhelming consensus is OUCH. I hope you wield your dick wisely and stop this fetish of "running" you keep referring to.
I am all for rough sex but there is a point my lover has to listen to my body language because I might not be able to put words to my feelings in extreme pain.
This often happens in doggy style because it's a notoriously deep position. My husband and I can barely do doggy style because it's too deep.
I am all for rough sex but there is a point my lover has to listen to my body language because I might not be able to put words to my feelings in extreme pain.
This often happens in doggy style because it's a notoriously deep position. My husband and I can barely do doggy style because it's too deep.
That's why I joined. To learn (and partially to compare myself, what male doesn't) these things. Yes, it's very hard to distinguish because I've heard a few chicks say they hate when guys stop during intense sex simply because they've asked them to, that always lingers. But the girl in the above post literally asked for it, so I gave it to her.
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As a person who is into BDSM, there needs to be a negotiated safety word so there is no doubt when she is wanting you to stop.
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I think this is your entire answer. The part where she was running, as you put it? Bad sex. Bad sex, but tolerated because of the part she liked. Your attitude that it was too painful but she asked for it? Yeah, your are not a great partner. Not yet. But, you're young, and you're asking questions, and hopefully you'll learn to do better. I'm not trying to get in a dig. I genuinely want you and your partners to enjoy each other more. Best of luck, Sir.
Personal experience is all I have to go on, so that is what I will recall for you.
I have had the opportunity to have "sexperiments" with several men. I have only run (errr... uhmmm... scooted) from one guy. He was 6'4, 230 and PURE muscle. Superman. And well endowed. Why did I scoot from him? Because I could not hold my own, in all honesty, he was so powerful, every time he pressed forward, my body just could not hold up to his strength. We tried bracing my feet in several different ways. Sometimes it would help, others I was just not strong enough for him. He never pulled my hair. He held my hips. It wasn't painful as much as it was just forceful. We had many encounters and this was an area we both wanted to work on (for me to be stronger.)
I've had guys "tug gently" on my hair but if anyone pulled it hard as if to control me, it would be the last time, and whatever was going on would end immediately. I am not into pain and men know this about me. I love to have men run their fingers through my hair during sex and move my head (for better view). Whether this is submissive or not, I do not know. I just know that I am a willing participant to a point. But when pain enters the picture, I'm done. (I'm not talking about the "pleasure pain" of knowing you've just had a great fuck.) The guys that I had the privilege of meeting knew how to read a woman's body language and were very receptive ... and respectful!
I can't begin to try to understand why other women respond the way they do during sex. I only know how/why I do.
I have had the opportunity to have "sexperiments" with several men. I have only run (errr... uhmmm... scooted) from one guy. He was 6'4, 230 and PURE muscle. Superman. And well endowed. Why did I scoot from him? Because I could not hold my own, in all honesty, he was so powerful, every time he pressed forward, my body just could not hold up to his strength. We tried bracing my feet in several different ways. Sometimes it would help, others I was just not strong enough for him. He never pulled my hair. He held my hips. It wasn't painful as much as it was just forceful. We had many encounters and this was an area we both wanted to work on (for me to be stronger.)
I've had guys "tug gently" on my hair but if anyone pulled it hard as if to control me, it would be the last time, and whatever was going on would end immediately. I am not into pain and men know this about me. I love to have men run their fingers through my hair during sex and move my head (for better view). Whether this is submissive or not, I do not know. I just know that I am a willing participant to a point. But when pain enters the picture, I'm done. (I'm not talking about the "pleasure pain" of knowing you've just had a great fuck.) The guys that I had the privilege of meeting knew how to read a woman's body language and were very receptive ... and respectful!
I can't begin to try to understand why other women respond the way they do during sex. I only know how/why I do.
I have pulled away from some dick but not due to pain. I like it rough, so when i pull away I am giving my partner an opportunity to take me by the hair a pull me back on his dick. Eveytime the intensity increases and I get pounded hard. I like it, it can be playful without the hairpulling. The video was not a good example, she was clearly uncomfortable.
I have pulled away from some dick but not due to pain. I like it rough, so when i pull away I am giving my partner an opportunity to take me by the hair a pull me back on his dick. Eveytime the intensity increases and I get pounded hard. I like it, it can be playful without the hairpulling. The video was not a good example, she was clearly uncomfortable.
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