No. You’re not correct. You’re misunderstanding me and putting words in my mouth.
1) I do not advocate for hurting others.
2) I am in a very successful long-term relationship and have been for years which at times has been open after discussion and communication between us and a mutual understanding.
3) I in no way suggested being here was equivalent to cheating.
If my partner likes to do something or wants something I can’t provide, our understanding is he can get it as long as I know about it and he does so safely. It’s not something we exercise every day of the week, but we each like things the other may not.
For example, he may want to do anal with someone. It’s not something I want to do, but I’m not going to stop him from doing it anymore than if he wanted to go skydiving out of a plane. I’m not doing that either.
I’m not breaking any commandments here by suggesting someone get what they want, but not at the cost of hurting someone else.
My sarcasm was not well received and I’m sorry for that but my position remains.