Sex on the dancefloor

[Brodie888]

Spontaneous sex is hot. If it happens to be while on the dance floor so be it.

 

[Northerner2023]

A lot of “straight men”? Go to gloryholes for a quick blowjob..

You make me laugh thinking swapping partners for gay men is riskier than it is for a man and woman to swap partners.. bareback unprotected sex is risky for any sexual preference..

I don’t look at statistics and polls as a way to find out.. that’s about as accurate as counting the hairs on a gorilla and say there’s that many there .. that you know for sure you didn’t miss any when counting g them..


AIDS / hiv more or less was created to kill out the gay population.. as it seemed that gay men had it more than straight.. but whoever created this hiv/aids virus/disease didn’t take into the facts that straight men tend to have sex with men secretly .. then they get it.. take it give it to their wives or girlfriends or other girls they sleep with..

Plus gay men screw women as well.. it’s called being horny and some being bisexual.. ..

So take your opinion about gay public sex elsewhere .. until you admit straight people do it just as much

Oh lord, such an America reply, you need a part on SNL. Sooo where to begin.

Yes straight men go to glory holes correct.. Well done.

BB sex between two men you are at a much higher rate of catching HIV or an STI, or any type of anal sex you are at a higher risk. This is because the lining of the anus is thin and can be easily damaged, which makes it more vulnerable to infection. Also if you are using drugs or substances like poppers this greatly increases your chances of HIV transmissions due to the affect it has on the bodies T cell count and how it lowers the level of glutathione in the body. In fact at first poppers were thought to be the cause of HIV and why so many gays were dying.

"AIDS / hiv more or less was created to kill out the gay population" there is the American side agian you guys love a conspiracy lol. Oh darling what did they teach you in these American schools HIV was found in primates (chimpanzee) going back to the 1880s it wasn't mad made bless your dear sweet soul. They think it first was transmitted through consumption of Bush meat or when chopping up bush meat and cross blood contamination occurred.

Now we have come to the first oxymoron in your amusing and frankly embarrassing little rebuttal... oh an oxymoron is figure of speech that combines contradictory words with opposing meanings, like “old news,” “deafening silence,” or this case "straight men having sex with other men". Heterosexual men don't sleep with other men because they are..... HETEROSEXUAL. I think what you might mean is closeted gay or bisexual men.

Agian another oxymoron "Plus gay men screw women as well". No they don't becuse they are homosexual, meaning same sex attracted. If a man sleeps with both sexes he is bisexual and that's fine but gay men don't have sex with woman.

I do hope you've learned a little tonight and I'm so sorry the American education system failed you. X

 

[ILoveGames48]

Dance floor is kind of awesome .. first time a guy went down and took my cock out of my pants and began sucking I didn’t know what to think .. there was an area this stuff was allowed and I was in that area and didn’t know it.. so when he sucked my cock and other guys saw what was going on.. ( others were sucking and even fucking in areas around the room… ) I didn’t know it would be such a rush doing it in front of a bunch of complete strangers watching and then joining …



I heard one story where things got carried away And half the people had to be escorted out .. due to aggressive sex acts and it was only allowed basic sex ..

I told the guys that been a fun time to be there then.. letting them know aggressive sex was fun..


All I know is I don’t need anyone telling me my lifestyle is worse than the straight man’s… they fuck around in public places just like the gay men

 

[RazorUniverse]

You Americans do make me laugh lol. Of course straight people have public sex dogging is rather popular with the straights here in the UK. BUT as Brodie888 mentioned public sex is very much apart of gay culture and always has been. The difference is when it comes to dogging its usually straight couples swapping partners, where as gay men its usually risky, Bareback, sometimes no idea who the other person is even worse gloryhole where you can even see the other person! Again very much a cultural thing, When I was young I had car fun, but never in a public setting with other people around, never with a stranger. One because I have more self worth and two I'm better than that. I mean we can all say "straight people do this" but there things that are extremely common and to me personally sickening that is common with gay men. From darkrooms, Bugchasing, chemsex, slamming parties, cum dump parties.

Bugchasing - Wikipedia​

Bugchasing is a term from 20 years ago. We now live in a world of U=U and PreP.

 

[ILoveGames48]

As I said there’s other std’s out there hiv/aids isn’t the only one that needed a cure or still do need one

 

[Northerner2023]

Bugchasing is a term from 20 years ago. We now live in a world of U=U and PreP.

Unfortunately there are still people who want to be infected

 

[ILoveGames48]

I have been with a lot of guys and few women ( I don’t know how many of each .. I didn’t give them a number when we did it… and I’ve not been infected once….
BUT!!!!! It is our choice to do whatever we want to our bodies.. they are our bodies not yours.. and if don’t want to be with someone that active then don’t be with them..

Oh wait… hmmm….they just lie about how many been with just so they can get in your pants … …

But I will say this.. I’d rather get infected than to listen to asses like you try telling me what to do with MY life

 

[Northerner2023]

I have been with a lot of guys and few women ( I don’t know how many of each .. I didn’t give them a number when we did it… and I’ve not been infected once….
BUT!!!!! It is our choice to do whatever we want to our bodies.. they are our bodies not yours.. and if don’t want to be with someone that active then don’t be with them..

Oh wait… hmmm….they just lie about how many been with just so they can get in your pants … …

But I will say this.. I’d rather get infected than to listen to asses like you try telling me what to do with MY life

Are you ok like are you im concerned for you

 

[ILoveGames48]

Why be concerned

 

[LostStarlet]

Had some great nights at the Cock in NYC about 10 years ago. Felt very free, spontaneous, and hot.

 

[ILoveGames48]

That’s the fun part about it is you can be free and everyone else around you is too .. so no jerks around whining about it

 

[RazorUniverse]

Had some great nights at the Cock in NYC about 10 years ago. Felt very free, spontaneous, and hot.

Same. Need to get back there. Is the vibe still hot post-COVID?

 

[dreambridger]

I mean I've never lived in a big city, but I never went somewhere where there was public sex where I didn't expect there to be. Figure if you don't like it then it's easy enough to avoid.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Sex on a dance floor is definitely easy to avoid .. some of the places have one huge area for dancing alone occurs … you can dance with someone.. rub bodies together kiss and all .. but if things progress to you wanting to do more there’s another dance floor next to it or downstairs or upstairs where can go and do it without being judged by those that don’t want to see sex going on..

Some peoples habits don’t start like think out of nowhere .. they have more than likely had sex in front of other people at a party or something.. and some parties can’t talk about here due to the rules of this site ..

But the first time I went to a dance club it was to do exactly to have sex there.. usually it be just you and the guy you went back there with doing it.. but sometimes there be just a few dancers kissing making out stroking each others cocks some be sucking dick.. but when they see a bottom taking a hard pounding then it’s them asking to join.. they can’t just come up and slide their dick inside you.. they need permission first .

I have always loved this kind of attention..so these days were fun.. and going to sex parties where friends were getting together for fun..
so this kind of active lifestyle is what I love

 

[Daedalus]

It's grim and abhorrent.. and frankly probably one of the main reasons why HIV ravaged our community. I really think at times there is sort of neurological issue with a large amount of gay men. This is the kind of behaviour that kept me out of gay clubs. It's gross an tacky and if people can't wait to get home without fucking in the middle of a club they need to rethink their life choices and also their self worth.

It’s not gay men. It’s men. If enough women were willing to do it, more straight men would be just as big horndogs as many gay men are. It’s not a gay thing so much as a male thing.

 

[malakos]

This thread was a good reminder of why I mostly don't associate with other gay men. The level of entitlement and lack of sensitivity to other people is just astounding.

 

[Northerner2023]

It’s not gay men. It’s men. If enough women were willing to do it, more straight men would be just as big horndogs as many gay men are. It’s not a gay thing so much as a male thing.

I kind of agree we the statement "it's a male thing" to a small degree but there are many behaviours that are very much engraved in gay culture.

 

[Northerner2023]

This thread was a good reminder of why I mostly don't associate with other gay men. The level of entitlement and lack of sensitivity to other people is just astounding.

Im in total agreement I've never know a more entitled community as gay men in particular. I have vast circle of friends from all walks of life male and female (a few gay friends) . But collectively we have always found a large section of the gay men entitled and problematic, its mainly those who live In heavily gay populated area they seem to not be able to remove them selves from the echo chamber community. And god forbid you call of some of their more "sexual behaviours"

 

[ILoveGames48]

It’s not gay men. It’s men. If enough women were willing to do it, more straight men would be just as big horndogs as many gay men are. It’s not a gay thing so much as a male thing.

It’s not a straight man or a gay man that does this only but women do it to.. try sitting at a table with a girl you took with you unzips your pants pulls out your cock and sits on it and rides your dick .. she has on a dress or a skirt but no panties .. but people wonder what’s going on when she’s moaning and groaning while she is sitting on your lap

 

[Northerner2023]

It’s not a straight man or a gay man that does this only but women do it to.. try sitting at a table with a girl you took with you unzips your pants pulls out your cock and sits on it and rides your dick .. she has on a dress or a skirt but no panties .. but people wonder what’s going on when she’s moaning and groaning while she is sitting on your lap

Sure Jan