Shawn Mendes

I don’t think he’s straight. I can sense who really is and who isn’t. Even feminine men with feminine voices can be 100% straight. You will find a ton of these in California. Masculine men can 100% be gay. You will find these men in very conservative cities or rural areas. Therefore, masculinity and femininity are not dead give aways.

I don’t know what I pick up on but it’s something. Shawn does not have what other straight guys exude. Idk what it is.

Also, 98% of the guys we all drool about will be straight. It’s a fact of life. However, Shawn is not one of them.

Also, the fact that he has to “prove that I am straight” is a dead give away. It’s like he’s nervous and ashamed about it. I don’t get why though. He has enough money and is respected by so many…he can still have what comes naturally to straight guys (e.g., sex, marriage, children). I don’t get it?
 
I don’t think he’s straight. I can sense who really is and who isn’t. Even feminine men with feminine voices can be 100% straight. You will find a ton of these in California. Masculine men can 100% be gay. You will find these men in very conservative cities or rural areas. Therefore, masculinity and femininity are not dead give aways.

I don’t know what I pick up on but it’s something. Shawn does not have what other straight guys exude. Idk what it is.

Also, 98% of the guys we all drool about will be straight. It’s a fact of life. However, Shawn is not one of them.

Also, the fact that he has to “prove that I am straight” is a dead give away. It’s like he’s nervous and ashamed about it. I don’t get why though. He has enough money and is respected by so many…he can still have what comes naturally to straight guys (e.g., sex, marriage, children). I don’t get it?
: unamused: oh wow, a magical sexuality sensor-detector
 
I don’t think he’s straight. I can sense who really is and who isn’t. Even feminine men with feminine voices can be 100% straight. You will find a ton of these in California. Masculine men can 100% be gay. You will find these men in very conservative cities or rural areas. Therefore, masculinity and femininity are not dead give aways.

I don’t know what I pick up on but it’s something. Shawn does not have what other straight guys exude. Idk what it is.

Also, 98% of the guys we all drool about will be straight. It’s a fact of life. However, Shawn is not one of them.

Also, the fact that he has to “prove that I am straight” is a dead give away. It’s like he’s nervous and ashamed about it. I don’t get why though. He has enough money and is respected by so many…he can still have what comes naturally to straight guys (e.g., sex, marriage, children). I don’t get it?
“i don’t know what it is, but i know he’s not straight”

maybe read your paragraph before you press send
 
I don’t think he’s straight. I can sense who really is and who isn’t. Even feminine men with feminine voices can be 100% straight. You will find a ton of these in California. Masculine men can 100% be gay. You will find these men in very conservative cities or rural areas. Therefore, masculinity and femininity are not dead give aways.

I don’t know what I pick up on but it’s something. Shawn does not have what other straight guys exude. Idk what it is.

Also, 98% of the guys we all drool about will be straight. It’s a fact of life. However, Shawn is not one of them.

Also, the fact that he has to “prove that I am straight” is a dead give away. It’s like he’s nervous and ashamed about it. I don’t get why though. He has enough money and is respected by so many…he can still have what comes naturally to straight guys (e.g., sex, marriage, children). I don’t get it?
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I don’t think he’s straight. I can sense who really is and who isn’t. Even feminine men with feminine voices can be 100% straight. You will find a ton of these in California. Masculine men can 100% be gay. You will find these men in very conservative cities or rural areas. Therefore, masculinity and femininity are not dead give aways.

I don’t know what I pick up on but it’s something. Shawn does not have what other straight guys exude. Idk what it is.

Also, 98% of the guys we all drool about will be straight. It’s a fact of life. However, Shawn is not one of them.

Also, the fact that he has to “prove that I am straight” is a dead give away. It’s like he’s nervous and ashamed about it. I don’t get why though. He has enough money and is respected by so many…he can still have what comes naturally to straight guys (e.g., sex, marriage, children). I don’t get it?
You need to educate yourself... This is just an awful comment to make.
 
It's called wishradar and yeah I agree, many of you have it. Especially towards rich millionaires you know nothing about...
Just to put things clear: some extent Gaydar exists and its pretty effective, especially (but not exclusively) when it happens in "real life" (people you can see, talk and/or observe without layers of filters).

The fact that many chronically online people put their wishful thinking and project their own fantasies in famous people thousands of kilometers away from them doesn't change its existence.

It's possible to call out toxic fantasies and still have functional gaydar.
 
It's called wishradar and yeah I agree, many of you have it. Especially towards rich millionaires you know nothing about...
I know what I know. I've slept with who I've slept with. I have only been surprised twice.
 
Just to put things clear: some extent Gaydar exists and its pretty effective, especially (but not exclusively) when it happens in "real life" (people you can see, talk and/or observe without layers of filters).

The fact that many chronically online people put their wishful thinking and project their own fantasies in famous people thousands of kilometers away from them doesn't change its existence.

It's possible to call out toxic fantasies and still have functional gaydar.
I disagree. A lot of gays use the excuse of having a gay radar to project dated and sad stereotypes onto people. You can't tell someone's sexuality by watching someone you don't know. it is not a thing, I'm sorry. Maybe it was 60 years ago when we had to hide our identity, when toxic masculinity was at its peak, when anything considered feminine or different meant gay, but it's not now. And no, I'm not talking about celebs here I'm talking about real life people you meet. Lost count of friends who claimed someone wasn't straight because of their bsradar just to be wrong big time lol.
 
Just to put things clear: some extent Gaydar exists and its pretty effective, especially (but not exclusively) when it happens in "real life" (people you can see, talk and/or observe without layers of filters).

The fact that many chronically online people put their wishful thinking and project their own fantasies in famous people thousands of kilometers away from them doesn't change its existence.

It's possible to call out toxic fantasies and still have functional gaydar.
Gaydar is thought to be a survival mechanism for gay men to detect other gay men. It helps them find other partners in a small dating pool. Erroneously assuming a man is gay and pursuing him can have serious consequences in today’s homophobic society.

I definitely don’t think my impression of Shawn reflects wishdar. A lot of guys that y’all think or want to be gay are 100% straight. Shawn is definitely gay and is clearly experiencing internalized homophobia.
 
I disagree. A lot of gays use the excuse of having a gay radar to project dated and sad stereotypes onto people. You can't tell someone's sexuality by watching someone you don't know. it is not a thing, I'm sorry. Maybe it was 60 years ago when we had to hide our identity, when toxic masculinity was at its peak, when anything considered feminine or different meant gay, but it's not now. And no, I'm not talking about celebs here I'm talking about real life people you meet. Lost count of friends who claimed someone wasn't straight because of their bsradar just to be wrong big time lol.
No, I think gaydar is a survival mechanism. It evolved as a way to help us find other partners in a very small dating pool and unsafe world.

I have had friends assume a guy was gay and he was certainly not. Likewise, i suspected guys were gay even though everyone believed they were straight and my suspicions turned out to be accurate.
 
I definitely don’t think my impression of Shawn reflects wishdar. A lot of guys that y’all think or want to be gay are 100% straight. Shawn is definitely gay and is clearly experiencing internalized homophobia.
you don’t know him to even come to this conclusion and it’s extremely weird for you to even insinuate this.