Size and positions

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Nicky: Hi Gang,

I'd like to know what positions you lot reckon are enhanced or made possible by the extra length we're carrying. Any acrobats out there able to undertake weird, contorted positions? And who's writing their very own kama sutra, eh?

Cheers!

Nicky

 

[jonb]

Doggystyle, cowgirl, standing up, spider (laying opposite each other with the lower half of your legs forming an X with hers,) all anal positions (if you're gay,) frottage (also gay.) That's just what I can think of.

I know the pile driver and double penetration are made worse by it.

 

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ruscorp: I can't help you there dude. I have to be gentle! 8)

 

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johnholmeshorse: Doggystyle works pretty good, but I have to be careful to go too far or I will it the cervix which will put everything out of comission for a few days. The position that works the best of she is on top and she can control how much of me she want to take in. Also,what works well is when her legs are by my head and vice verca and she can slide the amount she wants. It's kinda cool to just watch just her torso bob up and down as she invaginates as much as she wants and at varying speeds. Grrrrrrrrr!

 

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TooDamnBig: [quote author=jonb link=board=meetgreet;num=1033943424;start=0#1 date=10/06/02 at 16:07:16]Doggystyle, cowgirl, standing up, spider (laying opposite each other with the lower half of your legs forming an X with hers,) all anal positions (if you're gay,) frottage (also gay.) That's just what I can think of.[/quote]

Why are you attributing anal sex and frottage to "if you're gay"? Last time I checked, those positions were practiced by heterosexuals as well.

 

[jonb]

Frottage is rubbing two penises together. As for anal, I know heterosexuals do it too, but the main appeal of bottoming is the prostate gland, which is an extreme pleasure point. (The gay guys I know say that's the understatement of the new millennium, but I can't describe it any other way, having never had anal sex.)

 

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TooDamnBig: [quote author=jonb link=board=meetgreet;num=1033943424;start=0#5 date=10/08/02 at 17:10:13]Frottage is rubbing two penises together.[/quote]

This can still happen for heterosexuals as well. Many a couple have "dry humped" (humping with clothes on to the point of orgasm) -- as their version of safe-sex, or Bill Clinton non-sex. This is frottage.

 

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TooDamnBig: [quote author=jonb link=board=meetgreet;num=1033943424;start=0#5 date=10/08/02 at 17:10:13]As for anal, I know heterosexuals do it too, but the main appeal of bottoming is the prostate gland, which is an extreme pleasure point. (The gay guys I know say that's the understatement of the new millennium, but I can't describe it any other way, having never had anal sex.)[/quote]

If anal sex is mainly for the benefit of gay couples and stimulating a prostate, why does almost every str8 porn video at some point prominently feature anal sex? I don't think women have prostates... It's obvious what the guy is getting fromthe experience, byut what is the woman getting (besides paid, in a porn video...)?

I suspect the emphasis on the prostate as a "pleasure point" for many may be true -- I can't imagine it's that universal, or every guy we know would be lined up for their annual digital rectal exams -- which most men seem to want to avoid.

There must be more to anal insertion than just simply prostate stimulation.

 

[jonb]

Str8 porn targets men. That's probably the only explanation for why the men in str8 movies are so d4mn ugly. So the women don't get much out of it.

 

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TooDamnBig: [quote author=jonb link=board=meetgreet;num=1033943424;start=0#8 date=10/09/02 at 12:48:07]Str8 porn targets men. That's probably the only explanation for why the men in str8 movies are so d4mn ugly. So the women don't get much out of it.[/quote]

I dunno -- I think lately, the porn industry has had more men to choose from. Vids I've seen of late have featured pretty decent looking men.

I think most people would rather see a hot looking couple doin it, rather than a couple where one of them, even the guy, is butt-ugly.

 

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erostonic: Hey, guys. Please answer me this:

Has it been your experience that when you are sexin' a woman on a regular basis that she will get "longer" inside? I know she will eventually stretch for the width but what about the length? My dude is around 11" and I'm wondering will there be a time when I can take him all in.

He wants to pick me up and slide me up and down on his dick, but I'm scared as hell for him to do that. Even though the thought of that turns me on, I fear being "impaled." I can just see his hand slipping or him getting too excited and then he hits an ovary or worse; goes through my cervix. OWWIE!

 

[Max]

I'm only an inch shorter than your b/f (less than that at my maximum), so my experience may be relevant. At the start, you may not be able to handle very much of him, especially if he has extreme girth to match the length. Later you gradually increase depth, and some stretching seems to go on, but there comes a point when no further increase in depth is possible.

For the record, I always seem to have I guess one or more likely closer to two inches out in the cold.

 

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erostonic: Hey, Max!

Thanks for your response. Yes, he has about 2" blowing in the wind, too! ;D

 

[jonb]

[quote author=erostonic link=board=meetgreet;num=1033943424;start=0#10 date=10/10/02 at 23:56:58]Hey, guys.  Please answer me this:

Has it been your experience that when you are sexin' a woman on a regular basis that she will get "longer" inside?  I know she will eventually stretch for the width but what about the length?  My dude is around 11" and I'm wondering will there be a time when I can take him all in.

He wants to pick me up and slide me up and down on his dick, but I'm scared as hell for him to do that.  Even though the thought of that turns me on, I fear being "impaled."  I can just see his hand slipping or him getting too excited and then he hits an ovary or worse; goes through my cervix.  OWWIE!
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He won't hit an ovary, but he could go through your cervix. Guys, it's like when we're hit in the balls.

Your best chance is if he knows where your vagina ends. Does he know? Large guys quickly learn to be gentle, so sex starts to be more of the type you see in romance novels.

 

[Max]

Erostonic ...

What you could do (and I forgot to say this) is to use "donuts". We call them "doughnuts" over here.

I don't mean the type you eat, but a ring or more likely in his case rings, placed round his sceptre at the base. That way, once you are used to his length, or he knows how much of it you can take, as jonb suggests, he can begin to thrust HARD with no danger to either of you, because the excess length is taken care of.

A lot of guys use pillows or cushions for this; or do as my nearest and dearest did, when she tied a towel round me; also we have used rubber rings, or some guys use the ones that go with penis pumps. Whatever you use, it can feel a bit odd, but it gives you the feeling of security and him (at last) the feeling of freedom.

Good luck!

 

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erostonic: Max, that is an EXCELLENT idea! I've never heard of that but it sounds like something that I would feel comfortable using.

I hope he doesn't look at me crazy when I suggest it but I sure AM gonna suggest it! I wonder if I could find them in the sex/porn shop. I'm going shopping tonite!

 

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erostonic: Hey, jonb!

He SHOULD know because when he goes in too deep, I push him away on his hips or his belly with my hands. But now that you mentioned it, I'm not really sure. We haven't been sexin' that long (about a month) and I think sometimes he gets excited and forgets. I'm gonna try that donut thingy that Max was talking about. I've never seen one before; I hope I can find one.

If y'all know of any website I can order it from, please let me know.

Thanks!

 

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danorogers: You should not have to worry if you can accomadate "all" of you partner,,I am larger in length and girth than your lover and my partner cannot take 'it' all..and that is ok with me and her ,,90% of sex with a guy is in his head (both of them) and if you can do that then have fun and enjoy.!!

 

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erostonic: Hey, Dan!

Yeah, you're right. I just hating thinking he's not having as much fun as I am. But I'll get over it soon enough.

 

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tenntugger: Most of the women I have had like to be on top facing me so they can control the penetration. I also like it when they get on top with back to me, in that position we can both lay back and I can buck hard with out the worry of going too deep due to the position.

Another is have her lay on her stomach with her leggs straight down and I mount her with my leggs open and enter from behind. That way I can thrust hard and not go too deep.

My current girlfriend could not take all of me unless she was really worked up but she can take it now. But I am not as big as some of you.