Str8 guy: tried first semi homo experience last night

[sophomore19]

Sorry you are gay.

well thank God xxxwolverinexxx is here to educate everyone on what their own sexuality is. What would we do without him??

 

[kurt bishop]

well thank God xxxwolverinexxx is here to educate everyone on what their own sexuality is. What would we do without him??

Yeah... You are so right .... Man who would have though that.

 

[djmoney]

Sorry you are gay.

says the guy named after a comic book character.

 

[novice_btm]

Yeah... You are so right .... Man who would have though that.

says the guy named after a comic book character.

Where's the "Like" button when you need it? :tongue:

 

[malakos]

if you want a boyfriend, THAT makes you gay.

No... only being interested in men sexually is what would do that.

 

[malakos]

(Hint: we should all follow his example!)

How so?

 

[djmoney]

well...I did it again. Just happened on tuesday. I've been feeling extra deviant lately and I found a great glory hole close to my place by a "str8" guy. He also asked if I was interested in fucking him with a condom...I had mixed feelings about that but hey, it's through a glory hole, an ass is an ass.

Anyway, I get there, nervous as hell. I stick my cock in the thin sheet and the guy is a great cock sucker. In the back of my mind, Im wondering how do I bring up that I don't want to cum to fast so I can possibly fuck his tight asshole. So I say, "wait, Im gonna cum, not yet." He stops and I pull my cock out. Waiting for him to stick a condom through. Instead, out comes a fat fucking cock. Holy shit...It's really big and my insticnt is to start stroking it. I stroke it, rub it against my cock, compare it, frot...I mean it's super hot. Note, I had no desire to suck it or taste it at all. I also selfishly didn['t want the guy to cum on me or my clothes...So I stop stroking too hard. I tell him Im about to cum, bust my nut and just leave.

Later in the day and the day after I felt pretty gross about the whole thing...I dunno. Anyway, just sharing.

 

[Jimmyd312]

Nothing gross about what you did. Too many people want to put labels on human sexuality. I see it that you were super horned up again and you needed to get it off. How or with whom really didn't matter at the time. So what you enjoyed it, now relax and don't over think it.

 

[notN2pussy]

stuff happens, don't sweat it

 

[Silvertip]

... Later in the day and the day after I felt pretty gross about the whole thing ...

I believe that your feeling gross has a lot less to do with you than with the puritanical society within which you were raised. Most definitely do not worry about it and don't let it inhibit your sexual experiences going ahead.

 

[Mister2101]

I believe that your feeling gross has a lot less to do with you than with the puritanical society within which you were raised. Most definitely do not worry about it and don't let it inhibit your sexual experiences going ahead.

Well said. I felt "ashamed" or grossed-out after the first few times I had sex with a man....After awhile, I remember feeing how natural it felt to rub my cock against another man's cock, or to taste and feel a hard dick in my mouth. Feels like the most natural thing in the world. Good for you bro. Just let go and enjoy the sexual feelings, desire, and pleasure...

 

[novice_btm]

I believe that your feeling gross has a lot less to do with you than with the puritanical society within which you were raised...

Well said. I felt "ashamed" or grossed-out after the first few times I had sex with a man...

I agree, and disagree with these. I agree, with everything that you both said, except I disagree that it was necessarily because another guy was involved.

A friend and I joke, but at the same time are serious about the "remorse stage". Very often after I cum, even from masturbating, no guy or girl even involved, just me, I hit a "remorse stage" afterwards. Neither of us can figure out why it happens, if it's from guilt about what we were thinking during, or those final moments before that made us pop, or whatever, but I frequently get an "Eew", or "gross" feeling later. I think it's more common than you realize. I thought it was just me, until I oddly found out that this friend of mine has the same thing happen.

I texted him once, just to say "hi." It ends up that his wife was out, and he was mid-porn stroking, and he started telling me about the vid. I just told him I wasn't in the mood. He was surprised that I wasn't interested, which prompted me to try to explain the "remorse stage", which more surprisingly, he knew exactly what I was talking about. So, I don't think that the post-experience, or post-"O", "gross" feeling is as uncommon as you might think. I hope this is one of those cases where it helps to know that it's not just you that has these kind of things happen.

 

[hot-rod]

hey guys,

well I've done it...my 1% has finally come out. First of all, this is 100% true. I'm not trying to make up any BS so here me out. I'm a dude who has always loved women and I at most have always loved watching porn with big cocked guys. I'm above average which in the real world means I'm big. Every girl I've been with has loved my cock and I'm quite proud. I've never kissed a man, the most I've ever done was mutually jerk with a guy years ago and we both jerked each other for 10 seconds.

I haven't been getting pussy from my gf the last 2 weeks cause she's out of town. I was on CL just messing around. I found an ad for a glory hole set up by a female and male couple. I sent some pics and they sent some info about their set up. I thought, why not? sounds fun. As I was on the way, the guy sent me a vid of a huge dick in the glory hole with his wifes hand around it. I was raging hard. I asked, is that guy going to be there when I arrive? They asked if I was ok with it...I thought....why not?

So I get there and nobody else is in the room...There's str8 porn playing on a laptop, rest of the room is dark and boom...there's the glory hole. I'm a little nervous at this point because there's a strong chance that both a man and a woman will be sucking me off right now. I pull my pants down and im not hard at all...Clearly nerves are getting to me. But I just shoved my cock in the hole which is totally covered, I can't see anything. All of a sudden I start getting an amazing blowjob...my cock comes to life. Then the door opens...it's another dude I play it cool...the guy takes his pants off and has a pretty nice cock. im watching the porn in the corner and him jerk. I take my dick out of the hole and tell him to go for it...he grabs my dick and jerks for 10 seconds and asks if that's cool...why not? he then asks to suck it, but I say no. He sticks his dick in the hole and starts to get blown. I'm watching porn and jerking my cock...I really wished we could have both put our dicks in there at the same time! he pulls out and I wanted to frot or rub dicks...instead I just shove my dick in the hole. I watch porn and him stroking...no touching, nothing, not even eye contact.

I shot my load and fuck, it was incredible. I looked at him and said you're on your own now dude...and left. Feeling very weird...Odds are a man just sucked my dick. Another man saw my hard cock, jerked it and asked to suck it...crazy! Anyway, that's it...So what do you guys think? Normal? Or am I secretly gay? :tongue:

Here are pics of the guy's dick btw

You're certainly gay now dude.....lol

 

[cockloveroslo]

Sounds really hot. I`m a gay guy. Put up a gloryhole this summer in my apt. Had lots of guys stopping by and most of the guys where actually bi/straight guys (at least they presented them self that way online). A total turnon for me. So I just love to blow you straight guys. Always very pleased to get a good blowjob!

 

[919286]

I've also had the remorse or guilt immediately after cumming. It's primarily from your upbringing. Most of us if not all had parents that would get all bent up if we were naked, if we touched it, etc... Therefore, it's easy to see how we relate a negative to our own penis.

Take the private at home influence and add school time bullying and picking during puberty and you have a double tap of negativity attached to your penis. I remember seeing some older boys make the hand stroke gesture while laughing in relation to one of their buddies. This plays hell in your own mind. I was made fun of because of a prick asking what color was cum. Afterwards he told everyone I was gay and playing with myself all bc I was educated lol. And had hit puberty before him.

 

[malakos]

Nothing gross about what you did.

"Gross" is a highly subjective matter. If it felt gross to him that means it was gross for him.

 

[Jimmyd312]

"Gross" is a highly subjective matter. If it felt gross to him that means it was gross for him.

Really? I feel gross about you. Remember, gross is a highly subjective matter.

 

[malakos]

Really? I feel gross about you. Remember, gross is a highly subjective matter.

What do you know about me what would warrant being grossed out?

 

[novice_btm]

Boys, please stay on topic. The thread is about a man's journey. The bickering would be better in PM's.

 

[chrisj428]

A friend and I joke, but at the same time are serious about the "remorse stage". Very often after I cum, even from masturbating, no guy or girl even involved, just me, I hit a "remorse stage" afterwards. Neither of us can figure out why it happens, if it's from guilt about what we were thinking during, or those final moments before that made us pop, or whatever, but I frequently get an "Eew", or "gross" feeling later. I think it's more common than you realize. I thought it was just me, until I oddly found out that this friend of mine has the same thing happen.

I understand completely - do the same thing myself. I think it has something to do with feeling badly about succumbing to such intense carnal pleasure.