Straight But X% Gay?

[Aejon04]

Hey there,

Since joining LPSG, I’ve seen an overwhelming number of profiles where straight guys indicate being a small percentage gay. I’m curious about what this means to you personally if you’re someone that said “I’m straight but 5% or 10% gay”. What do you mean with that? How far have you gone or would you go with another guy?

Part of my reason for asking is that when I was in my early 20s, I gave head to a few different straight guys. They loved it, I loved it, but it never seemed to be a confusing experience for them, but it was a bit for me. Their only concern ever seemed to be “don’t talk about it”. But they were always on board for more, even if it meant skipping meeting up with a girl for the night.

Of course all of that stuff ended when we moved our separate ways, and I see they still identify as completely straight... who knows if they still seek out men or if that was just a moment in time with me.

I’m just a bit fascinated by all of this based on my experience and I’d love to understand from you guys what it means for you, what are your thoughts, feelings and desires? In certain cases would you prefer a man over a woman? How do you seek out your encounters with guys, or is it more of if you’re approached by a guy then you’d consider it or act on it?

I’m excited for your thoughts!

 

[deleted4500261]

I haven’t had experiences with any men. I put that on my profile because if I were ever to do an MFM threeway I would “go with the flow” and if the situation felt comfortable and everyone was inspired maybe something would happen in that area. So maybe my percentage is misleading, although I wasn’t intending it to be.
Given that I haven’t had any gay experiences maybe I should change that but you know, the door isn’t shut on the possibilty sooooo...

 

[Aejon04]

That’s insightful. So for you, you wouldn’t seek it but if a situation came up where something could happen, you might just lean in and try it. Any boundaries there? Would you be more open to just touching or mutual head, go as far as penetration? Or is it completely about what feels right in that moment?

 

[Aejon04]

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[steve2727]

I hope you aren't expecting any consistency in what those %s mean! Obviously a % is totally inadequate to describe a human being's sexuality, but I suppose it does help give a teeny bit of context when you read someone's posts without having to read an essay...

So for me, I'm not sure I can correctly describe myself as 'straight', but on balance think it's probably less misleading than 'bisexual'.

For me, I have a couple of very long time friends who I've had sex with occassionally (but more than once). I've also had sex with other guys as part of mmf threesomes, again, just on a few occassions.

I've never been interested in sex just with guys, outside of those couple of friends, or in romantic relationships with men. I sometimes enjoy bisexual orgies in porn, but never really been interested in gay porn.

So if I had to put a number on it, 90% straight 10% gay seems as good as any.

 

[RJ5on1]

Straight here, fascinated with Dick and Cum. So I gave 5% to each of them.

 

[Aejon04]

I hope you aren't expecting any consistency in what those %s mean! Obviously a % is totally inadequate to describe a human being's sexuality, but I suppose it does help give a teeny bit of context when you read someone's posts without having to read an essay...

So for me, I'm not sure I can correctly describe myself as 'straight', but on balance think it's probably less misleading than 'bisexual'.

For me, I have a couple of very long time friends who I've had sex with occassionally (but more than once). I've also had sex with other guys as part of mmf threesomes, again, just on a few occassions.

I've never been interested in sex just with guys, outside of those couple of friends, or in romantic relationships with men. I sometimes enjoy bisexual orgies in porn, but never really been interested in gay porn.

So if I had to put a number on it, 90% straight 10% gay seems as good as any.

Thanks! It’s helpful to understand how someone personally defines it. It seems like straight or gay, as binary options, are more about the emotional drive and not the sexual.

 

[ronin001]

When I joined I listed myself as 100% straight. I changed this to 99% after 6 months or so.
The 1% reflects my being a member of this site and my kinship with fellow members be they gay - bi - straight -men - women - trans.
Before I joined my sexual interaction with men was zero, here it is 11 years later and my sexual / physical interaction with men is still zero. I have friendships with men here who are gay -bi;we kid / we joke; but even with offers and opportunities, I have no real desire to find out / be curious. . Hell I live in NY if I had any desire for M M interaction, I am pretty sure I could have hooked up at least once by now

PS: this question was asked / answered a few hundred times before

 

[Aejon04]

When I joined I listed myself as 100% straight. I changed this to 99% after 6 months or so.
The 1% reflects my being a member of this site and my kinship with fellow members be they gay - bi - straight -men - women - trans.
Before I joined my sexual interaction with men was zero, here it is 11 years later and my sexual / physical interaction with men is still zero. I have friendships with men here who are gay -bi;we kid / we joke; but even with offers and opportunities, I have no real desire to find out / be curious. . Hell I live in NY if I had any desire for M M interaction, I am pretty sure I could have hooked up at least once by now

PS: this question was asked / answered a few hundred times before

Sorry! I did search the forums first and didn’t see a specific thread about it, so I thought I’d ask. With the straight guys I was with in my past they never wanted to talk about why they were wanting to hook up with me and it’s always bugged me a little not having any reasoning like “I’m curious about trying it with a guy” or “I just needed to get off and I know you were into me so I took the opportunity”. I thought individuals on this site would be able to give more open thoughts on the matter.

Thanks for your reply!

 

[BuddyX]

I have occasional streaks of bi-curiosity, but I haven’t had any encounters with men.

 

[6711901]

I have occasional streaks of bi-curiosity, but I haven’t had any encounters with men.

Pretty much the same here, a bit of curiosity but i have had a few experiences with a friend waaaay back in the day..... nothing since.

 

[deleted4500261]

That’s insightful. So for you, you wouldn’t seek it but if a situation came up where something could happen, you might just lean in and try it. Any boundaries there? Would you be more open to just touching or mutual head, go as far as penetration? Or is it completely about what feels right in that moment?

Was this question addressed for me?

 

[Aejon04]

Was this question addressed for me?

Yeah!

 

[deleted4500261]

Yeah!

It would be very dependent on who was involved and how loose we all got with each other. I think if it happened naturally I would think anything would be possible. Giving, receiving, penetration, all of it. However the reality is that it probably will never happen. If I were ever single again, who knows? I have been propositioned a few times (some cuckold scenarios and some wanted to watch me have sex with their wives and some wanted a threeway) but wasn’t in a position to accept. Most of the times the man wanted to know if I would be opposed to them holding it or maybe sucking it if it came to that. I told them that if he and his wife were both sucking it to start that I’m sure I would be open to see where it all went. Purely speculative. Who knows if I could even get or stay hard if a man sucked it. Did that answer your question?

 

[Aejon04]

It would be very dependent on who was involved and how loose we all got with each other. I think if it happened naturally I would think anything would be possible. Giving, receiving, penetration, all of it. However the reality is that it probably will never happen. If I were ever single again, who knows? I have been propositioned a few times (some cuckold scenarios and some wanted to watch me have sex with their wives and some wanted a threeway) but wasn’t in a position to accept. Most of the times the man wanted to know if I would be opposed to them holding it or maybe sucking it if it came to that. I told them that if he and his wife were both sucking it to start that I’m sure I would be open to see where it all went. Purely speculative. Who knows if I could even get or stay hard if a man sucked it. Did that answer your question?

Yes, totally. Thanks!

 

[Cooper72]

I don’t much like labels but I listed 1% with the reason being I enjoy looking at what other people have and appreciate a nice package. I’m not interested in romance with another man or trying anal. I do have a newly developed oral curiosity and especially in a threesome situation I would not be opposed to some oral experimentation.

 

[Lance V]

If I had joined 30 years ago I might have put down 50/50. But while I can be romantically involved with a woman I can only be physically involved with a man.

And my experience with woman is vastly greater than with the same sex.

But with me it's any port in a storm. Those ports have primarily been women lately.

 

[6inchcock]

People always say they give 100%, and I am like nah fuck that I am always holding back 10% just to be difficult.

I guess I am digitally 10% because I beat off on cam sometimes.

But if your trying to bend that 10% with the ad nauseum "would a straight guy, blah, blah, blah...." your pretty much not going to get jack or shit and I am probably going to bust your balls just for general purposes