Because some guys can not accept that there is people with bigger dicks..
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The Male Ego
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I just wrote a long explanation and the forum ate it up. Arghh!!!
Anyway, I was saying, I don't understand it either, but I think it is simply a vicious circle.
Some dude decided to lie about his size, and the expectations for internet inches has been set over the years. A genuine 7 incher has a massive penis, but if he were to be honest, he would be thought of as average. So why not just lie?
Generally, my formula is: actual inches = internet inches - 2 (or 3, depending)
But that's just an outsider's view. I never understood the obsession about penis inches and stuff, and I never discuss about my size.
Also, there are a zillion ways to measure. I can measure anywhere between 6 and 10 inches depending on how I measure!
Anyway, I was saying, I don't understand it either, but I think it is simply a vicious circle.
Some dude decided to lie about his size, and the expectations for internet inches has been set over the years. A genuine 7 incher has a massive penis, but if he were to be honest, he would be thought of as average. So why not just lie?
Generally, my formula is: actual inches = internet inches - 2 (or 3, depending)
But that's just an outsider's view. I never understood the obsession about penis inches and stuff, and I never discuss about my size.
Also, there are a zillion ways to measure. I can measure anywhere between 6 and 10 inches depending on how I measure!
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the one thing I have learned is that cams are the best way to verify anything.
In truth, some guys may have accurate pics but there is no way to tell... referencing things that have different dimensions and sizes...
a dick in a pic without anything can be 6 or 10...
depending what you measure it with... it can still be 6 or 10...
so I say "cam and let me see it~ or no, thank you ~ "
Now... does this statement give a blow to the male ego?
In truth, some guys may have accurate pics but there is no way to tell... referencing things that have different dimensions and sizes...
a dick in a pic without anything can be 6 or 10...
depending what you measure it with... it can still be 6 or 10...
so I say "cam and let me see it~ or no, thank you ~ "
Now... does this statement give a blow to the male ego?
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I'm not really sure why a guy would lie about penis size or anything like that when a meeting will take place. That kind of throws me for a loop. Then again, when i begin to think about how desperate some people get when they want something well it doesn't seem so outrageous.
People get rejected for all sorts of reasons, on a regular basis. I think you've listed a good amount of them too. Like hair, weight, career, weight and penis size. Any single one of those could buy a guy a no or a hell no depending on the situation.
Guess they were hoping you'd be one of those women that might say yes as a last minute purchase. Sort of like that shiny twix at the register.
People get rejected for all sorts of reasons, on a regular basis. I think you've listed a good amount of them too. Like hair, weight, career, weight and penis size. Any single one of those could buy a guy a no or a hell no depending on the situation.
Guess they were hoping you'd be one of those women that might say yes as a last minute purchase. Sort of like that shiny twix at the register.
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I don't understand it really either. If your meeting up with someone, why would you say your dick is "x" amount bigger then it really is? I guess it may actually be more so for the guy then it is for the girl. To them, by saying it is that much bigger they may think a girl is that much more turned on by them, thus giving them more confidence. Granted, this still sets them up for denial when it comes time to shine, but nonetheless its my theory.
I do understand though if its something like 7.8" and the guy says 8". Those .2" inches make it sound a lot bigger and its a small round up I suppose.
Good point. I feel the same for girls, but more so just to make sure they are real and not faking their photos/profile.
And my ego is not hurt at all, I don't lie :smile:
I do understand though if its something like 7.8" and the guy says 8". Those .2" inches make it sound a lot bigger and its a small round up I suppose.
Good point. I feel the same for girls, but more so just to make sure they are real and not faking their photos/profile.
And my ego is not hurt at all, I don't lie :smile:
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Well according to these guys (aussie group from the seventies) Ego is not a dirty word, they just neglected to mention it, anyones is fragile. Unless one does not give a shit and is extremley, or over confident. But, there are not many of those thank goodness. We be all human, male or female.
sorry forgot the link...Skyhooks - Ego Is Not A Dirty Word - YouTube
The lead singer died in a helicopter crash. He was the pilot and sole occupant. Guess there were no Skyhooks. ....Ok poor joke in black humour. Knowin Shirley, he would have smiled. My Dad's first name is Shirley, he wanted me to be called Shirl too...cept Mum said no way. Thanks Mum
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the ego is about more than the genitals!
although i have to admit i'm actually more self conscious about the rest of my body rather than the cock and balls. I know they're not big, just mid range average I guess (small balls, tight sack, 5.5" to 6" x 4.9") but you can't change any of this. However as for the rest of me..Well! Lol. I could do with at least +5kg of muscle tone, -10kg of body fat, a bit more of a tan, a less retarded toe and a bit less acne. Such is life!
although i have to admit i'm actually more self conscious about the rest of my body rather than the cock and balls. I know they're not big, just mid range average I guess (small balls, tight sack, 5.5" to 6" x 4.9") but you can't change any of this. However as for the rest of me..Well! Lol. I could do with at least +5kg of muscle tone, -10kg of body fat, a bit more of a tan, a less retarded toe and a bit less acne. Such is life!
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I don't know if that is a male ego. Maybe, desperation to be with you for whatever the reasons they may be.
Men may lie to get what they desire. Women do that. So maybe that is a human thing.
Men may lie to get what they desire. Women do that. So maybe that is a human thing.
I think every man thinks about his size in some way on some level. To small, to big, more girth, less girth....Some get hung up on it more than others and really at the end of the day you got what you got so learned to live with it and realize it's just one part of you.
If you don't meet the wants of a person then move on and find someone that wants what you have to offer. Which should be more than dick or it will fail in the end anyway.
If you don't meet the wants of a person then move on and find someone that wants what you have to offer. Which should be more than dick or it will fail in the end anyway.
I guess I'm the opposite of normal. I never talk my dick up, in fact, I joke about being small (to weed out any chicks that would just be interested in me for my dick). But then I'm not really out to have one night stands anymore. Ive had some really awkward ones, so maybe thats a factor.
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Some of us it appears have little else to go off of to have a sense of self worth, so they grasp at short straws on an attempt to feel better amongst their peers or potential partners. Well, that's my opinion why at least.
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You are very wise, mister .. and speak the truth..
But in my case... I really am after the dick and sexual experiences... Of course the dick is not ALL there is to it... but in MY case....it is very much a big deal!
(I'm not looking for love or cuddle fuzzzies... I just wanna have fun with confident, nice guys with big cocks who wanna share). It's short term yeah.. but that's ok with me.
BWAHAHAHA You were one of the very first guys here to get the Fancy Pants Certification (FPC), avg1000. :tongue: I know you are the real deal... now "hit it".. :tongue: (Maybe you can put a FPC in your signature... hahaha)
LOL Mr. Bull... I think simply a verification pic with your cock beside some universal object is about the best way ... *tape measures work well when used correctly* I've seen lots and lots and lots of real guys on here... but it really wastes a lot of time when you can't cam or show me the money shot! :frown1:
Jerry, just remember. It's not a lie... if you believe it... - YouTube <<pretty much sums it up
have them be straight up if they dont have a cam ask for a full mirror body shot...The honest people tend to get looked over for the liars seems to be how the internet works...Im glad im honest and have a semi retired cam
have them be straight up if they dont have a cam ask for a full mirror body shot...The honest people tend to get looked over for the liars seems to be how the internet works...Im glad im honest and have a semi retired cam
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Just saw all your comments FancyPants. Glad I am FancyPants Certified. If I find myself travelling your way, or you find yourself near Iowa within the next year, or Tallahassee after that, we will have to set something up. I actually became single last night. I rarely travel though, being a poor college student. Maybe this eve I will take a picture just for you, with a FPC badge if that's alright with you?
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