All I'll say on him is that he is free to do what he wants in his personal life but don't bash and spit on the industry and the gay men who gave you $$$ for nearly a decade.

has he been bashing on gay men?
 
So you're saying that he was forced into gay porn for 10 years? I don't believe it.
According to him. I personally don’t believe the forced thing. No one forced him to get in front of the camera and have sex with men. Graphic and explicit sex at that.
 
According to him. I personally don’t believe the forced thing. No one forced him to get in front of the camera and have sex with men. Graphic and explicit sex at that.
I mean how someone can force you to do gay porn?And not only once..He used to be one of the best and famous porn stars.He just doesn't feel ok with himself.That's why he spills this nonsense.
 
I mean how someone can force you to do gay porn?And not only once..He used to be one of the best and famous porn stars.He just doesn't feel ok with himself.That's why he spills this nonsense.
Yup.
Deep down, he knows he likes men but now has an issue with that so he's spewing the garbage that he was "forced."
 
Yup.
Deep down, he knows he likes men but now has an issue with that so he's spewing the garbage that he was "forced."
He does.And it's even worse because he tries to be a life coach these days if i am right.I used to like him a lot and he was mind everytime we met but now god he is trash completely.
 
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I don’t know the full ins and outs of his porn career and personal choices, but if you had a body and schlong like Tommy and we’re G4P, would you not insist on being top only? cant see many studios rejecting him because he wouldn’t bottom.

lots of his scenes surprised me when he was the one getting fucked when I’d have thought the scene would be the other way around, his Donny Wright scenes come to mind.

and him bottoming for Trevor Knight, would you let someone force you to take that!
 
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I don’t know the full ins and outs of his porn career and personal choices, but if you had a body and schlong like Tommy and we’re G4P, would you not insist on being top only? cant see many studios rejecting him because he wouldn’t bottom.

lots of his scenes surprised me when he was the one getting fucked when I’d have thought the scene would be the other way around, his Donny Wright scenes come to mind.

and him bottoming for Trevor Knight, would you let someone force you to take that!

Because it pays more, of course. If his main motivation is the money, and he's already crossed the line into gay sex in the first place, none of it means anything anymore anyway, so why not take the job that pays you more money? Viewers will always want to see a "straight" formerly top-only performer flip, and if he ends up learning it's not as horrible an experience as he thought, all the better.

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I mean how someone can force you to do gay porn?And not only once..He used to be one of the best and famous porn stars.He just doesn't feel ok with himself.That's why he spills this nonsense.
Of course straight hunks can be forced to do gay porn repeatedly against their will. In gay erotica. Lol. Normally everything starts with the threat of exposure of some very humiliating nude pics or videos.......
 
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Tommy Defendi is definitely a gay porn legend with his huge dick, hot body, good looks, and massive cumshots. I wish he'd come back and at least do an onlyfans. I used to follow him on social media, but removed him as he was posting Joe Rogan bullshit and his life coach crap is borderline cultish. I also don't like how he has slowly twisted the narrative of his porn career to suggest that he was in someway not responsible for his decisions.

That said, his videos are legendary and I love this scene of him jerking his massive cock while two guys fuck next to him.


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I love him so much, he was my favourite, beautiful face, big dick , lot of cum I am so sad because he retired, what's up with him ? Where is he now?
Married to a woman and has denounced his gay porn past, saying he was "forced" to do it.
What he really doesn't want to admit is that he enjoyed it.
 
Married to a woman and has denounced his gay porn past, saying he was "forced" to do it.
What he really doesn't want to admit is that he enjoyed it.
Like so many do…. It’s pathetic. Reminds me of Kyle Connors and his recent denial.