So? If he identifies as straight why would he look back fondly at having to have had sex with men for money? If I, as a gay man, had made my money letting women squirt in my mouth in my formative years I'd likely look back on that with indifference at best.
If you looked at those voluntary years with indifference and try to distance yourself from your sexual identity I'd lol at you just as much as Tommy Defendi.
This.
Of course he wasn't. But we all know the industry is a way to earn money and feed one's addiction. Don't pretend the porn industry is totally innocent.
Yeah he could’ve just had sex with women. Every time I hear them say, I did gay porn because it pays more. Ummm you could’ve done str8 porn too and just put in more work. Your str8 self could’ve been engaging with women and getting paid for the scenes. Who knows, you could’ve made it to Johnny Sins type status but you did gay porn because you like having sex with men too. Just cut the crap excuses already.
Right, like how many gay or g4p performers die prematurely in the porn industry? People on this thread make it sound like some virtuous place.
It just gets to be exhausting. You get sick of these guys making it sound like homosexual activity is the last degrading act, last resort or like it’s some sort of torturous matter. When in reality it’s just not the truth.
Far from virtuous Agreed. Absolutely. But also... contractual and consensual. The main issue people have with him is his deceitful attempt at suggesting he was forced and feeding a bad narrative. He developed a drug addiction and got wildly out of control but he wasn't forced to do any of it.
This.
We always knew he likes women and probably have no problem with that or how he wants to live his wife. But denying your past and tell lies about it?He doesn't respect not just his fans who thanks to them lived for many years but himself also
Contrary to popular belief, it's actually possible to be attracted to both. Wild I know (and this isn't even about Tommy, I'm speaking in general here)
