Tops: what makes a good bottom?

[fournineteenfiftynine]

Hey top guys - what do you value in a bottom. A recent lover told me I was a good bottom. Wasn't sure exactly what he meant but hey I took the compliment. What do bottoms do that you appreciate or like?

 

[tentinshorts]

Best bottom is one that cums while I am fucking him. Nothing hotter that a guy cumming while being fucked, the ultimate is releasing my load inside him as he is cumming. Only has happened a few time for me.

 

[BillM]

Work that hard cock dry!!

 

[EquusAZ]

A "good bottom" is someone who is in the receiving role and actually is a good lover. They:

Enjoy taking it i.e. dont just lie there.
Are conscientious and "clean out" first.
Can 'read' their partner's mood / desires and react to them.
Focus on making their top cum / have the best orgasm ever.

Basically its someone who likes sex, and is "Active" and thoughtful.

 

[bi_todd]

A good bottom:

- Worships my cock during oral with lots of verbal praise about my size
- Sucks my cock for HIS enjoyment, not mine
- Takes my cock up his ass without pain or complaining
- Does not have a sloppy loose hole
- Robust enough to enjoy an extended pounding (1-2 hours)
- Submissive enough to follow my lead with different positions, but not passive
- Lets me know verbally when I am rocking his world
- Passionate during fucking (stares into my eyes, reaches up to kiss me, etc)
- Begs for me to cum in his ass
- Follows-up: Tells me later how amazing our fuck session was, comments on how good his hole feels getting stretched by my cock, talks nasty about my cum dripping out of his ass, etc.
- Asks for repeat fuck sessions

 

[rleep]

doesn't whine that my dick is too thick and instead asks for more, and it's extra awesome if he is relaxed enough to be able to cum when I fuck him.

 

[Kiwibig]

I would summarize it
- one who is relaxed
- one who can take it balls deep
- one that asks for more and can go on for a while
- one who has a hard-on while fucking him and who can come more or less at the same time as me
- and most of all, one that realy enjoys what he is doing

 

[dlbijock222]

As a bi dude, and one who bottoms and tops, I feel like the best bottoms are the guys who realize (and have the confidence) that it is actually definitely the more masculine role in general, it's not "passive" and it's' definitely not to be disrespected. As a bi dude, sex with a dude is about masculine exchange of energy, it shouldn't even be comparable to sex with women, it has a totally different dynamic (and maybe even a totally different purpose or motivation).
I know there's a whole thing about effeminate bottoms and all that, but in my personal experience it's just not been the case, and it's really awesome when a dude realizes being fucked in his ass is a pretty dope masculine thing to decide to do and especially to agree to enjoying.

 

[BillM]

Best bottom is one that cums while I am fucking him. Nothing hotter that a guy cumming while being fucked, the ultimate is releasing my load inside him as he is cumming. Only has happened a few time for me.

Damn I love when that happens the TOP is pounding your brains out and you are able to CUM about the same time!!

 

[Mister2101]

Work that hard cock dry!! View attachment 757449

Love this position as a bottom.......fills all my senses.....your body very relaxed.......your ass completely relaxed, allowing his cock deep inside of you.......wrapping your arms and legs around the top very tightly...holding him close......riding and working his cock against your prostrate.....and then kissing passionately.....OMG.......immense physical and emotional pleasure......I often cum very quickly when in this position.........uuuuummmmm......

 

[Evenflowten]

I would say what makes a good bottom (as I am one) is to be a bit submissive and aim to please your top. To be up for just about any positions or anything else he wants. To be in tune with what he wants and know just how to send him over the edge. Along with that, the right amount of moaning, and talking like how good he feels and whatnot.

Also, being able to suck a nice dick like it's your job doesn't hurt.

 

[1088364]

I'd say that a good bottom is one that gives great BJs/foreplay in geral (valid for whichever position lol), knows how to take it in without stopping or whining too much, because we know (or should) it takes skills and talent to easily take it all in. Like, not tensing up too often and "stopping the flow".

For example, I remember this guy and I was the first one he bottomed for. He not only had great sucking skills but he also easily took my 6" thick into him after just a bit of foreplay (he actually told me to stop the foreplay and that he was ready), which gave me a feeling of "he must've been born to bottom!" lol and sex with him was great.

Bonus points if he knows how to work the cock with his ass!

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

Damn I love when that happens the TOP is pounding your brains out and you are able to CUM about the same time!! View attachment 757455 View attachment 757455

that happened to me today

 

[bighosenow]

My favorite position is with my bottom on his back and his legs up on my shoulders so I can watch his face when I put my cock in. It's kinda of a turn on for me to watch him struggle to take it. Especially if he's been bragging about his bottoming skills before we start.

 

[mtguy1972]

I agree with Equus. Cleanliness is important. Some degree of tightness. Willingness to try multiple positions. Also I love a verbal bottom. Not over the top porn stuff, but not just lying there silently.

 

[chadstallion]

one that takes time to cleanse before sex.

 

[love2compare]

Best is someone who is responsive to all my passionate activities such as whispering kinky stuff into his ears, cuddling and slowly drilling my average sized dick into the best spots inside that well lubricated tight and smooth little boyhole...

...mmmmh and best if he cums hands free as it happened to me with this handsome 19yo guy as i fucked him from behind. his butt contractions from him cumming felt totally amazing around my super hard cock and almost got me to cum as well just by being inside him!!

 

[Suckmytrick]

A soft ass.

 

[EquusAZ]

I'm going to add to the list.

A great bottom is someone who communicates with their top. Asks them to help take that big dick. Dedicated to hole stretching if nessecary. Then when they can take that big Ile dick they learn how to take it properly. How to relax and tighten that hole on command. Figures out what their tops like and don't.

How do I know this? I've recently become a true power vers. @Aithon and I click so well now thatwhen we have sex there is nothing but pleasure. We talk about what we like and don't like and both as top and bottom, make up one well oiled communicative sexual pair.

Communicate.

Our as I should coin the phrase cummunicate.

 

[EquusAZ]

A "good bottom" is someone who is in the receiving role and actually is a good lover. They:

Enjoy taking it i.e. dont just lie there.
Are conscientious and "clean out" first.
Can 'read' their partner's mood / desires and react to them.
Focus on making their top cum / have the best orgasm ever.

Basically its someone who likes sex, and is "Active" and thoughtful.

Now to follow up.

Since I wrote this post I became 100% vers with @Aithon and let me tell you - that boy is packing some serious dick.

So - with that in mind:
A good bottom can put their money where their mouth is. If you SAY you can take it, you better be able to.
Communicate DURING sex about how things are going and if things are uncomfortable - be able to let the top know what to do to correct things.
Be imaginative. Lets face it - "Oh yes, fuck me harder" is probably the most over used saying out there. Say something else during sex. Like "Oh god your deep inside of me, lets see if you can get any...oh yes...deeper...like that"

In the end its about making things work for the both of you.